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i HAVE to get this outta my mind... (pg. 3)
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| 6iki_Snake |
i do not know if im prepared for that, but what everyone says makes sence. the situation is just a bit harder and more confusing when youre in it then when youre looking at it from the sideline. But that is normal.
ill think alot about it, and if it makes ya feel better, you guys have been quite the help, im feeling better now that i vented it! Thnx a bunch, im going to bed now:o so ill check on tomorrow morning again.
cya all later |
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| 6iki_Snake |
| quote: | Originally posted by e*motion
this is exactly what she wants man..
look down.
see that 3===D ? YOUR A MAN!
now act like one.. take off that leash and hit the road man.
this is exactly what she wants.. for you to feel bad about everything you do.
Start going on dates.. you might realize theres soooo much more out there. |
but i have dated alot, ive had some girls, but they werent longer then 3 months, nothing more then sex usually. But for this girl i actually felt love. That is what makes it different. If i go now, will i ever get it back with someone else? |
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| itsTrueSonic |
| quote: | Originally posted by e*motion
break it off right now.. whats the point in staying with a crack-case like this ****.. she obviously has issues that you seem doubtful about.. do you see yourself marrying somebody like this? NO? then whats the point in prolonging a pointless relationship?
I say break her heart. :whip: |
i say not true. since he said that this is his FIRST relationship, he has to learn that one of the major steps to making a relationship flow smoothly is to talk it over with your mate and see if you can find common ground between the two of them. if he starts breaking things off easily with all of his mates, he will end up with some half-ridden crack whore who no one wants to marry, and he is forced to marry her, because of the peer pressure (parents, friends)...
so i say to try your hardest to stick it out (i mean the relationship not your schwong .. :nervous: :nervous: ...) and talk things over with her.. she needs a talk with you to try to get priorites straight between you and her .. she either has a problem being alone, or a problem with broken relationships... either or, try to make it work if you really care about her. |
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| nrjizer |
I once heard a saying... something along the lines of
"The only girl (or guy) worth stressing over is the one that won't cause you to. "
I think there's some wisdom in those words, of course I could be wrong. |
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| itsTrueSonic |
| quote: | Originally posted by nrjizer
I once heard a saying... something along the lines of
"The only girl (or guy) worth stressing over is the one that won't cause you to. "
I think there's some wisdom in those words, of course I could be wrong. |
that could be true .. but there are always circumstances .. like mates who are not fully "experienced" with relationships, so they do not understand the "real" gap in silence time between the companions. those unexperienced people are when us experienced people need to train them |
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| Trancealot |
| I been in a relationship for almost a year now. When my girl gets pissed at me for some reason I don't know I just walk away and wait untill she is not in a bitchy mood. You prob should be used to it by now. |
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| e*motion |
but I honestly know girls that act that way purposely.. thats how they keep their guy.. through pity and making him feel sorry or bad for everything he does. In a relationship both parties should be truly happy with each other.
I agree you should try and find common ground before doing anything drastic. But best of luck to you.
*fingers crossed* |
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| Vivid Boy |
| quote: | Originally posted by 6iki_Snake
Jeezzzz i got tons of cramped up anger and feeling inside me, im about to in blow. seriously. i feel like really punching something hard, until its dead.
Okay this is going to be lengthly and i know it, so be prepared...
The situation is this, im with this girl, for 10 months now. I really love her. She is so sweet, pretty and all is good. She is my first LONG relationship ( longer then lets say 3 months ).
The only problem i have, she is really really touchy and gets emotional about things FAST. In the beginning i had to be carefull what i said about here. I come from 'the big city' and i can pretty much handle myself on the street and dont take offense that easily. She is like a tripmine( nice metafore i know).
After a small while everything went fine and no problems. But every now and then i do something wrong ( like forgot something, or didnt say the right thing at the right time etc ) and she gets pissed, and i mean seriously pissed sometimes. She calls me names and goes as far as saying: how can you be so in stupid. And i try to do my best. I go to her as much as i can, i call her a hour a day (seriously), i spend lots of money on her. and i really love her. But im a ing human, i forget things, i make mistakes. What i never do is call her names, be angry at her. Im always very calm and try to talk things out.
Allright, tonight something went wrong because of MISCOMMUNICATION, and this resulted in her, just being at home doing her at home things ( watch tv, read cosmopolitan, etc whatever ) and while doing that she also waited for me to call.
i called her earlier that evening for about an hour long, and in that conversation she thought i would call her later that evening, and in my opinion i never promised that. She calls me up 2 hours later and she starts yelling and saying i cant forget that, and that i aint giving her enough attention and that she feels she means nothing to me ( wich is absolutely not true ).
i spend so much money on her, i get from my parents for the phone bill, i spend my entire weekend with her all the time. This, she seemingly forgets!
We just got off the phone, she is so pissed, and i finally said ( still calm ) that i apologize for forgetting, but in my eyes we had a miscommunication therefor i NEVER REALISED that i had to call her. She just wouldnt believe that and she starts calling me names and that i cant take anything seriously ( then she starts to rant about the college wich im in, that she thinks i cant make it, blabla ). Im just: okay im sorry etc etc, and she hangs up.
Im now feeling so much anger, she ALWAYS gets pissed at me, and i never get pissed at her, i always restrain myself. But i can feel it, man.. i couldnt go to thaiboxing practice this week and there is just too much anger left in me man! I care so much for her and spend so much money on her and she just doesnt notice.
Damn im sorry for the lenghtly story and my grammar probly isnt that good ( im dutch, what the haha ), and im just feeling messed up inside. In any way, if you're reading this, thnx for reading my story, just needed to VENT!! |
why dont u tell her..maker her realize its not always abt her. its abt the two of you and if shes going to be so self absorbed well then u dont need that. |
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| Arbiter |
| Well, not being so much of a would be a start. You don't act like a man with self-respect, so why would you expect her to respect you? |
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| Transporter |
| Hey mate .. send her my way so i can treat her like .. THEN she'll appreciate you ... good luck :D :D :D :D :stongue: :stongue: |
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| Radagast |
| This guy reminds me of those beaten housewives on COPS who stay with their man even when he kicks their asses. |
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| Vivid Boy |
| i feel for the guy. like seriously i do. Ive seen friends go thru the same . their girlfriends cheat on them right in front of their faces and they go back with them. their gf sleeps with their bestfriend and theyre still together..being whipped must be hard. dignity and pride is a hard thing to swallow. |
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