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| DjWhooCares |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mr. Pink
and yeah........i fuked up :(
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;) ;) ;) ;) |
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| Nite-Mer |
| I've known a couple of friends from El Paso and I know it's different, but that doesn't mean everyone cheats. I don't think people here are going to outcast you for cheating, but most of us agree that it won't make you feel good in the long run. Try to change the pattern, or you may never have a quality relationship. |
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| DjWhooCares |
| quote: | Originally posted by Nite-Mer
I've known a couple of friends from El Paso and I know it's different, but that doesn't mean everyone cheats. I don't think people here are going to outcast you for cheating, but most of us agree that it won't make you feel good in the long run. Try to change the pattern, or you may never have a quality relationship. |
Well youll be surprised my man..;)
yeah i know i gotta change..with time i will eventually.
since right now i might get myself a girl that i actually like..IM serious DOUBTING ill cheat on her..:wtf: :wtf: :wtf: :wtf: |
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| Mr. Pink |
Yeah I cheated...and im regretful for it.
I didnt even realize what was going on until the next day when i woke up and it hit me........my eyes bulged and i totally went in full fledged guilt mode.
I only made out with the girl for a bit- i think.
but it didnt go passed making out.
and i actually ditched this girl (who is here where i live, and i used to date her) for my current girlfriend. So i know who i want, my girlfriend obviously.
but i was wasted.....VERY wasted.
to the point where people told me they'd never seen me like that (minus the people who saw me at james zabiela, but thats another story)
thing is, we didnt know the vodka was 100proof.......we thought it was regular normal proof....and i was making my screw drivers half and half. things just got out of hand before i could keep myself in check.
I repent, but i dont know if coming clean is the good deal. I think id rather take the safe route, kwowing i wont cheat on her again, and work from there. |
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| Nite-Mer |
| Don't say anything. Better that she doesn't know, as long as you don't intend on doing it again. If you only made out, that is better than having sex too. Not ok, but better. I would be a little concerned about the other girl you made out with too though. She may really like you, and you may be stringing her along a bit. Either that or she's the devil and trying to sabotage your current relationship. ??? |
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| lücid |
imo...
people cheat when they are unhappy. if you or your partner cheats, it's a pretty good sign that there is something wrong with your relationship that the cheater is either too scared or immature to confront.
what i hate is when people cheat, admit to it, and then both partners agree to "start again, from new beginnings, etc"... you can NEVER fully regain that trust 100%. you're always going to be worrying and wondering if they cheated again. if you are unhappy with a relationship and you cheat, you're most likely going to do it again. i lived through a relationship like that for 5 years... ing up and always trying to start over. i finally got the point that it was just never going to work, and we went our seperate ways.
it's a little trickier in a long distance relationship (in Mr. Pink's case), because you may be entirely happy with the relationship, but people have needs - physically and mentally - that can't be fulfilled when the person is far away and you don't see them often.
anyway, good luck to you and your girl, Mr. Pink :)
(btw i was using "you" as a general term, not speaking to anyone in particular. just wanted to add my opinion to the subject since i'm bored @ work, heheh) |
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| Mr. Pink |
Yeah the girl i made out with really likes me....
but i made my choice and confronted her about it when i stopping "seeing" her for my GF
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after we made out. I called her the next day to tell her it meant nothing to me and that i was sorry i did it in the first place. Harsh- but i needed to make it clear to her. She seemed kinda pissed.
meh :wtf:
I didnt cheat cuz i was unhappy, though.
it just happened. How ghey is that.......really in ghey.
my gf is the best thing thats happened to me ever. Better than my X i was with 4yrs, better than any girl ive ever met....hell, she's even better than mexican food!...AND I LOVE MEXICAN FOOD!
anywayz- yeah im def. not going to tell her, cuz i dont want her to lose the trust she has in me....i know i can keep it. |
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| Floorfiller |
| man this thread makes me wanna write a letter |
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| Boomer187 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
man this thread makes me wanna write a letter |
just dont' send it. |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Boomer187
just dont' send it. |
why not :wtf: |
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| N|te-L|fe |
why oh why do people do stupid things when they are drunk??????
... I seriously never uinderstood that and find it to be such a lame and easy excuse. I've had times where I was totally wasted in my life too, to the point where I am unable to walk without tripping, but hell I STILL have enough conscience to realize that there will be consequences to my actions, even babies, hell hamsters know that.. and youre gonna tell me that because of alcohol your drop below that level, I mean even if youve had 10 gallons of VODKA your IQ wont drop to freakin 2!
It is and will remain a lame and unnacceptable excuse in my book unless someone can come up with a very good explanation
At least in this case you are assuming your mistake and feeling guilty for it, I just cant stand those who blame it entirely on alcohol anymore.. If you know you have no control when your drunk then just stay home
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| Slylee |
| i've written a few letters and never sent them....great therapy:) |
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