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Best way to break up? (pg. 6)
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| TheVrk |
| quote: | Originally posted by maxpain
If you are happy and have to break up with the first one then which is the best way to break it to them? |
Listen, VERY simple:
Be open and JUST TELL HER:rolleyes: |
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| e*motion |
| dude, trust me, a pipe bomb in the mail is the way to break her heart. |
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| Xavier Moriarty |
you need to ask some strangers on this board how should you break up with a girl????
seriously buddy (and no offense and no flaming intended), be a man and do it one way or another cause i doubt it that you'll actually take anybody's suggestion ! |
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| Crazy Serb |
| quote: | Originally posted by maxpain
and to be honest I would like to keep both and do them on different days |
so, what's the problem now? keep them both... don't tell the old one about the new one and keep on hanging out with her on certain days, and then get the new one to see you on all the other days.
UNLESS it's not a trap (by the two of them), and the old one gets to find out about a new one, just be a man and tell her that you love more than 1 girl (what's the word again, polyamoric?) and that you've got certain needs which she didn't fullfil and the new one did (new one likes to play x-box or some :D :D) and see how she reacts to that. if she flips out, well, too bad, she didn't understand your needs and she's gotta go. if she doesn't and she accepts it, well, then my friend, then you're pimping both of them!
| quote: | Originally posted by Miss Julia
To maxpain: Every girl on here has told you to be honest with her. So just take our advice. You will see that things will be easier for both you & your ex, if you are just blunt & honest. :) |
Taking an advice about women from a woman? That never led to anything good... (especially with that honesty issue, since 99% of them can't handle the truth!).
| quote: | Originally posted by malek
how about you post naked pics of both chicks and then we'll be able to help ya out with proper advices. |
I think this is the best idea so far... +1 ;)
but then again, seriously, you don't look like you know what you want, and until you clear that up with yourself you won't get anywhere with either one. If you still can't figure out, ask d1abolic for help. |
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| maxpain |
Well the issue here was never if I was going to break it up but when and how? But the bitch made my decision easy because she is such a rude bitch so her and ever going back and keeping that option open. The more I looked at things the more I realized that this was heading no where and some additude adjustments need to be made which will not because you can't change the stripes on a Zebra or whatever.
I was only happy with things because I am usually pretty happy anyways and have a positive out look on life and the only reason I wanted to keep the option of getting back together open was in case of getting screwed over in the future as opposed to not knowing what I want. Usually I am pretty loyal to those who are loyal to me but it's hard to meet loyal people now at days so I always try to have back up plans just in case.
PS I hope the old chick sees me with the new chick because the new one is way hotter;) |
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| ~Delicious~ |
Grass is always greener on the other side....
Been there done that, regretted it so much, were lucky enough to be back. Very happy now...
Don't throw away what's good.
The "other" relationship may be good just because you're with someone else. I mean every relationship has it's ups and downs. Those are the things that show that the relationship's still there, the love, the caring, the feeling, the passion.
Don't be a foot, stay with your girl.
You'll be tempted by others many times, the trick is to learn to know, or not even learn just to know that what you already have is great and resist temptation! |
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| Vivid Boy |
| quote: | Originally posted by ~Delicious~
You'll be tempted by others many times, the trick is to learn to know, or not even learn just to know that what you already have is great and resist temptation! |
which reminds me, u got any plans this friday...rawrrrrr. we can get naked and write poetry by a fireplace while doing body shots of GHB to weird tribal music. ;) |
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| big_charm |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vivid Boy
which reminds me, u got any plans this friday...rawrrrrr. we can get naked and write poetry by a fireplace while doing body shots of GHB to weird tribal music. ;) |
Hahahaha ohh man thats jks :crazy:
Anyways best advise is to be honest..it will get you farther in the long run, b/c once you lie, it's hard to turn back man. |
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| ~Delicious~ |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vivid Boy
which reminds me, u got any plans this friday...rawrrrrr. we can get naked and write poetry by a fireplace while doing body shots of GHB to weird tribal music. ;) |
yups I do have plans, damn it, you shold have told me the GHB will be present before I made plans man....
By the way I have been drugged by it not as much fun as one would think.... |
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| newr |
| quote: | Originally posted by E2EK1EL
If a relationship is perfect, then you have a problem ... you need conflicts to understand each other better.
No such thing as a perfect relationship, I once thought I was in one ... |
I beg to differ John... because I'm in a perfect relationship
perfect doesnt mean no conflicts... it means a harmonious equilibrium |
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| ~Delicious~ |
| quote: | Originally posted by newr
I beg to differ John... because I'm in a perfect relationship
perfect doesnt mean no conflicts... it means a harmonious equilibrium |
You mean to say you guys never argue, disagree, spat???? |
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| Crazy Serb |
somebody here said "resist temptation"?!
you are not being serious, are you? depriving yourself of all kinds of beautiful things/people on this planet just because you think you should resist the temptation? oh man...:nervous: |
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