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do girls love playing mind games?
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| stk |
well my ex, who i havent seen or talked to for like years now....who i know has a bf, all of a sudden calls me up and wants to meet up withme...of course, i said i was busy.....and she said o alrite..
then...like a month passes by....and she callsme again and tells me lets meet up and "catch up on things"....im like wtf...of course i said im busy again.
why is she doing this...she already has bf..why does she want to talk to me again....is she trying to brag to me that she moved on and that she has a new lover..or wants juss for us to be friends again...if the second reason..then why now, after all these years
girls are justconfusing.... |
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| Nell |
could be anything. dont meet her whatever you do. just get on with your life, find someone else or whatever. she could want to compare and contrast, see if you have moved on, attention seeking, ANYTHING. nothing will benefit you in anyway though is the thing you have to remember... probably anyway.
-Nell |
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| tranceDJ |
| Lots of girls out there like to mess with guys...if they see that they can do it and it works, they'll continue to do it. I'd take the above advice and not see her and move on. |
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| trancebrat |
Two way street. Guys do the same thing.
Try asking her. |
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| Michael19 |
or meet her, dress up real nice, maybe rent a ferrari out for the day, and turn up in the that. flash alot of cash around.
generally make her think you are doing great, should make her feel like |
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| spec |
| quote: | Originally posted by stk
well my ex, who i havent seen or talked to for like years now....who i know has a bf, all of a sudden calls me up and wants to meet up withme...of course, i said i was busy.....and she said o alrite..
then...like a month passes by....and she callsme again and tells me lets meet up and "catch up on things"....im like wtf...of course i said im busy again.
why is she doing this...she already has bf..why does she want to talk to me again....is she trying to brag to me that she moved on and that she has a new lover..or wants juss for us to be friends again...if the second reason..then why now, after all these years
girls are justconfusing.... |
You should her because she was probably ing her ex boyfriends when she was dating you, its like karma you need to cash in on. |
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| torontotrance |
| People play mind games some times but it is just ineffective communication, that's the reason why most people get stressed about relationships. |
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| Orbax |
| Id give advice but itd mainly be on how to make her feel bad. |
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| spec |
Ex-girlfriend sex is great fun.
Its like you can remember whats its like but its still kinda new.
And you kinda wanna impress them with new moves, so they say 'where did you learn that?".
Its usually really passionate and firey, and gets some back on previous hurts. |
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| BLuEOcEaN420 |
| quote: | Originally posted by stk
well my ex, who i havent seen or talked to for like years now....who i know has a bf, all of a sudden calls me up and wants to meet up withme...of course, i said i was busy.....and she said o alrite..
then...like a month passes by....and she callsme again and tells me lets meet up and "catch up on things"....im like wtf...of course i said im busy again.
why is she doing this...she already has bf..why does she want to talk to me again....is she trying to brag to me that she moved on and that she has a new lover..or wants juss for us to be friends again...if the second reason..then why now, after all these years
girls are justconfusing.... |
maybe shes had time to deal w/ getting over you and just genuinely curious as to how you are doing and what you are doing. hey, she did care about you before; whys it so hard to fathom her caring about you now; in a non-romantic way?
i cant say whether its a good idea or a bad one to start talking to her but do realize that you maybe missing out on a friendship. whether you want to (if you could) maintain a friendship w/ her, i suppose thats somethings only you can answer.
i personally dont think shes trying to you over. ive been in that girls situation before and i was never out to the guy over. it was just genuine curiosity that prompted me to wana see whats up w/ the guy. when u invest time for a person and with them, i dont think you can ever truely just forget about them. regardless of how bitter things may have been @ the end. they prolly impacted you in one way or another, for the better or for the worse, and thats a lasting thing imo. but hey, what would i know? im just another girl who only play mind games w/ guys. :rolleyes: |
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| Slylee |
she's either bitter towards you and is looking for a chance to brag about how awesome she's doing and possibly make you jealous.
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her new boyfriend isn't half as good as you were and she wants to see you again to see if there's still any feelings left.
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she's horny and a slut and wants to screw cuz her boyfriend isn't handling his business.
eeny meeny miney moe? |
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