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| Orbax |
Its in regards as to keeping a woman interested in you after youve had sex with her:
Make sure that you maintain contact with other women (especially good-looking women). This doesn't mean that you should cheat on her, but that you should cultivate lots of female friends and turn on the charm with other women.
When you do this, she knows that you have options and that she might lose you at any time. Most women are irrationally jealous creatures, so when you have a flock of lovelies orbiting you, it will fan the flames of her desire and she will work harder to make sure you don't get away. |
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| Spad |
| Aye that'd work. I don't think it's just a girl thing though; the same tactic would work on most guys :) |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
Its in regards as to keeping a woman interested in you after youve had sex with her:
Make sure that you maintain contact with other women (especially good-looking women). This doesn't mean that you should cheat on her, but that you should cultivate lots of female friends and turn on the charm with other women.
When you do this, she knows that you have options and that she might lose you at any time. Most women are irrationally jealous creatures, so when you have a flock of lovelies orbiting you, it will fan the flames of her desire and she will work harder to make sure you don't get away. |
sounds like a good way to keep a man interested. women arent that tolerant. |
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| _-MIl0 |
| quote: | Originally posted by butterfly
sounds like a good way to keep a man interested. women arent that tolerant. |
yeah but if your not doing it dont matter, but then again i have a freind he and his girlfreind were perfect together sept that she had to have this one guy as a freind who whenever go the chance came onto her, eventually broke em up |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by _-MIl0
yeah but if your not doing it dont matter, but then again i have a freind he and his girlfreind were perfect together sept that she had to have this one guy as a freind who whenever go the chance came onto her, eventually broke em up |
if they didnt have trust in their relationship then they werent perfect together. |
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| jessicah |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
When you do this, she knows that you have options and that she might lose you at any time. Most women are irrationally jealous creatures, so when you have a flock of lovelies orbiting you, it will fan the flames of her desire and she will work harder to make sure you don't get away. |
I agree with butterfly, women aren't that tolerant. She'll be jealous initially, then she'll go, is he ing worth it? He's a ladiesman, even if he's not cheating. Then she'll drop ya.
...at least, any woman with any decent level of self esteem would drop you. You might get a few crazies who are attached because they've got no ing self esteem. But you wouldn't want that, would you?
(all these relationship posts) |
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| Mr. Pink |
That's a very negative approached......
positive in the sense that DAYUM...you know some fine ladies that possibly wanna screw your brains out if you get single...
but here's the thing...
while in a relationship you want to maintain the fact that your GF is your one and only. Sorry peeps, but when im with a GF (only happened twice) I have to be in love. I wont give up my singledome for no one unless its something serious.
Anyway- have friends. do your thing. keep busy. Make sure to maintain a life that does not include her completely.
I think that's the key.....space....not necessarily with girlies and knowing tons of them....cuz that could jeapordize the relationship, but just with "things" in general.
That way it lets your girlie know that you're a busy man....the time you spend together means something...and its special.
not cuz you're pretending it is....or cuz you got women on the side JUST IN CASE.....but because the woman your with is the only thing that matters.
viva la revolucion! |
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| _-MIl0 |
| quote: | Originally posted by butterfly
if they didnt have trust in their relationship then they werent perfect together. |
well i meant their perfect , in that they actualy loved each other. weather or not they had a functioning relationship is anotherthing |
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| Theresa |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
Its in regards as to keeping a woman interested in you after youve had sex with her:
Make sure that you maintain contact with other women (especially good-looking women). This doesn't mean that you should cheat on her, but that you should cultivate lots of female friends and turn on the charm with other women.
When you do this, she knows that you have options and that she might lose you at any time. Most women are irrationally jealous creatures, so when you have a flock of lovelies orbiting you, it will fan the flames of her desire and she will work harder to make sure you don't get away. |
That wouldn't fly with me. If I was with a guy that had loads of hotties flocking to him, and he encouraged it, I would wonder if he was still "looking" but keeping me around until he has found something new and better to try. I would also become insecure, because I know that he has a choice of many other great women, making me feel inadequate, and so I would just end it there.
By doing this, you wont make the girl your with feel special, unless of course you do super sweet/romantic things for her to make up for it. She will always feel like she is being compared to other women.
Now this in extreme moderation will work, so long as it isn't over done. Such as "A girl asked for my number at the bar last night." Your girlfriend will realize that you were being hit on, meaning that other women are attracted to what she's got, which must be good if they want him too, but it doesn't make her feel too insecure because it wasn't interrogated on your part.
Get it? |
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| jessicah |
I agree completely and wholeheartedly with Theresa.
Girl I thought you went to sleep though :p |
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| Nautilus |
| ASKMEN, n'est-ce pas? |
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| Nautilus |
| quote: | Originally posted by jessicah
I agree with butterfly, women aren't that tolerant. She'll be jealous initially, then she'll go, is he ing worth it? He's a ladiesman, even if he's not cheating. Then she'll drop ya.
...at least, any woman with any decent level of self esteem would drop you. You might get a few crazies who are attached because they've got no ing self esteem. But you wouldn't want that, would you?
(all these relationship posts) |
:haha:. I've learned that most hot, good looking girls have low self-esteem. SO YEAH! I WANT THAT! |
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