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Lady Problems !!HELP!! (pg. 4)
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| Goashem |
| theres nothing worst than a lost opportunity. go tell her. if she rejects you you can always say "i didnt like you anyway" :D |
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| DJ Rat 187 |
| quote: | Originally posted by butterfly
sounds to me like she might have been flirting because she was interested but gave up cause you were too slow to act. so ask her out and see if things go well. if htey do, try and get a piece of ass. dont bother telling her how you feel, just see if you can hang out together outside of school and let things go from there.
and have some confidence in yourself. |
that's what I think might have happened, I think she might be pissed because I never made a move, but if I do tell her I won't tell her everything because it will probably freak her out (like some people said).Oh ya and to answer some questions, she is single and I do talk to her, we're pretty good friends, it's not like I admire her from a distance or anything |
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| Trance Nutter |
Bro, like I said the first time, you won't know if you never ask.
JUST DO IT, don't let the opportunity slip away.
Have confidence in yourself, and ask |
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| DJ Rat 187 |
| Damn, I don't know it's like last night I totally had all the confidence and that whole "just do this , no big deal" attitude and this morning I was terrified, like just had no confidence in myself, but I'll just pick a moment (hopefully really soon) |
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| UWM |
Put it in da pooper.
Sorry I'm drunk I already forgot the topic of this thread. |
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| Mebot |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ Rat 187
So I'm like pretty much in love with her .... |
ahahaha
are you sure? |
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| {b.s.e.} |
| quote: | Originally posted by insecurity
DON'T SEND TEH LETTER :rolleyes: |
hehe, i can't believe it wasn't the first thing said in this thread. 8^/ |
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| Arbiter |
99% of the threads people post like this are the same. The person is just too damn shy to make the first move. It's very tiresome...
So, here's my advice:
Don't talk to her. Just forget about it. You aren't ready for a relationship until you have the balls to just ing ask someone out without going on an internet forum asking for reassurance. It is one of the simplest things in the whole ing world to do, and if you can't just do it then you don't belong in a relationship. You don't even belong in the gene pool. |
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| TranceMuzik02 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Arbiter
Don't talk to her. Just forget about it. You aren't ready for a relationship until you have the balls to just ing ask someone out without going on an internet forum asking for reassurance. |
True, however don't you think a relationship will help people with their social anxieties to overcome them and be a more confident person? |
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| Arbiter |
| quote: | Originally posted by TranceMuzik02
True, however don't you think a relationship will help people with their social anxieties to overcome them and be a more confident person? |
In the best-case it might have a similar effect, but I think it is the wrong way to go about it. If your confidence is derived from your relationships with others, then it seems likely be dependent upon them as well. In other words: social successes may make you more confident, but social rejections would make you less confident.
But, a genuinely self-confident person is comfortable enough with himself or herself that the reactions of others are of little consequence.
I think his time would be better spent with some honest introspection. This would also have the benefit of not involving an innocent bystander (her) in his maturation process. |
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| goonerjack |
I know how you feel, I'm in a pretty similar situation at the moment.
And whoever posted that ladder theory, it's probably so old, but so true!
Keep us updated... |
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| ShadoWolf |
| quote: | | and I never wanted to risk it, because I know that if I tell her and it turns out that she doesn't like me then we wont even be friends and it'll be all awkward talking to her. |
Ladder Theory in action. |
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