|
Do you feel............ (pg. 2)
|
View this Thread in Original format
| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mr. Pink
Dude- first off....
There are 5 love languages:
1. Physical touch
2. Gifts
3. acts of service
4. Words of affirmation
5. Quality time
|
so if i get a prostitute then there could be physical touch, acts of service ;), words of affirmation in this case dirty talk, and sex is quality time right? ...prostitutes is like being in love  |
|
|
| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by jessicah
:eek: |
i know...that has never happened before hehe |
|
|
| jessicah |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lotus
Ok basically, I knew I would have to answer this.
I gave up having a job, my old residence(I moved), and I spent a lot of money...... to be with her. I'm not really whipped in my opinion, just a little more possessive than I seem to have been.
I'm not making her life terrible, although we have argued over such things as this. I told her what I've done and could have done, but she still can't come to a conclusion in her life. I really want to be with her, but now I'm not even sure of myself. Everything seems to be falling apart for me.:( |
I'm pretty hesitant posting any relationship advice given what occured here last week, but seriously, it sounds like she's just confused. If she knows you really want to be with her then maybe you should back off a wee bit and give it time and let her work out her life "conclusions" first.
*edit*
And don't stress about it, don't let your life fall apart because of a female who can't make up her mind, eh? |
|
|
| Mr. Pink |
First thing- dont be so insecure
be confident.
second thing- if you did all that and she doesnt know whats up- not cool.
She doesnt need to know if she wants to marry you or anything just yet, but you should know whether she's happy and wants to continue the relationship |
|
|
| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lotus
Ok basically, I knew I would have to answer this.
I gave up having a job, my old residence(I moved), and I spent a lot of money...... to be with her. I'm not really whipped in my opinion, just a little more possessive than I seem to have been.
I'm not making her life terrible, although we have argued over such things as this. I told her what I've done and could have done, but she still can't come to a conclusion in her life. I really want to be with her, but now I'm not even sure of myself. Everything seems to be falling apart for me.:( |
man i know what you're feeling. i realize now that in my last relationship i wasn't enough of myself...i tried very hard to be what i thought she wanted. her friends became my friends, we spent waaay too much time together especially after we moved in together etc...
how long have you guys been together?
i think you need to maybe try and give her some space before she starts asking for it...seriously. even if you are both crazy about each other right now...if you don't have time apart then there is gonna be a lot of stress on your relationship to come... then you'll start noticing signs of distance between you... |
|
|
| Mr. Pink |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
so if i get a prostitute then there could be physical touch, acts of service ;), words of affirmation in this case dirty talk, and sex is quality time right? ...prostitutes is like being in love |
LOL
thats one of lifes many mysteries |
|
|
| torontotrance |
| Jason pimping the world :stongue: |
|
|
| davinox |
i say...
compromise!
don't give up more than she does! if she cant make that possible, then she doesnt love you as much as you do. |
|
|
| EyesOfExtasy |
My bf destroyed his relationship with his entire family to be with me.
It was his choice. I would never ask someone to do such a thing or give up anything. It would have to be of theyre own will. I would not want to be the one to blame if he ever regreted it in the future.
Make sure its worth it before its too late. |
|
|
| ShadoWolf |
| quote: | Originally posted by BTG
fools. |
Stop judging those of us that prefer the company of women. :whip: :whip: |
|
|
| Delay Llama |
Lotus, I cannot say anything as I don't know what happened. But...
| quote: | Originally posted by Boomer187
i would actually expect nothing in return. If I like a chick and give up I woudl be happy regardless. |
This is true, within certain restritions  |
|
|
| TranceLuver4evr |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mr. Pink
First thing- dont be so insecure
be confident.
second thing- if you did all that and she doesnt know whats up- not cool.
|
Good advice that i need also |
|
|
|
|
