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did i just cheat? (pg. 3)
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| Michael19 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Psy-T
(which sucks on so many levels, but still) :D
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did she though?:stongue: j/k
and FF, if you keep going back to your ex, and shag her when the chance comes you will enver move on. Its tough, but you just have to say no if the chance comes up again, unless your over her nd its just a . but it doesnt sound like that at the moment. |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Michael19
did she though?:stongue: j/k
and FF, if you keep going back to your ex, and shag her when the chance comes you will enver move on. Its tough, but you just have to say no if the chance comes up again, unless your over her nd its just a . but it doesnt sound like that at the moment. |
if you don't mind me asking...what makes it sound like i'm not over her? but you're right...you really can't move on if you have a buddy on the side like that. i think i would have been retarded to turn her down last night though...man...good stuff... |
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| anuneventrade |
Be careful! If you end up dating the new girl and everything works out, there's a chance that the ex might come along and try and everything up between you two when she finds out you're happy with someone else.
Ex's are vindictive little bitches like that.
Do you REALLY like this new girl or are you just kind of like "eh, she's someone for now"? |
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| Xenocreator_PG_ |
| what about the girl from your work?? Didnt you say you were gonna try & hitch up with her? :conf: |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by anuneventrade
Do you REALLY like this new girl or are you just kind of like "eh, she's someone for now"? |
hmmmm that's a great question.
i guess really i just kinda felt like i needed to start trying to date people again because it's been awhile since i put an effort into it...
i knew this girl liked me...i was always pretty attracted to her...and after hanging out with her a couple of times we obviously had a lot in common, which i was pretty surprised about.
to be honest...i don't think i'm going to get too serious with either of these girls. you know i think i had more fun at the club with some of the TA's on friday then i had in a loooong time. and i've kinda liked being on my own lately...i like just worrying about my stuff.
so i guess to answer your question...i don't REALLY like her...i mean i like spending time with her and we get along great..but only after a few dates i don't like i'm crazy about her. i wouldn't be against that growing, but i haven't felt it yet...i think it's been too early. |
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| Zild |
| Don't let your ex back into your life unless you want a relationship with her(which you shouldn't because she's your ex). You didn't cheat or anything we all have moments of weakness. You're not committed to the other girl yet so its all fair game. |
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| anuneventrade |
| If you don't really like her, forget her. And don't talk to the ex like that anymore. To be honest, it's hard for me to see my ex who I was with on and off for four years. Once I realized I did really want to be with Jason I made sure that we still talked, but that we weren't really alone together anymore, simply because I don't need that drama in a relationship that I'm actually trying to make work for once. |
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| jonSun |
| Dont worry bro. You didnt cheat at all. ;) |
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| Michael19 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
if you don't mind me asking...what makes it sound like i'm not over her? |
this
| quote: | | but we're both completely attracted to one another and i really can't say it won't keep happening... |
still seems you like her too much to say no, thus not really over here!
only way is to stop the one-night stands happening and you really should cut all contact. If you keep shagging her every so often you will spend the next day and week thinkging about her none stop. Tis a vicious circle.
keep seening the other girl, but not seriously. and keep away from the ex until you no you can control yourself around her!
oh, try the mount the girl in work aswell sure! |
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| igottaknow |
FF should get a manwhore shock collar for his pen0r. If he gets to close *ZAP*  |
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| töbias |
| Until you have the 'committment talk' most things go, however this is a good way to stuff up a quality future relationship with a quality person as you are playing with danger. |
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| Orbax |
youre a bad person. Fundamentally.
:wtf: |
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