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Serious question concerning failed relationships (pg. 2)
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
You want an explanation?! YOU CANT HANDLE THE EXPLANATION!!
women are ing NUTS. There is logic. Then there is their perception. That which is contrary to logic and believed to be reality is insanity!!!
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yea listen to the virgin who plays video games all day. he knows what he's talking about. :stongue:
sorry dude, couldn't resist.
back on topic. she was just too chicken to tell you straight up that you are "nice" but not boyfriend/dating material. she probably thinks you are sweet, but you are just someone she used for some attention and to get things off her chest (you said she confided in you a lot), and now she's found a guy who excites her more...and by saying that, i don't necessarily mean she found an , as you guys always like to accuse us of being attracted to so you feel better about your rejection.
anyway, i know that sounds harsh, but girls do that. i'm guilty of it...not any more, but i pulled like that when i was 18/19. it's because i didn't know what the hell i wanted...and i'm not a mean person by nature, and chances are, neither is this girl. she's probably annoyed that you are still probing her for an explanation that she feels bad about. she just doesn't want it to come to that point where she has to say, "hey, i just don't like you". girls are messed up and complex, but you know you guys are no friggin prize either. you don't know how to communicate half the time, and you put on acts to save your ego, and you think burps and farts deserve some sort of 1-10 scale of recognition.
with all that said, i don't agree with what she's doing, but i can relate. i think a lot of girls can. we've all done that before. i think most of the time it's because we are trying to be nice about things, and we don't mean to lead you on, but we do. or maybe we thought we liked you, and then after spending more time with you, we start to find things we don't like about you, so we end it, and you guys are totally lost.
i definitely use the "straight up" method now. i mean i have a boyfriend, but i have no problem telling people reasons why i don't like them, or if they were pissing me off and why...whether it's a guy or a girl. not in a bitchy way, but in a very direct way so that there are no misunderstandings...and i do it tastefully i think. i've just learned to communicate better the last couple years...almost to a fault. but oh well, i prefer it that way, and i prefer people to be the same way with me.
hope that helps. just move on. |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
she probably thinks you are sweet, but now she's found a guy who excites her more... |
that's my answer...how can i be more exciting? |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
yea listen to the virgin who plays video games all day. he knows what he's talking about. :stongue:
sorry dude, couldn't resist.
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girls are messed up and complex,
i don't agree with what she's doing, but i can relate.
i think a lot of girls can. we've all done that before.
i think most of the time it's because we are trying to be nice about things, and we don't mean to lead you on, but we do.
or maybe we thought we liked you, and then after spending more time with you, we start to find things we don't like about you, so we end it, and you guys are totally lost.
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why would you make fun of me then completely prove my point better than I ever could have |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
why would you make fun of me then completely prove my point better than I ever could have |
:stongue: :stongue: :stongue: :stongue: :stongue:
you're right you know hahaha |
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| UWM |
| quote: | Originally posted by Orbax
You want an explanation?! YOU CANT HANDLE THE EXPLANATION!!
women are ing NUTS. There is logic. Then there is their perception. That which is contrary to logic and believed to be reality is insanity!!!
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You win. |
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| Slylee |
| i was just simply telling him to listen to you because you knew what you were talking about, didn't i? :p |
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| Gunyouken |
Why do woman like useless , like diamonds and jewelery?
I think it's cause their like crows, the like shiney stuff, and when you don't give them shiney stuff they peck your eyes out.... bitches. |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by Gunyouken
Why do woman like useless , like diamonds and jewelery?
I think it's cause their like crows, the like shiney stuff, and when you don't give them shiney stuff they peck your eyes out.... bitches. |
lol, not buying them stuff is a guaranteed way...but DONT imply that if you DO buy them stuff they wont peck your eyes out. |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
| quote: | Originally posted by Gunyouken
Why do woman like useless , like diamonds and jewelery?
I think it's cause their like crows, the like shiney stuff, and when you don't give them shiney stuff they peck your eyes out.... bitches. |
I'm sure I made a rant about this some other time, let me dig it up because I know you're all wanting to read it.
:rolleyes: :stongue: |
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| wwu.punisher |
| DON'T SEND THE LETTER! |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
i was just simply telling him to listen to you because you knew what you were talking about, didn't i? :p |
...thank you |
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| Slylee |
hahahaha
i can proudly say that i definitely am NOT into jewelry nor do i request it. maybe when i'm married with kids...i mean maybe IF i get married and IF i have kids :p i'll get into that stuff. my dad's wife told me my dad was looking at these bracelets for me for xmas and i told her to tell him not to get me any more jewelry (got me some for my bday).
although my diamond michele mini urban watch IS pretty sick! but that was a total surprise, my bf took it upon himself to get me that for my bday last year :D |
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