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The fu*kbuddy concept....
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| fbgdavidson |
How does this kind of thing sit with you? If you are unsure what I am talking about it's the friend you can have sex with no strings attached.
Personally I'd feel really uncomfortable with this. Maybe I am way too much of a woman with my feelings but I'd find it tough to have sex with someone I didn't have feelings for.
I'm intrigued as to how this kind of thing works, is it in short a kind of dial-a-screw service? And do you only resort to them in times of desparation?
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| UWM |
| I once had a female acquaintance where our relationship was pretty much only based on sex. Then she went psycho and she thought we were exclusively dating and she got angry and cried alot. I got out of there ASAP. |
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| Ian^ |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
I once had a female acquaintance where our relationship was pretty much only based on sex. Then she went psycho and she thought we were exclusively dating and she got angry and cried alot. I got out of there ASAP. |
and what did sara say when you told her that ?/ |
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| Echo of Silence |
I'm not going to act like some of the asses in TA who have been around too long and love to refer newbs to the SEARCH cuz I haven't been around too long and I don't care if anyone here ever uses the search button.
but
if you want to see a thread from a few months ago that dealt with this top at length, go here:
http://www.tranceaddict.com/forums/...s+with+benefits
As I recall, it was a good thread.
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| UWM |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ian^
and what did sara say when you told her that ?/ |
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| Ian^ |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
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i was messing around over the woman who got clingy etc :p dont worry bout it mate, some people get it, some don't, and some of u just cant be arsed to sink to my level ;) |
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| Mr. Pink |
Ive done it a few times....
that scenario seems to happen to me a lot, actually. For a while I couldn't find a girl i really liked and i have a lot of gal pals... so would just happen.
Thing is I live in 2 places, atlanta and san juan puerto rico..... everytime that happened I was always kinda about to leave. So it'd be good for a few weeks and then id go back to college or PR.
But yeah this one time the girl got too into me and some drama unfolded. Im just glad I wasn't around for that lol. I was on the beach, chillin with some old skool homiez haha Good times!
but yeah, essentially im a romantic. I think the buddy thing is pretty superficial and some one always gets fuked up unless its a "hey gotta go back to the island!" type of thing. At least for me it was :)
But yeah im not like that anymore.....being committed is way more emotionally rewarding. ;) |
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| {b.s.e.} |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ian^
i was messing around over the woman who got clingy etc :p dont worry bout it mate, some people get it, most don't, and all of u just cant be arsed to sink to my level ;) |
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| D-res |
| friends with benefits are the best kind of friends... you can live the single life but still get action |
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| ZxZDeViLZxZ |
| its simple whenever they stop automatomatically leaving after your done you stop ing them so it doesnt turn into any more drama then it allready probly has been turned into. or you just dont do it but pretty much your safe just dont stick with one for too long as bitches tend to get emtoionally attached to sex and to whom the have sex with |
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| fbgdavidson |
| quote: | Originally posted by Echo of Silence
I'm not going to act like some of the asses in TA who have been around too long and love to refer newbs to the SEARCH cuz I haven't been around too long and I don't care if anyone here ever uses the search button.
but
if you want to see a thread from a few months ago that dealt with this top at length, go here:
http://www.tranceaddict.com/forums/...s+with+benefits
As I recall, it was a good thread.
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Cheers, a good thread that went a little too psychological for my liking! |
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| EssentialMix3r |
| I personally don't think it works out well, after you have been messing with that "friend" for a whle, it become practically impossible to not have feelings for them. |
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