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Lady Problems !!HELP!! (pg. 5)
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| Trance Nutter |
Alright, someone said before that the problem was that the poor guy was shy..... well, SO AM I. But you gotta believe in yourself, and KNOW yourself.
Its hard, I know. I also know that feeling where you are all confident, but as soon as you see the chick you're ball-less and can't do it.
When you are confident, you can achieve anything you want.
Heres one strategy if you are still having problems. Next time you have a test/exam, organise to meet her in the library for a study session. You can do it with other people too, but just do anything to spend more time with her to get to know her better, and for her to get to know you better. The great thing about study sessions is that it accomplishes two tasks, you study for the test, and if you're anything like me and my mates you'll spend a lot of time talking as well. You don't have to make a move or anything, just do it as friends.
If anyone wonders why I am writing so much about this............ This was me not too long ago, and i know what it is like. |
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| e*motion |
| quote: | Originally posted by Arbiter
99% of the threads people post like this are the same. The person is just too damn shy to make the first move. It's very tiresome...
So, here's my advice:
Don't talk to her. Just forget about it. You aren't ready for a relationship until you have the balls to just ing ask someone out without going on an internet forum asking for reassurance. It is one of the simplest things in the whole ing world to do, and if you can't just do it then you don't belong in a relationship. You don't even belong in the gene pool. |
*agrees* |
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| USMC_Greg |
| quote: | Originally posted by Arbiter
99% of the threads people post like this are the same. The person is just too damn shy to make the first move. It's very tiresome...
So, here's my advice:
Don't talk to her. Just forget about it. You aren't ready for a relationship until you have the balls to just ing ask someone out without going on an internet forum asking for reassurance. It is one of the simplest things in the whole ing world to do, and if you can't just do it then you don't belong in a relationship. You don't even belong in the gene pool. |
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| quote: | Originally posted by DJ Rat 187
Ok, this is the deal, there's this girl that I really like and she was in my classes both semesters this year and there was some flirting going on but I was never sure enough that she likes me and I never wanted to risk it, because I know that if I tell her and it turns out that she doesn't like me then we wont even be friends and it'll be all awkward talking to her. Well the second semester she kind of started playing hard to get but I don't know for sure. So I'm like pretty much in love with her and I don't know whether I should just tell her the whole truth and be real with her or try to go on a date or something with her or hang out with her and her friends etc. but I just don't know what to tell her or how to go about it. So I ask everybody out there to help me out, please, with this situation and give me some advice or how to go about this , please! |
dude..im in a situation like yours..i had this girl in my class we were flirting SHE came to meet me in a party at uni, we were both ed up on drugs, dancing all night together, hugging etc.It seemed she liked me that much, she gave me her number, i called her some days after the party, she didnt answear.i txt'd her she didnt replied.Women r really ing strange.I suggest u to speak to her about how u feel.U dont have anything to lose after all.Go speak to her, its better if u know what she thinks about u (if she likes u or not and if she wants to be with u) than if u dont know wtf is going on, like in the situation i am. ing women... |
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| quote: | Originally posted by Trance Nutter
Grab it with both hands, or else you will never know. That is a much worse feeling than a rejection.
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WORD bro. :) |
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| darkace |
Just tell her "if I were a fly, I'd be all over you cuz you’re the ." It works every time, I swear!
Disclaimer - do not attempt this at home. |
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| Frost_Melt |
here my wasted thought
away just ask her or in the far future when u look back u'll really wish u done it trust me on that, but thats if u say u really luv her
also if u anit round her all day and she does meet someone and gets a bf then whut youll feel like a fool for not askin n it'll be to late. just tell her how u feel n tread lightly. ask her out but dont act like its gonna be to serious or that u are in luv with her or youll scare her off, just go slow but make a move...
i remeber readin a thingy thast said life is whut happens while u makin other plans..
cause example, while u readin this makin up your mind about it whut u wanna do some other bloke could be askin her out right now n hookin in while u missed out on ya chance |
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| USMC_Greg |
| imho it gets easier with experience. Once you've had one or two experiences with a girl, you probably won't be afraid to talk to them anymore. |
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| DJ Rat 187 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Arbiter
99% of the threads people post like this are the same. The person is just too damn shy to make the first move. It's very tiresome...
So, here's my advice:
Don't talk to her. Just forget about it. You aren't ready for a relationship until you have the balls to just ing ask someone out without going on an internet forum asking for reassurance. It is one of the simplest things in the whole ing world to do, and if you can't just do it then you don't belong in a relationship. You don't even belong in the gene pool. |
no, this is the deal, I'm not a shy person at all, first year when I moved to a new school I must have asked out like 20 chics and didn't give a they pretty much all shot me down because they didn't even know me and they were the hottest girls in school but I just saw who was hot and asked them out. I guess that kind of was a bad experience for me and the aftermath wasn't great so I just don't want to look like a jack ass after getting shot down because that is the worst |
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| goonerjack |
| Sorry for the bump, but any updates? |
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| DJ Rat 187 |
| quote: | Originally posted by goonerjack
Sorry for the bump, but any updates? |
I still haven't told her:nervous: , I just need to do it though, no excuses, maybe I need to be under the influence in order to get the confidence to tell her. |
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| Funky^Junkie |
| ok,so u don't have the confidence to tell her...then don't!trust me,girls love this part of the relationship,when they don't know for sure if the guy likes them or not.maybe u should try to make her jealous.even if u may have heard it before,it really works,trust me!and then,watch her reaction...anyway,ask her out!what's the worst thing that could happen?common,u got nuffin to lose.if she refuse u,well,at least u tried.. |
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