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Betrayal (pg. 3)
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| dj_mdma |
| i've been used a few times. and no, not in the good way :toothless But you deal with it and move on when enough time has passed. |
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| butterfly |
| i had two or three boyfriends who left me for friends of mine that i had introduced them to. it hurt the most the last time but i had the last laugh when he left her for another girl a year later and they still had a lease together. at the end of the day, i am happy with how things worked out for me. if those losers hadnt left i wouldnt have my man now. |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mr. Pink
oh man, well, yeah i guess i'll tell the tale...:nervous:
No one really knows about this cept for my closest friends. Mario, and gavin, and stephen REALLY helped me out when i first found out about the drama. They consoled me and proved to be my best friends, in times of getting sloshed, and in times of true heart break.
My girlfriend back in Puerto Rico.......I was madly in love with her. This was back during last summer when we met, and we decided to do the long distance. It worked out. I went back to PR in October, and in December and everytime we were together things were amazing. I treated her like a queen.
So January comes.......we decided to break up mutually. I was still in love, no doubt, but hey.....it was the mature decision.
All of my friends knew how I felt about her. Oh man, it's just unreal. Like, I cant even explain how much i cared for this woman.
Everyone back home knew this.
Everyone also knew I was going to be returning in the summer specifically to do some soul searching. Go back to Puerto Rico, stay in my condo, and just think about things. Be with Angela, see if i wanted to stay in puerto rico forever and just be with her. See where the future takes us. I was willing to do that for her.
During my mental anguish, should i stay in the USA? should i go back and live in PR?.......some betrayal was happening behind my back.
(background- i have (had) a crew of 6 guys: me, jorge, giova, fer, howie, and joel)......... the last three ive known for over a decade and they have stayed true to me)
She fuked one of my closest friends, Giova. The same one I had been sending all the latest Prog/House tracks for that month because he had no hookup on what was hot. The same one that told me to marry her, cuz she loved me, and we were so perfect for one another. My friend for 3yrs, but 3 yrs of goodness........
Then I found out that she did a bunch of with my friend Jorge. My best friend of 9yrs. He admitted it to me because my other friends told him if he didnt, they would
I found out about this in Feb. and it shattered me.
I lost the woman I loved and 2 of my closest friends all in the same day.
And you know, fine, maybe she didn't love me as much as i loved her.
That's life and i can understand that, as much as it might hurt. What isn't fine was two of my brothers......my closest and most trusted friends on planet earth.....my fukin soul mates.....ripping my soul in to 9billion pieces and ting all over me.
that hurts
and for that- i did not go back to puerto rico
and for that- i decided to start a new life here.
it's been 4 months, and im alright. But every now and then it pops in my head and it slices me into pieces all over again. And i know, if i ever do go back home, if i see any of those 3....... it'll be like getting decked in the stomach. I'll just probably say hi and leave. keep my composure and be the bigger man.
But i just can't help but think, "why".
I've never in my life done anything bad or mean to them. Always helped them out, gave advice. I was a damn good friend. Everytime i went home it was like a fukin parade of debauchery. Always great times and I thought they respected me and my love. That's all i asked for.....for them to respect my love for a woman.
I thought SHE would respect the fact that there's thousands of guys in PR, why pick my friends? But oh well....... it took 2 to tango, on two different occasions, and for that, i am empty.
and that's my story. |
that's ed up man...i'd be crushed if that happened to me. but you know what? in the long run it could turn out to be a good thing. i know it's hard to see how, but for a couple of reasons...
1. you won't go back to PR, something you were really only gonna do for this girl, you can stay here and make your life and move on thinking about what is best for you...
2. its better this happened and you found out about it before you made any kind of life changing decisions. i mean think if you married her and then you found out. think of the problems that could've created...
3. you now realise the true character of those people and can move on and create new friends and girlfriends that won't treat you like that...
i know its as painful as things get, but after time passes i think you will be better for it overall. hopefully the wounds heal and you can move on and trust again...
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| Fundamental |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
yeah, it's ty, but i think i have betrayed more people than i have been betrayed myself. i've done some pretty ty things over the years. the only positive thing i can say is that i have learned from my mistakes, and it made me the girlfriend/friend i am today. |
So you're not a bitch anymore?! :p
Yay! :D |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Fundamental
So you're not a bitch anymore?! :p
Yay! :D |
i have grown up a huge amount in 3 years ;) |
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| Fundamental |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
i have grown up a huge amount in 3 years ;) |
Aww, well done for repenting those sins!
Have a gold star... :D
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| Clovis86 |
Javi, as bad as that story is, I realise something everytime I travel, and you should too...
There are millions...and millions...and millions... of GIRLS :wtf: :D :D :D :D :D
Just when you think you may have found the right one...there is one on the other side of the world who is even better...or maybe even two blocks down your street.
I'm sure with your funnyness you will find someone even better.
Like Mellymel :haha: :stongue: :p :crazy: :wtf: :gsmile: |
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| Ang ' ela_ie |
| Pink, youve got a better Angela in the US. ;) |
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| DjWhooCares |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mr. Pink
I thought SHE would respect the fact that there's thousands of guys in PR, why pick my friends? But oh well....... it took 2 to tango
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I asked myself that VERY question...WHy my friends...out of all the guys, why them...
yeah my ex of a little less than 2 yrs...ed me over soo badd..
thats why ive vbeen seingle for over a yr now...
ive had my chances...but i dont step up since im too scared it will happen again...i know not all chicks are like that...
but the scar us still there..
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| gmoney |
| Man, I went to law school. If you want to talk about back-stabbing, you have no idea. |
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| djdust |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
I heard some girl with the initials K.S. betrayed Dark Angel. When he logs in I'm sure he'd love to tell you all about it. :disbelief :stongue: |
hahaahhaha- EVIL! :whip: :disbelief :haha: :haha: |
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| igottaknow |
javi tuff stuff well at least you found out about this b4 moving to PR for her.
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
that's ed up man...i'd be crushed if that happened to me. |
you should talk after sleeping with ur best friend's sistar :stongue: |
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