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How to break up with your gf? (pg. 5)
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by Nite-Mer
Why can't they just want the dick? :haha: |
one of life's mysteries will never know the answer to :p |
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| butterfly |
| quote: | Originally posted by Nite-Mer
Friends with benefits is a horrible idea though. I've learned that. The girl always seems to want more. Why can't they just want the dick? :haha: |
it's not always the girl who wants more.
and i agree that being friends with an ex isnt good. actually my bf seems to have maintained friendships with 2 or 3 exes but i know i never could. i guess it is based on the individual. |
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| Nite-Mer |
| quote: | Originally posted by butterfly
it's not always the girl who wants more.
and i agree that being friends with an ex isnt good. actually my bf seems to have maintained friendships with 2 or 3 exes but i know i never could. i guess it is based on the individual. |
It has been in my experience, but I know you're right. I would never be friends with benefits with a girl I really liked. It would be too depressing for me. I only want that if I know that I only want friendship, but the sex is good. I don't know that I would want it at all anymore though. It is so unfulfilling. |
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| Slylee |
i'll try to answer that question
ok well, i need to be mentally stimulated before sex...as do about 90% of the female population. it's just how we are.
if some hot male model knocked on my door, and we had great sex and he was well hung too, i wouldn't orgasm...because i don't know him at all. actually, now that i think of it, that's kind of kinky...maybe i would:D
no but seriously, it's because we need lots of mental stimulation and it's just way better for us when it's with someone that we are so passionate about and in love with:) we like that comfort too...i don't know about you guys, but when you first get naked and have sex for the first time, it's stressful...my mind is too busy wondering stuff to be able to concentrate on an orgasm. that happens to me now, too. sometimes i concentrate so hard on cuming during oral, that i can't....and then i throw a hissy fit followed by feelings of frustration and rage to the point where i want to beat my boyfriend's ass and blame him. then i fall asleep pouting. either that, or my boyfriend practically rapes into giving it a second chance. hahaha i love when he does that. |
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| occrider |
| Homer Simpson style: "Dear Baby, Welcome to Dumpsville. Population: You" |
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| tha_broad |
| quote: | Originally posted by Gremsey
It is impossible to create a small kitchen garden on the cooled down fiery lava of feelings.
The end is the end.
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That is soo my new Sig..... |
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| Nite-Mer |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
i'll try to answer that question
ok well, i need to be mentally stimulated before sex...as do about 90% of the female population. it's just how we are.
if some hot male model knocked on my door, and we had great sex and he was well hung too, i wouldn't orgasm...because i don't know him at all. actually, now that i think of it, that's kind of kinky...maybe i would:D
no but seriously, it's because we need lots of mental stimulation and it's just way better for us when it's with someone that we are so passionate about and in love with:) we like that comfort too...i don't know about you guys, but when you first get naked and have sex for the first time, it's stressful...my mind is too busy wondering stuff to be able to concentrate on an orgasm. that happens to me now, too. sometimes i concentrate so hard on cuming during oral, that i can't....and then i throw a hissy fit followed by feelings of frustration and rage to the point where i want to beat my boyfriend's ass and blame him. then i fall asleep pouting. either that, or my boyfriend practically rapes into giving it a second chance. hahaha i love when he does that. |
Pouting when you don't have an orgasm. That's terrible. I had a friend who's girlfriend claimed it had never happened to her before. She got all pouty and I think it really hurt his confidence. That's not what you girls want to accomplish.
A comedian made a good point. If a guy can't get hard or cums too fast, it's the guys fault.
If a girl doesn't cum, it's the guys fault.
Maybe it's the girls fault some of these times, but that's never admitted.
I know what you mean about the intimicy thing though. I think that was the problem with the girl I tried to be "friends with benefits" with. She liked me too much. It was great for her, because she was comfortable and an easy O (No one ever believes me, but she could have 5+ orgasms in like 10 minutes). Not claiming it is me either, she's a freak of nature. But I know that she felt a connection to me that helped her get off easier. That really bothered me when it was just sex though. It made me feel as though I was using her and she was hanging on and hoping I would change my mind. I couldn't do it anymore. |
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| nwopper |
I never had a gf....I am not lesbian...
Or are to many members assuming TA is somekind of male forum?
If it comes to boyfriends....
....never needed one, actually.....
They bore me soon enough and the ones I really like all have girlfriends for like...3 or 4 years or so... |
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| Slylee |
| @ nite-mer: he doesn’t get offended...he knows that it’s me, because we’ve talked about it. and it’s more like a playful pouting, I should have clarified that. I just get sexually frustrated. I guess it’s like getting blue balls u know? trust me, I would never sit there and make him think he’s bad in bed...I don’t even think I could make him feel that way if you know what I mean;) not to mention, we have the most amazing compatible sexual chemistry. it’s just sometimes I have too much on my mind before we have sex, and I can’t seem to fully relax, and I’m distracted. and then sometimes it's because i'm concentrating too hard on the orgasm itself...so hard that i can't even have one...it's weird. whenever we have wine though or i'm a little tipsy...never fails:) amazing ones...i probably need to relax more during sex that's all..my mind is constantly on the go. |
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| Nite-Mer |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
@ nite-mer: he doesn’t get offended...he knows that it’s me, because we’ve talked about it. and it’s more like a playful pouting, I should have clarified that. I just get sexually frustrated. I guess it’s like getting blue balls u know? trust me, I would never sit there and make him think he’s bad in bed...I don’t even think I could make him feel that way if you know what I mean;) not to mention, we have the most amazing compatible sexual chemistry. it’s just sometimes I have too much on my mind before we have sex, and I can’t seem to fully relax, and I’m distracted. and then sometimes it's because i'm concentrating too hard on the orgasm itself...so hard that i can't even have one...it's weird. whenever we have wine though or i'm a little tipsy...never fails:) amazing ones...i probably need to relax more during sex that's all..my mind is constantly on the go. |
True. That's the funny thing about women. If you are distracted you won't have an orgasm. A man will almost always have one, unless you're too ed up. I guess it works opposite though. If you are worried about going to fast, that can clutter your mind, and it can happen. I feel like it's my job to give a girl an orgasm. If I don't, it almost makes me pouty. I get irritated, because I think of it as my fault. Then it's time to pony up and go again. But sometimes it's just not gonna happen and I know that. It still irritates me though. |
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| UWM |
| I'm just going to bite my tongue and keep my mouth shut this time ;) |
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| Slylee |
| if you want to live to see wmc next year, i would:D |
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