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college drama- any advice?
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| teegee |
So, thanks to my good friend rum, I ended up hooking up with a good friend last night...a girl with whom I have never had any intention of getting with before. Stuff just happened, and now I regret it...wish I didn't remember what happened, but sadly I do.
So question: Is it best to act normal and play it off like I dont remember what happened last night, or face up to the certain awkwardness that's bound to come shortly? |
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| XaNaX |
| quote: | Originally posted by teegee
So, thanks to my good friend rum, I ended up hooking up with a good friend last night...a girl with whom I have never had any intention of getting with before. Stuff just happened, and now I regret it...wish I didn't remember what happened, but sadly I do.
So question: Is it best to act normal and play it off like I dont remember what happened last night, or face up to the certain awkwardness that's bound to come shortly? |
It's best to try to get yourself a "friends with benefits" deal outta this now that you have already hooked up. |
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| Floorfiller |
| well...i would suggest you don't bring it up...but if it gets brought up then don't say "OMG I regret it sooo much"...that'll things up i'm sure. just say that you don't regret it, but you don't think its a good idea to get involved and make up a reason hehehe... |
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| butterfly |
| talk to her. usually not saying anything results in your friendship drifting apart down the road. |
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| placebo |
| Don't send the letter. |
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| itsTrueSonic |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
well...i would suggest you don't bring it up...but if it gets brought up then don't say "OMG I regret it sooo much"...that'll things up i'm sure. just say that you don't regret it, but you don't think its a good idea to get involved and make up a reason hehehe... |
good advice there ..
play it cool, and say it's a bad idea to continue what you did with her, and say you made a stupid mistake by drinking too much rum.. |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by XaNaX
It's best to try to get yourself a "friends with benefits" deal outta this now that you have already hooked up. |
i was kinda going on the asumption that he doesn't wanna keep hooking up with her since he regrets it... |
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| Boomer187 |
| quote: | Originally posted by butterfly
talk to her. usually not saying anything results in your friendship drifting apart down the road. |
+1. |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by itsTrueSonic
good advice there ..
play it cool, and say it's a bad idea to continue what you did with her, and say you made a stupid mistake by drinking too much rum.. |
NOOOOOOO!!!!
don't say anything about being so drunk and/or you regretting it...trust me on that one ;)
just say "i DON'T regret it, but we shouldn't start anything up because _____________." |
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| teegee |
I definetely want to keep this great friendship we have, and I'm not pursuing friends with benefits (from her at least)... I 'spose it'll just be best to see what happens when I see her again (which will probably be in a few hours...yay small colleges)
still feel pretty ty bout the whole situation tho. |
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| teegee |
| quote: | Originally posted by placebo
Don't send the letter. |
haha I did like 2 or 3 weeks ago...never heard anything back tho, as was to be expected I 'spose
that was a little creepy looking back on it |
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| XaNaX |
| quote: | Originally posted by teegee
I definetely want to keep this great friendship we have, and I'm not pursuing friends with benefits (from her at least)... I 'spose it'll just be best to see what happens when I see her again (which will probably be in a few hours...yay small colleges)
still feel pretty ty bout the whole situation tho. |
So basically is this girl fat or ugly or something that you wouldnt want to her sober? |
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