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i HAVE to get this outta my mind... (pg. 2)
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| Floorfiller |
| if the only way she wants to be with you is by having her way in EVERYTHING you might as well get on with your life...seriously. i say...you say no and if she breaks up with you over something stupid...then its really better for you i promise. i know it might suck, but really it is. |
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| 6iki_Snake |
well i thought about it, but last time i took her out to dinner i said, hey baby im sorry but cant take you out to dinner anytime soon anymore... i have to save up some money for other things and she is like, sure thats fine sweety, we'll just have dinner at my place and she always thnx me when i pay stuff.
I dont even give much gifts, its just, when going to the movies i pay, when going to dinner i pay, but she also gave presents to me so i have doubts about that she is in it for the money. |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by 6iki_Snake
well i thought about it, but last time i took her out to dinner i said, hey baby im sorry but have to save up some money for other things and she is like, sure thats fine sweety, we'll just have dinner at my place and she always thnx me when i pay stuff.
I dont even give much gifts, its just, when going to the movies i pay, when going to dinner i pay, but she also gave presents to me so i have doubts about that she is in it for the money. |
i didn't say she was a money grubbing ho...i'm saying if you guys get in an argument...over something stupid and you think she is ready to break up over it...well...if you can't have a normal argument without it tearing the two of you apart then you might as well move on... |
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| 6iki_Snake |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
i didn't say she was a money grubbing ho...i'm saying if you guys get in an argument...over something stupid and you think she is ready to break up over it...well...if you can't have a normal argument without it tearing the two of you apart then you might as well move on... |
Jesus H Christ you people post as fast as a lightning bolt. My story was to 'itsTrueSonic' on the last page! hehe your post makes alot of sense. ill think bout it. |
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| Stasha |
she has a problem - and a big one ... and if she doesnt fix it ... one day she will start slapping you ...unless u like being submissive ... thats a shyte
and yes ... u do care about her ... but ... how much do u care about yourself? ... you have only one life so u cant afford to waste it
and why dont u just talk with her over that? are u afraid of her? afraid she will go mad and hit you ?
sorry ... but from whatever aspect i look ... i see an abusive relationship :conf: ...and a woman that needs psychologist |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by 6iki_Snake
Jesus H Christ you people post as fast as a lightning bolt. My story was to 'itsTrueSonic' on the last page! |
ok yeah i know hehehe...but still |
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| 6iki_Snake |
| quote: | Originally posted by Stasha
she has a problem - and a big one ... and if she doesnt fix it ... one day she will start slapping you ...unless u like being submissive ... thats a shyte
and yes ... u do care about her ... but ... how much do u care about yourself? ... you have only one life so u cant afford to waste it
and why dont u just talk with her over that? are u afraid of her? afraid she will go mad and hit you ?
sorry ... but from whatever aspect i look ... i see an abusive relationship :conf: ...and a woman that needs psychologist |
it wont go that far at all, i mean, its just a bit of a controlling issue right now, but when this gets any further then i have no problem breaking it off. I fitness alot, ive done martial arts all my life. she knows, she wont slap me. But i dont like hurting women at all, but above all that, she is my gf and i truly care about her. but if she would slap me it will be instant breakoff. |
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| 6iki_Snake |
| quote: | Originally posted by itsTrueSonic
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either that, or maybe it's her previous relationships she has had or has not had... you definately need to talk to her how you feel. you need to express yourself, and tell her how you feel. probably the reason why she's venting off to you is either she is having a bad day, and doesn't know how to keep her anger to herself, or she is expressing refluxes of past bad relationships back to you.. usually it is something psychological or emotional from within, |
i know she had some went-wrong relationships before, my guess is that she is so controlling because she loves me too. Ive seen her cry about this sorta thing. she doesnt wanna lose me because she cares too much, and thats why gets really emotional when something isnt going as she sees fit... at least, thats the feeling im getting. |
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| e*motion |
break it off right now.. whats the point in staying with a crack-case like this ****.. she obviously has issues that you seem doubtful about.. do you see yourself marrying somebody like this? NO? then whats the point in prolonging a pointless relationship?
I say break her heart. :whip: |
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| 6iki_Snake |
| quote: | Originally posted by e*motion
break it off right now.. whats the point in staying with a crack-case like this ****.. she obviously has issues that you seem doubtful about.. do you see yourself marrying somebody like this? NO? then whats the point in prolonging a pointless relationship?
I say break her heart. :whip: |
funny thing, when stepping into a fighting ring i have no problem with getting into that fight and use all my power to take someone down.
I almost signed up for the dutch equillavant of the commandos. passed the physical etc. I aint usually afraid of much.
but i cant get the balls to just say no, i actually care about her too much. have to admit that i never felt this before tho.
some part of me wants to, but another part says to me that i just cant do that to her. |
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| Stasha |
the question is ... are u prepared to live with that?
another thing - the fact that she doesnt want to lose you or doesnt want to get dumped doesnt mean she loves you ...
you dont call names to the ppl u love and most certainly u dont try to dominate them
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and send her to psychologist ... she really needs it |
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| e*motion |
this is exactly what she wants man..
look down.
see that 3===D ? YOUR A MAN!
now act like one.. take off that leash and hit the road man.
this is exactly what she wants.. for you to feel bad about everything you do.
Start going on dates.. you might realize theres soooo much more out there. |
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