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| Vaio_dude |
hey guys, Well I have some serious questions about HIV as a friend of mine is going thru worries and stuff.
- He met up this girl from uzbekstan, she can barely speak english
- they started having sex with condom for about 4 times
- then she asked if not to use condom and that both of them are clean and there is no worries about anything
- then they started having sex with no condom, normal sex, not anal or any these sick stuff.
- he told me that the girl was clean and that she is a good woman, and he she has a baby back home who she supports .
- he later found out that this girl is a prostitute
- he started to get worried, and when he sat down with her, she told him that he does not need to worry and that she is clean, and when she does have sex with someone else she uses condom all the time.
- He left this girl, and after two months now he got tested and it was negative.
the doctor told him that now he is on the safe side and he should not get worried, after all it does not mean anyone who is a prostitute have HIV.
but still, he is worried and scared.
Any Advices on how to calm him down? or should he be worried still ? |
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| tribu |
This wont calm him down at all, but there is a six month window between the time youre infected and the time the markers for the virus can be identified.
This means that he should be tested six months after the last time they had sex. He should also get tested for much more than HIV if possible. Not trying to bring him dow, just thought he should know about the six month window. |
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| Vaio_dude |
well, he is going to be tested again in febraury...and the doctor said he should. the doctor also told him that even though he needs to get tested again after 6 months, most people who are negative after two months are not positive after 6 month, it is very rare. but just to make sure, after 6 months he should go get tested for HIV.
so, this calmed him a little bit, but still he gets scared that it could be positive after 6 months, even though he did not get any sympthoms that the HIV could produce after 3 weeks.
until then he is avoiding any kind of sexual relation ships with anyone. He is really worried that his future could be destroyed. |
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| keithos27 |
The #1 thing he should do is see a doctor... Talking with a doctor and empowering himself with knowledge is the only thing that will calm him down.
I'm not a doctor, but to my knowledge it sounds like he is taking the necessary precautions now. He should also be tested for things like Hepititus B & C, and other STDs... He may not have contracted HIV (hopefully!) but he may have caught something else. :-( Not to make your friend feel bad, but having sex is a very serious thing and both parties need to be responsible...they should both be tested for various STDs including HIV, Hep B & C, Chlamidia, Ghanaria, etc.
Just my two cents. Hope everything works out well. :-)
-Keith |
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| Lira |
I agree with Keithos, so I'll just focus something else:
| quote: | Originally posted by Vaio_dude
- then they started having sex with no condom, normal sex, not anal or any these sick stuff. |
Why would anal be sick? Because that's the "pooper"? Well, the other side bleeds regularly, so it should be disgusting as well, shouldn't it? Because it's "dirty"? If her pipes are unloaded, it's not dirty, if you've seen porn once in your life you'd know it. Would oral sex be dirty as well?
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| placebo |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
I agree with Keithos, so I'll just focus something else:
Why would anal be sick? Because that's the "pooper"? Well, the other side bleeds regularly, so it should be disgusting as well, shouldn't it? Because it's "dirty"? If her pipes are unloaded, it's not dirty, if you've seen porn once in your life you'd know it. Would oral sex be dirty as well?
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No. Pooper 4 Life. |
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| tribu |
| what about titty sex? nostril sex? ear sex? And lets not forget the ever popular foot-job... |
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| placebo |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vaio_dude
hey guys, Well I have some serious questions about HIV as a friend of mine is going thru worries and stuff.
- He met up this girl from uzbekstan, she can barely speak english
- they started having sex with condom for about 4 times
- then she asked if not to use condom and that both of them are clean and there is no worries about anything
- then they started having sex with no condom, normal sex, not anal or any these sick stuff.
- he told me that the girl was clean and that she is a good woman, and he she has a baby back home who she supports .
- he later found out that this girl is a prostitute
- he started to get worried, and when he sat down with her, she told him that he does not need to worry and that she is clean, and when she does have sex with someone else she uses condom all the time.
- He left this girl, and after two months now he got tested and it was negative.
the doctor told him that now he is on the safe side and he should not get worried, after all it does not mean anyone who is a prostitute have HIV.
but still, he is worried and scared. When I was talking to him, I noticed water damage on my ceiling.
So, should I try and fix it myself, or call someone to do it for me?
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That's how the story should have ended, imho. |
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| Spike |
| i was with a girl/friend of mine and was all over me like she wanted to sleep with me...out of the blue she asked if i was a virgin? (i was like wtf and answered no) and earlier she had told me shes never had a bf b4 in her life) and im thinking hrmmmmm sounds kinda fishy.... what do u guys think this means. my guess is shes slept with alotta guys b4 |
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| placebo |
| quote: | Originally posted by Spike
i was with a girl/friend of mine and was all over me like she wanted to sleep with me...out of the blue she asked if i was a virgin? (i was like wtf and answered no) and earlier she had told me shes never had a bf b4 in her life) and im thinking hrmmmmm sounds kinda fishy.... what do u guys think this means. my guess is shes slept with alotta guys b4 |
Pressure washer. |
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| Spike |
| quote: | Originally posted by placebo
Pressure washer. |
hun? |
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| placebo |
| quote: | Originally posted by Spike
hun? |
Just clean it out with a pressure washer. |
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