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| Nabistai |
| quote: | Originally posted by samiotis
ive already blocked her off my emails aim msn etc. im trying as hard as i can to get her out of my life. i made the mistake of giving her my new cell number. i had her old email address and i found nothing to be worried about there. but she has a new yahoo one which i wouldnt mind checking. she would always check my cell phone when she came over, and would check whos on my aim list and like that. it didnt bother me at all
i dont know if shes not trustworthy she has told me everything shes done, but i just feel like shes hiding stuff, i guess its just the position im in that sucks |
Well then I guess it comes down to what you want most
1) Know the absolute truth, and by doing so getting hurt => break her email
2) Don't get hurt en leave her behind you. But then you have to be able to live without knowing everything. => don't break it
This depends from person to person I guess. I chose the truth... |
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| malek |
read it, who cares:rolleyes:
anyone talking about respect should be hanged. (as if she respected him by cheating) |
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| djxtension |
| quote: | Originally posted by samiotis
try to check you ex's e-mail?
even though i dont know her pass i'd love to check it, because i know she's been talking to this guy she met. even before we broke up. |
YES.
Leave her alone. What's done is done. |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by samiotis
she would always check my cell phone when she came over, and would check whos on my aim list and like that. it didnt bother me at all
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see, that kind of should not be tolerated in relationships. you say it didn't bother you, but it should. doing stuff like that is basically her saying, "i'm insecure and i don't trust you so i'm gonna check up on you repeatedly"... a lot of the time when someone doesn't trust their partner, it's because they are the ones who should not be trusted, doing the things that she is trying to bust you out for - cheating, lying, etc.
i know it's hard to move on, but it sounds like you'll just be beating a dead horse by checking her e-mail. |
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| samiotis |
| well i broke into her email shes been talking to her ex boyfriend of 4 years who she left for me because she was in love with me for those years. which took me by surprise but she also talked to that guy i thought she would. im not really hurt im just glad i know the truth. apparently she still has feelings for her ex. anyways im gonna leave it at that oh yeah how do i block her number on my cell? |
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| malek |
| quote: | Originally posted by samiotis
well i broke into her email shes been talking to her ex boyfriend of 4 years who she left for me because she was in love with me for those years. which took me by surprise but she also talked to that guy i thought she would. im not really hurt im just glad i know the truth. apparently she still has feelings for her ex. anyways im gonna leave it at that oh yeah how do i block her number on my cell? |
replace her name by "do not answer" |
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| ierxium |
:haha: Now why would you ask for advice if you're not going to pay any attention? It was obvious you were dying to check on her. You can't deny that you're hurt. You are. Don't hide it. That was expected.
Get yourself a new number and stop violating the privacy of others. |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by ierxium
:haha: Now why would you ask for advice if you're not going to pay any attention? It was obvious you were dying to check on her. You can't deny that you're hurt. You are. Don't hide it. That was expected.
Get yourself a new number and stop violating the privacy of others. |
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| chojin |
| hmm, i was guilty of this :p |
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| samiotis |
| it doesnt bother me, shes violated my privacy alot more, this was the only thing ive done thats violated hers. you dont understand she was pretty psycho during our relationship. thats why shes my ex now :) |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
If you feel the need to check up on your partner, there's really no use perpetuating the relationship any further - it's obvious that you have definite trust issues, and if you really, truly, cared for this person and trusted this person (the foundations for any worthwhile relationship) then you wouldn't need to check up on her. It doesn't matter if she's "guilty" of talking to her ex-boyfriend; people's feelings for one another are so fickle, and if there's much doubt in either person's mind of the partner or of yourself and the relationship, then plese don't waste that person's time any further.
Some people were born to die alone. Chances are, you're one of them if you can't get your priorities straight. |
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| ierxium |
| quote: | Originally posted by samiotis
it doesnt bother me, shes violated my privacy alot more, this was the only thing ive done thats violated hers. you dont understand she was pretty psycho during our relationship. thats why shes my ex now :) |
You're on denial. In an earlier post you said it didn't bother you. Don't contradict yourself. And she 'violated' your privacy while you two were together. So if it bothered you, then you're just stupid since you didn't let her know. You talk about her been psycho. Man, you're the one checking up on her after you both break up. That makes you worst than psycho. Only a lunatic goes checking the mail of an ex.
Edit: Sincere apologies for the harshness. |
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