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Best way to break up? (pg. 4)
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| starsearcher |
| quote: | Originally posted by Callie5
Ya that would speak for itself... I just wouldn't want to hear it from him.. |
oooohh ok gotcha! ;)
Well when I broke up with my ex (long time ago) she was all crying about how much she loved me but had a new relationship less than a week after so...blah...:crazy: honesty is a much better solution IMHO |
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| maxpain |
| quote: | Originally posted by Miss Julia
hehe I never said to not tell her the truth (even if it's to tell her he loves another girl). My point was to NOT make up lame excuses. :p
To maxpain: Every girl on here has told you to be honest with her. So just take our advice. You will see that things will be easier for both you & your ex, if you are just blunt & honest. :) |
Well its not that easy because I can't say the whole truth because the new one has told me not to mention where I am going because the new and old one know each other and all but I figure that the old one will figure it out anyways or see me with the new one.
I can't say the truth because the new one has told me not to so if I did say the truth then that would possibly ruin any chances of ever going back to the old one and the new one would be pissed as well because I can't mention where I am going and why I am really leaving specifically so the new relationship would be effected as well.
In this situation I would be screwing up both if I were to come out and just say the total truth so telling the truth would be the worst possible decision to make here. |
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| Callie5 |
| quote: | Originally posted by starsearcher
oooohh ok gotcha! ;)
Well when I broke up with my ex (long time ago) she was all crying about how much she loved me but had a new relationship less than a week after so...blah...:crazy: honesty is a much better solution IMHO |
LMAO.. but there's that fine line between lying and simply with holding information
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You could use the it's not you.. it's me line.. |
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| starsearcher |
| quote: | Originally posted by Callie5
LMAO.. but there's that fine line between lying and simply with holding information
:haha:
You could use the it's not you.. it's me line.. |
lol yeah I guess...it's just stupid cause I was the one that broke up with her...so I didn't see the point of her being all weird like that...I would have expected her to kick me in the nutts or something lol...anyway she's a weridoe...i love them weird :haha: :stongue: |
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| djdustx |
seperate!...friends is jus another motion of being possible sex partners or kept for later marriage proposals
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| Miss Julia |
| quote: | Originally posted by maxpain
if I did say the truth then that would possibly ruin any chances of ever going back to the old one .
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Just listen to yourself right there.
You want to break up with her, yet you are already thinking about getting back with her? You need to seriously sit down and think about what you REALLY want before you make any big moves.
I can't give you anymore advice than to be honest with yourself first, then also be honest with the girl as well. |
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| malek |
| how about you post naked pics of both chicks and then we'll be able to help ya out with proper advices. |
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| starsearcher |
| quote: | Originally posted by malek
how about you post naked pics of both chicks and then we'll be able to help ya out with proper advices. |
Malek always has the best idea!:toothless |
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| Vivid Boy |
| like a bandaid RIGHT OFF! |
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| malek |
| quote: | Originally posted by starsearcher
Malek always has the best idea!:toothless |
its simple and would take us guys aproximatly half a second to give you the right answer.:o |
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| Allegory |
| quote: | Originally posted by maxpain
Well its not that easy because I can't say the whole truth because the new one has told me not to mention where I am going because the new and old one know each other and all but I figure that the old one will figure it out anyways or see me with the new one.
I can't say the truth because the new one has told me not to so if I did say the truth then that would possibly ruin any chances of ever going back to the old one and the new one would be pissed as well because I can't mention where I am going and why I am really leaving specifically so the new relationship would be effected as well.
In this situation I would be screwing up both if I were to come out and just say the total truth so telling the truth would be the worst possible decision to make here. |
Relationships don't end on account of infidelity, or because something better comes along. There were underlying problems to begin with, and self-justification may have lead you to being impervious to what has happened.
I'm with girl loving tribe. Be honest, have some balls and take responsibility for your actions. At the very least you'll salvage some integrity.
As for this new girl if she wants to delude herself of fault, or protect herself from the anguish that she will cause her friend, then that's her burden. Imposing it on you is completely unfair.
Why I ask you, why can't people take responsibility for their actions?
And since when has friendship become such frivolty? |
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| arek |
| You had me at "dicks s". |
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