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| AdReNaLiNa |
| quote: | Originally posted by Tordan
This might be a little hard for her to do since her ex is a TA. Be strong AdReNaLiNa, things do get better with time. I too got out of a long term relationship not long ago. You should just try to think about the future and not dwell in the past. |
my ex? he is not a TA actually.. but we do have a close mutual circle of friends which makes it difficult to avoid one another..
thanks for all the replies so far guys, it's good to see that others went through the same thing and somehow ended up alright |
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| starsearcher |
| quote: | Originally posted by AdReNaLiNa
my ex? he is not a TA actually.. but we do have a close mutual circle of friends which makes it difficult to avoid one another..
thanks for all the replies so far guys, it's good to see that others went through the same thing and somehow ended up alright |
No...not alright...but better and stronger and tougher and meaner :disbelief ;) You live you learn! :D |
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| TrickDaddE |
There will difinately be a mourning period.
But it's summer so try to make the best of it. |
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| house_conXion |
| Sorry to hear for your loss, it's been awhile since something like that happened to me and when it did I felt like the world crashing down on me, but not to sound repetitious time does heal, it takes awhile but the heart does go on and I've always been a firm believer that everything in life happens for a reason, keep your head held up high and your feet constantly dancing. |
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| voodoochild |
| quote: | Originally posted by Stilez
......welcome 2 my world. :( |
hahahaha and mine too.
e- tis time for you to branch out and create a a new cult under the TA umbrella :D |
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| Callie5 |
Keep your chin up! It's rough, but you'll get through it and you'll be stronger and smarter!
One thing I regret doing is keeping myself so busy that I didn't think about it or deal with my feelings, but it caught up to me... I'm still dealing with previous relationship issues in my current relationship because of this. Lesson to be leared.. deal with your feelings as they come, don't ignor them!
Keep smiling chickie, you'll be just fine ;) |
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| Carney |
| quote: | Originally posted by AdReNaLiNa
with all those emotions overcoming you after a break-up??
This weekend marked an end of a relationship I have been in for quite a long time with someone I care about deeply.. but yet we've decided that there is no future.
At this point, I can't remember the last time I was this miserable.. maybe you can offer some tips for getting over this rough time..
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i knoe exactly how you feel |
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| Funkyfun |
| Only time can heal such wounds... |
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| DigitalMP |
| friends are all that will help, lots of them. |
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| PartyHarlequin |
| quote: | Originally posted by VERTiG0
The best thing to do after a long loving relationship, that I've found, is to sever all connections with the person. Anything reminding you of them should be disposed of. Don't talk to them. Don't try to be friends. 99 times out of 100 it just doesn't work.
Also, find your buddy Jose. Cuervo, that is. |
I got out of a "traumatic" relationship. I was so screwed up afterwards I didn't know what to do. Friends help, keeping busy helps, with time all things fade... Oh and hooking up with better looking people and then videotaping it and sending it to your ex might also cheer you up (just a thought :) ). Don't worry, lots of fish blah blah blah, you're better than he is blah blah blah (those are both true).
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The whole being friends thing is totally stupid. I'm quasi seeing someone right now who still talks to her ex. Everytime they have a conversation she comes back depressed. It's retarded. Cut it off, don't see/speak to them, listen to lots of Notorious BIG (if you're a guy, sorry but as much as Big Booty Ho's gets me happy again I doubt it'll cheer up a girl :( ). Hard dirty RAP cheers me up after break ups... Probably because it tells you (the man) how much better and more important/powerful you are. Also a hard night of drinking makes the whole thing much smoother. Don't get depressed, go out and party. Celebrate your singleness and ability to hook up with whomever you please.
Until you're married all bets are off! |
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| *~LiSa-LoO~* |
| quote: | Originally posted by Funkyfun
Only time can heal such wounds... |
This is true...the only crappy thing is waiting for that time to pass! |
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| maxtuh |
just move on, and dont think abt it. its not going to make it better thinking abt it.
do something fun, maybe take up a hobby or something |
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