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shag buddies (pg. 6)
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| insecurity |
re: shag buddies
If you can honestly, without a doubt, 100% guarantee, that if you saw her walking down the street with some other guy or knew she was in the next room bumping uglies with someone else, that you wouldn't bat an eyelid, then go for it.
(Also ask yourself the same question if the roles were reversed) i.e. if she was 100% cool with seeing you with someone else, then by all means hit that .
But if you have any doubts, any at all, look elsewhere!
(otherwise I look forward to reading your 'what do I do/relationship thread' in a few months time)
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| Billabong |
| quote: | Originally posted by insecurity
re: shag buddies
If you can honestly, without a doubt, 100% guarantee, that if you saw her walking down the street with some other guy or knew she was in the next room bumping uglies with someone else, that you wouldn't bat an eyelid, then go for it.
(Also ask yourself the same question if the roles were reversed) i.e. if she was 100% cool with seeing you with someone else, then by all means hit that .
But if you have any doubts, any at all, look elsewhere!
I wouldnt honestly mind, its just an extension of the friendship in my eyes, i have no plans to get into a relationship any time soon, and would reject someone if they asked me, because i dont need to the whole hassel of getting to know someone.
(otherwise I look forward to reading your 'what do I do/relationship thread' in a few months time)
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| Mr. Pink |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mr. Pink
exactly
i am the most fuked up i jhabe ebver neem pm TTA.
and all i have to say is that this man need sa vclue.
za clue
clue.......
this woman wants the dick, and he needs to find more than one p00n.
you know it.
i know it.
heknoqws i.t
bootya |
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stay away from tequila, kiddies :haha: |
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| CyberneticAngel |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mr. Pink
:wtf:
stay away from tequila, kiddies :haha: |
+1 lol |
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| dallastar |
| quote: | Originally posted by jonSun
A number of years ago I was in a serious relationship & started a shag buddy relagtionship with my ex right before her. The reason is that we both knew how to each others brains out good. It was going on for about a year on & off & then I found myself falling in love with her again while I was still in a relationship with my girlfriend who I loved also. So I had to cut it off with the ex again. She went a little nuts but things were ok. It was just as hard cutting it off with her as it was breaking up with her originally. Even though I had a girlfriend it hurt.
As of now im not in a shag buddy situation but more of a bj buddy situation. Since the past 4 months of me being single I have been occasionally partying with this skank im friends with. I originally met her a year & half ago & liked her. But then aft5er dating her a couple weeks I realized that she was the dirtiest slut ive ever met. So I told her we were just friends with benefits & everytime im single again we party alot. I wont stick my dick in her because of her dirtyness & i like dirty girls but she is way too dirty for me to . So she likes giving head so I let her do it. A couple weeks ago she had a boyfriend who worked at a local club called Crobar. We went to another club called Sound Bar that night & were on our way up to Crobar to see her boyfriend. Well on the way there the skank blows me & swallows. Then we get to Crobar & not even 10 minutes later she was making out with her boyfriend. I thought the guy was cool & he hooked me up with free drinks so I felt very bad. But I was hammered, so thats my excuse.
In conclusion buddies are great as long as theres an agreement before hand & no true feelings are involved. |
this story is great! I am currently single and have been for a long freakin while, we are talkin' at least over 3 years and in that time I have slept with one dude named rob , and made out with two others ironically named Rob (I don't like Rob's anymore). I have remained really good friends with my ex boyfriend, whose name is Tom, we don't have sex anymore - havent' for at least 2 years! last time we did, it was his birthday and we dranks so many martini's at the rooftop hyatt bar - in Toronto and I got so fuc*ken' drunk that we came home and shagged and i passed out - to later be found in a pool of vomit. it was sickenin' I was so sick and I could have died, IF he never found me! anwyays I am fine - I bought the bed from him - since it was discusting and I cleaned it and all is well now -
but to get back on track with the topic at hand ~ I wouldn't recommened havin' a shag buddie - it always gets more involving as time passes (feelings, emotions & attachment) u know what i mean! ( I hope) I just think that the older we get and the more maturly we see life, the more things will become clearer.
basically stay AWAY from the dirties and stay true to your body, mind and soul!
good luckw ith you decisions and wear a condom!!!!!!!!;) |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Falcon-X
make sure you dont MAKE LOVE..... just and I'm really serious saying that, it's very important or things will become weird. And if you keep following this line you might have the best sex ever.
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soooooooo damn true.
-buddies are great, as long as you have 100% open communication and honesty. it can get weird if emotions get involved or one person wants to call it off because they met someone they want to be serious with, but as long as both people are straightforward about what they want then there should be no issue.
i've got my share of -buddy stories, but the best is this...
5 years ago i met this guy and we were -buddies for a few months. i sort of snubbed him since i was all boy-crazy and had a serious bf at the time, but we remained friends and talked all the time. he helped me through a lot of ty situations and was always there for me.
to this day we are still best friends. :) |
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| NiteMer |
| I tried the friends with benefits thing, and it's alright, but can get messy. It was a girl I had dated for a bit, but knew I couldn't be with. The only problem was that she didn't feel that way. She acted like she didn't care, but gave me the "I'm in love with you" eyes. I continued to be open and honest about the fact that we were just having fun and nothing would EVER be more than that between us. Eventually I decided to stop doing it, as I felt guilty about it. She got a boyfriend, whom she has broken up with, but we already discussed the situation and I will never hit it again. Worked out alright for me, but even when I was doing the right thing, I felt a little bit bad about the situation. So it really depends on each of your mindsets. If you think she can handle it, go for it! |
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| UWM |
| There was this one girl I knew who was a straight up head-case but she was a real vixen in bed so pretty much every weekend night between 2 and 4 I could expect a call from her and we'd each other senseless and then usually I'd split because I didn't want to deal with her crazy ass. She ended up really liking to me and going to my frat house and knocking on the door and looking for me, but this was after I had moved across the street to another house so my friends and I would be all -faced up on the balcony laughing at that crazy bitch crying and looking for me. |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by jonSun
...on the way there the skank blows me & swallows. Then we get to Crobar & not even 10 minutes later she was making out with her boyfriend. |
too bad she swallowed, she could have treated her bf to a snowball :nervous: :haha:
on topic: commence operation shag buddy  |
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| {b.s.e.} |
| UWM, you so craaazy. |
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| Ory |
| quote: | Originally posted by UWM
There was this one girl I knew who was a straight up head-case but she was a real vixen in bed so pretty much every weekend night between 2 and 4 I could expect a call from her and we'd each other senseless and then usually I'd split because I didn't want to deal with her crazy ass. She ended up really liking to me and going to my frat house and knocking on the door and looking for me, but this was after I had moved across the street to another house so my friends and I would be all -faced up on the balcony laughing at that crazy bitch crying and looking for me. |
You so cruel. :( |
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