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| kdepa |
| So there's this girl I like a lot, we went out for a while, but we ended up getting so busy with school that we had to break up - it was mutual, and ended on very happy terms; we're still friends today. She ended up dating this second guy, who is a complete jerk - that's not just my feelings, its the feelings of everyone who is friends with this girl and me. She even openly admitted to me that he was being a jerk for no reason to me and to another couple of mutual friends. This girl even said she'd go out with me if it weren't for her current bf. Why is she still going out with him, if she knows he's a jerk? And how can I get her to possibly go out with me again? (wow this is sad...i've never been this desperate before ... lol) |
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| wienerschnitzel |
ask her for buttseckz
or if you really want to date her again, just wait until she realizes that guy is a douche bag (she eventually will) and be the rebound. |
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| Pariah Cleric |
| dun send teh lettar |
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| ChemEnhanced |
A lot depends on the ages. I will assume that you and your friend are in your early 20s. The reason she stays with her current Jerk BF is because he is interesting. He has a rebel side to him that makes him more appealing then you. You probably treated her great and listened to her and talked about feelings....hmmm...something women love.......IN A FRIEND.
If you want to get her back then the best thing to do is distance yourself from her. You are always around and if she wants to talk you are always there to talk to her. If you are not around then she will see what she is missing.
I was in a similar situation and it took a couple of months but now I am the one with the lady. |
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| kfergs |
teh CORe. A new LOVE LINE??? seems like as of late there has been a lot of woman problems being posted here(myself included), i send my regaurds to everyone with relationship problems...
kdepa, i feel for you bro... just tell her how you really feel and i know this may seem impossible but make her realize you would treat her way better than that dickbag does... you gotta let her know or it wont work out... |
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| zokissima |
Wait, I've never understood bs like that. "I'd go out with you if it weren't for my bf". That's basically saying I like this guy now, I'll ride him 'till I lose interest, then come back to borking, predictable you. wtf. If she were being truthful about him being a jerk, she'd either:
a) confront him about it
b) tell him to f*** off and come to you
Since neither of these two things seem to be happening, I wouldn't hold your breath. Have a little more respect for yourself and make her come to YOU, rather than doing anything to get her. Seriously, if she's with him, there's obviously something appealing about him. If he's a totally different person when he's just with her, then she might not realize the truth and leave. |
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| Moral Hazard |
We have hit upon an area that I have great expertise in.... stealing a woman. I have done this many times, in fact, I stole my fiancee from some guy who wasn't treating her as she deserved to be treated.
If this guy really is a jerk your job is easy. You're friends with this girl right? What you need to do is get her to talk to you about her boyfriend but your goal is to keep her focused on the negative. Sympathize with her complaints and constently support her validate the reasons she is upset (try to make her think you know exactly where she's coming from... a parallel from your own life would help).
As you listen to her complaints you'll get a very good understanding of what she finds fault with in her bf. Your job then becomes to highlight how you do not have the same faults as her bf. If she complains that he is inconsiderate open the door for her. If she complains that he is self absorbed, ask her about how she feels or how her day was. If she complains that he's rude, be polite.
You will also want to get her thinking that she deserves better then what she has. She'll naturally start to wonder if there is better out there. Since you do not posess (or at least she thinks you don't) any of the traits she hates about her bf she will naturally start to think that you are the "better" that she deserves. From there it's just a question of time before she rids herself of her bf.
Following the above plan it took me 3 weeks to prompt my now fiancee to dump her then boyfriend of two years. |
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| kr00t0n |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
We have hit upon an area that I have great expertise in.... stealing a woman. I have done this many times, in fact, I stole my fiancee from some guy who wasn't treating her as she deserved to be treated.
If this guy really is a jerk your job is easy. You're friends with this girl right? What you need to do is get her to talk to you about her boyfriend but your goal is to keep her focused on the negative. Sympathize with her complaints and constently support her validate the reasons she is upset (try to make her think you know exactly where she's coming from... a parallel from your own life would help).
As you listen to her complaints you'll get a very good understanding of what she finds fault with in her bf. Your job then becomes to highlight how you do not have the same faults as her bf. If she complains that he is inconsiderate open the door for her. If she complains that he is self absorbed, ask her about how she feels or how her day was. If she complains that he's rude, be polite.
You will also want to get her thinking that she deserves better then what she has. She'll naturally start to wonder if there is better out there. Since you do not posess (or at least she thinks you don't) any of the traits she hates about her bf she will naturally start to think that you are the "better" that she deserves. From there it's just a question of time before she rids herself of her bf.
Following the above plan it took me 3 weeks to prompt my now fiancee to dump her then boyfriend of two years. |
If you were running for president I would vote for you!! :toothless |
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| Moral Hazard |
| Soon my friend..... soon |
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| zidumare |
you have a few options.
go out with one of her best friends.
go out with anyone else. and make sure ppl talk about your relationship
just bring out your crazy side.
bring out something she never knew about you
she cant know possibly everything about you so....
dont spend a lot of time with her...and when you do bring something new to the table.
make her wonder...
wat if i dont really know this guy???(this guy being you)
and dont show her you care anymore.
if you show her you care. its only gonna make her think she can come back to you anytime...show her...you dont want me now...you wont have me later. please dont be whipped :whip: :whip: and definetly beg for her.
if she doesnt come back its her loss and not yours. but you cant sit on the fence like you are doing right now. |
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| kdepa |
| Well, I'm going to try out some of these ideas, particularly the one where hopefully she'll realize that the guy she's with isn't treating her like he should - (basically it seems he's taking advantage of her, and she doesnt realize it, though everyone else does.) Maybe she'll realize that she's with a jerk, and that he isn't worth wasting her time on. |
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