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A serious girl problem
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| romchik |
SO , me and my friend went out to the movies with this girl . She is absolutely gorgeous , italian , one of a few girls that can actually treat you like a human , for what you are .
My friend really likes her , so he asked her out , but she said he is cool and all...but she just wants to be friends . She has a Boyfriend , some ****** . I dont see him as much of an obstacle , I do not know what she sees in him .
Anyways , as I was with her in the movies , I had a nice talk with her and I understood that she is the girl that Im looking for . Now, I have two problems ... First of all , my friend still likes her , although he said he would be happy to see me with her .
Second , I do not know if I should go for her , because so many guys like her and I practicaly do not have any chance . Before she left to New Jersey , she saw me and gave me a hug , we started talking .
It seems that I'm getting obsessed with this girl . I dont know what I should do .
She said she is confused about her feelings , because so many guys like her and she said she doesnt wanna hurt anyone .
Should I just be friends with her or should I just help my friend
get her , or should I just beat up her Bf
What should I do ?
P.S Do not crack any jokes . This is seriousmatter and I need advice . |
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| Arbiter |
Yes, I think that a brutal and unprovoked attack against her significant other is just what you need to make her like you more.
| quote: | | P.S Do not crack any jokes . |
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| CATHAIN |
| Unrequited love is a terrible thing. Go for the 'friends' option and try find somebody else (easier said than done i know). |
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| TweeK |
| Lets get this out of the way: Pics or StfU!!! |
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| Dirk W. |
| If you're friend likes her but says he would love to see yall two together, I promise right now that is bull and he is just being a good sport about it. Beating up her boyfried won't win you any points either. Don't think of yourself as not having a chance. It's that way of thinking thats going to screw you in the end. Go for it. Why not? Don't be surprised when your friend or hey boyfriend is upset though |
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| AndskiSpeed |
Your friend is lying when he says that he'd be happy to see you with her because he obviously likes her, so you've got to decide whether you want to ignore him and ask her out anyway. Morally you should just stay friends with her
I think the best thing to do is wait until her and her boyfriend split up which gives your mate some time to get over her and then there won't be any obstacles to her :p |
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| Spacey Orange |
Look for someone else. You will never be able to be just good friends with her cos you like her too much. You are obsessed. You don't want to get into relationship with her because you also like her too much. If she was into you, she would have let you know. She already confided in you (i think she did) that a lot of other guys like her and that she is confused. Smells like trouble. Move on and never look back.
Now, can you wire me my $120 fee? |
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| AndskiSpeed |
| quote: | Originally posted by Dirk W.
If you're friend likes her but says he would love to see yall two together, I promise right now that is bull and he is just being a good sport about it |
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| smokeape |
If you're going to go ape for her, then go ape...
Seriously, assert yourself among the other male competitors and not worry about those clowns. More importantly, you need to find out if she has any compassion for or serious interest in you in kind. Hot chicks normally go with the guy who clears the competition, but you never know... Do a gut check with her first to find out if she thinks of you as more than a friend.
good luck anyhow!
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Armin van Buuren - Burned with Desire! (Rising Star Mix) |
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| romchik |
| quote: | Originally posted by Spacey Orange
Look for someone else. You will never be able to be just good friends with her cos you like her too much. You are obsessed. You don't want to get into relationship with her because you also like her too much. If she was into you, she would have let you know. She already confided in you (i think she did) that a lot of other guys like her and that she is confused. Smells like trouble. Move on and never look back.
Now, can you wire me my $120 fee? |
She said that to my buddy , not me . I just cannot figure out what keeps her locked out . It is either she is too loyal to her BF , or she just doesnt know what traits a good BF should have. |
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| TweeK |
| I understand your problems dude.....My girls problems are some what different though.....just keep searching.:D |
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| tortoise |
| quote: | Originally posted by romchik
She has a Boyfriend , some ****** |
it is wered that some of the most buteful nicest girls have such dicks for boyfriends, i will never understand it. |
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