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My Turn - Relationship Thread
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| Echo of Silence |
Okay.
I'm 19 and horny as can be. I'm ready for a boyfriend and I have to choose a guy because I don't do sex casually. I'm giving myself 90 days to make my decision. I don't want to bounce around. So I'd like to make a good decision.
So. What's important to me is
1. intellect
2. music
3. morals
4. stimulating :D
The problem is I have a real multiple personality. I can be oh so bitchay, or oh so bratty, or just a spoiled little princess. Or... I can be the sweetest person in the world (not often).
Is it important that I find someone who will totally tolerate the bitchy, bratty, spoiled me? Because most of the guys I'm interested in won't.
I honestly don't think I can be sweet 24/7.
Your thoughts? |
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| Floorfiller |
*steps and takes a place first in line*
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| Zenchowdah |
dibs on second
edit: , denmark, never mind. |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
It seems that two people are happiest with one another when they have learned to look past all of those behaviours. Indeed, disposition is a very crucial thing, *especially* when first beginning a relationship, but maybe what you're looking for is someone who both reciprocates and correlates just as much as you do? I mean you are, in a way, the same way that most people are, looking for yourself in any relationship, right? Not that the goal is to find someone exactly like you, but the happiest couples seem to be the ones that agree on many things, no matter how capricious or random they may seem.
I, myself, am rarely temperamentally reliable - I exhibit signs of depression, angst, brattiness, irreverence, respect, gratitude, magnanimity, generosity, etc... just like a lot of other people. The key might just be finding someone who can see you, and not your mood. It's almost indescribable, this certain you that underlies the surface, and not everybody will see the same you when they look at you, but sometimes people touch each other (not just physically) in very unique ways and that's what makes one another interesting. :D
Or maybe you're just looking for an emotionless vessel with infinite patience and infinite sexual stamina. Check the personal ads. :stongue: |
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| Cal |
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| Dervish |
| No-one is sweet 24/7 that would be ing anoying actually I recon. Anyway I dunno how "healthy" it is putting a 90 day limit on your search is tho.... :tongue2 |
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| Rodrico |
What exactly are you asking again?
Be yourself first and foremost, if a guy cant like you for obviously being a strong woman, that means the guy isnt man enough to have you. Just keep yourself open for whatever makes you happy and make it clear you like him alot, but dont give yourself away too much, like your desperate. <-- you are anyways but thats a whole other story.
Btw, you remind me awhole lot like someone I know (by your description and posts). |
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| A83 |
| I call 2nd when i'm 18... |
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| Floorfiller |
chrissi your only problem is you live in ing california hahaha....get a move on and get the hell out here already :stongue: :stongue:
seee i can be bitchy and bratty too hahaha :p |
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| Rodrico |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
chrissi your only problem is you live in ing california hahaha....get a move on and get the hell out here already :stongue: :stongue:
seee i can be bitchy and bratty too hahaha :p |
Wrong, you're just a bitch. MAH BITCH!!!!:whip: |
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| ::TranceVanDyk:: |
| lets have a pic, then we'll see how much bitchiness we'll be willing to put up with to get some nuenundsechszig:p |
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| Psy-T |
| quote: | Originally posted by Echo of Silence
Okay.
I'm 19 and horny as can be. I'm ready for a boyfriend and I have to choose a guy because I don't do sex casually. I'm giving myself 90 days to make my decision. I don't want to bounce around. So I'd like to make a good decision.
So. What's important to me is
1. intellect
2. music
3. morals
4. stimulating :D
The problem is I have a real multiple personality. I can be oh so bitchay, or oh so bratty, or just a spoiled little princess. Or... I can be the sweetest person in the world (not often).
Is it important that I find someone who will totally tolerate the bitchy, bratty, spoiled me? Because most of the guys I'm interested in won't.
I honestly don't think I can be sweet 24/7.
Your thoughts? |
OMG hi 2 chrissi! :p |
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