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Another "how to pick up girls at the club" thread (pg. 5)
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| Miss Bliss |
| quote: | Originally posted by politicsofdancin
haha good one miss bliss..that is so true...besides, i don't make guys pay for my drinks..i can get my own thank you very much. whats up with the grabbing? NO NEED!. also girls hate it when we get grabbed from spastic guys in a club ugh:mad: who are you to touch me? i have no clue where you are getting that your pick up skills is the way to be..coz i just want you to wake you up! IT IS ABSOLUTELY THE WRONG WAY TO GO...try pick up lines for dummies, i think it is way better than what you think is the proper way to get a girls attention :haha: |
it IS so true, right :p
actually, i WISH someone once tried a funny pick up line on me... that would be hilarious and i'd think he's at least creative :toothless |
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| Orbax |
| You could also just volunteer for an all female half marathon to help setup and support the runners...or stuff like that. Then you can actually talk and be normal human beings under the sun. |
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| politicsofdancin |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
i'd just like to say that girls can be grabby too. i know its not what you ladies have to put up with, but it does happen. |
well i believe that we can only be grabby when A: we know the guy or B: we established an attraction ..i think thats what i think and what my other girlfriends do...we just don't go up to guys and act like we are soo desperate coz we are not! i 'am totally happy going there to dance and enjoy the music...besides, i have a bf so i don't have to worry about this and was never was my number 1 concern anyways.:D |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by politicsofdancin
well i believe that we can only be grabby when A: we know the guy or B: we established an attraction ..i think thats what i think and what my other girlfriends do...we just don't go up to guys and act like we are soo desperate coz we are not! i 'am totally happy going there to dance and enjoy the music...besides, i have a bf so i don't have to worry about this and was never been my number 1 concern anyways.:D |
i didn't say you, but some women. i can't tell you how many times i've had random people come up and start dancing with me, grinding their ass into my and grabbing it and . i'm usually drunk so i don't care that much, but i've had it happen when i've been there with other people and that's not cool... |
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| politicsofdancin |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
i didn't say you, but some women. i can't tell you how many times i've had random people come up and start dancing with me, grinding their ass into my and grabbing it and . i'm usually drunk so i don't care that much, but i've had it happen when i've been there with other people and that's not cool... |
:haha: :haha: :haha: well you must be a hot tamali then :p |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by politicsofdancin
:haha: :haha: :haha: well you must be a hot tamali then :p |
i think its more cock-starved women looking for a good time hehehe
damn american whorish women...once again that's why i said i don't usually try and meet people at bars or clubs.. |
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| Miss Bliss |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
You could also just volunteer for an all female half marathon to help setup and support the runners...or stuff like that. Then you can actually talk and be normal human beings under the sun. |
or you could just walk around and live your life under the sun without purposely going out of your way to pick up members of the opposite sex all the time. ;) i know no one (and have heard of very few people) who's met a meaningful, more than 2 week bf/gf in a club, bar, or any other place that they came just to scout girls/guys... |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Miss Bliss
i know no one (and have heard of very few people) who's met a meaningful, more than 2 week bf/gf in a club, bar, or any other place that they came just to scout girls/guys... |
see that's what i'm talking about. what's the point? i don't wanna hook up with some chick one night and then that's it. i don't know...that's just not my style...i usually end up in relationships... |
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| Miss Bliss |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
see that's what i'm talking about. what's the point? i don't wanna hook up with some chick one night and then that's it. i don't know...that's just not my style...i usually end up in relationships... |
+1 to you ;)
i feel like i've been seein a trend of this lately
edit: and all this talk about hookups vs. bfs made me wanna change my avatar ;) |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Miss Bliss
+1 to you ;)
i feel like i've been seein a trend of this lately
edit: and all this talk about hookups vs. bfs made me wanna change my avatar ;) |
maybe its the getting older thing hehehe...but i've never been one to randomly hook up with people. and i don't really have any morals or religious code...i suppose the only reason is that i don't want to catch something hehehe..
edit: i don't have anyone to put in my avatar :( so i'll just have to continue my love affair with oliver lieb and monica bellucci :D.. |
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| jdat |
| I try not to get girls from clubs cause you never know where they've been :disbelief :stongue: |
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| Orbax |
I wasnt saying to volunteer specifically for the purpose of meeting women. Itd be a fun good thing to do, good on resumes and applications and youd getter a better understanding of how that stuff works. Im just saying try to do SOME activities where there might be a potential of meeting a cool girl. Trust me, hiking, running, biking...you just arent gonna meet people. Charity work and volunteering give you some quality time with people (guys and girls) and you can meet new friends and genrally new people to hang out with.
Bars are gay, I honestly enjoy warm vodka in my room and the CORe more than bars. Friends ask me out, im like, "Nah, gotta get drunk in my room and post on TA, have a good one though"
then they inevitably come back with some annoying story about how some bitch did this, or some jackass did that...i just sit there and smile, and remember how much non-annoyance i had the night before.
You read all the askmen articles on dating and picking up chicks and its all lines and attitutes in bars and clubs and how to get them home and in the sack. And thats because thats what you do in bars and clubs. They have no real advice on normal routes with friends and inviting random people to go do something...
I dunno. Its also a very closed society these days, where everyone is suspicious of the other persons motives. the NorthWest in particular is known for its unfriendliness in the way that no one will talk to you unless you talk to them first...its weird. Everyone from over the world who comes here has told me about it.
but even generally, most people (Im talking Generation X+ here) dont want to get hurt, or hurt anyone else, and just kind of *exist* and if somehow, something falls into their existence, it could possibly be assimilated...its so ing weird, and I hate it. I hate my peers, hehe. When you ask someone whats goin on in their life, they inevitably say "oh not much, you know how it goes" where I think about it and then answer them. And lo and behold!! people think im a great conversationalist!
except TranceBrat, she ditches my ass, frequently
but the point is no one thinks they are interesting enough to talk about. And if YOU dont repsect yourself, no one else is. If you are so boring you cant even think of ONE sentence about whats going on in your life, no wonder you dont have any friends. I can think of whats going on in my life right now in Japanese, Spanish, and Latin!!! and I barely know those languages!
So I guess what im getting at is this: it isnt really WHERE you meet (except bars and clubs, they suck) its HOW you meet. Do you meet by saying hey whats up, heres a little about myself so we can have something to talk about) or just make eye contact, blush furiously, and turn away. HOPING that that sign is enough to figure out that you are really a sensitive person who enjoys the outdoors and trance, and is looking for a meaningful relationship oh and you like cats?!
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Plus, I have also found that most people really ARE boring. I went out with this girl to lunch, and she kept on asking me to tell her stories because she loves them and I finally broke it off and said wait wait wait YOUR turn.
She just thought for a bit and said shes got nothing.
I ask what she does.
Uhm, play guitar and play with my dog.
Do you get outside?
No...but I want to!
yeah yeah yeah, heard it ALLLLLL before. You want to try rockclimbing. Youve played tennis ONCE, your friend played ping pong, you knew a guy who surfed and was going to teach you once, but you never got around to it.
YOURE BORING. Nobody wants to be around someone who has no talent, no skill, no initiative, no motivation.
but, I dont see anything changing in the near future. Gen X will die out small and insignificant, Gen Y will suck and since 6th grade and create a massive over population that has no parents, because marriage no longer means anything, and HEY! 50% divorce anyways, so lets not even bother.
I hate everyone. Screw you. |
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