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relationship thread 8.3
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| wizniz |
ok heres the deal...
theres this chick and i know she likes me...
my friends are telling me,
her friends are telling me...
she flirts w/ me on aol instant messenger whenever i get on.
problem:
she has always hung out w/ a very specific group of friends, which makes things dificult. for example, last night i went on my 4th "date" w/ her. we watched "amelie" at her house... she is only just starting to get comfortable w/ talking to me in person and her body language is very conservative...
this led me to believe that she wasnt interested... i was sitting in the middle of the couch and her on the end. at one point, i adjusted my arms behind my head to get more comfortable and she subconsciously jerked away thinking i was going to bust into her personal bubble.
so im like :wtf: and then later crack a joke about the story and she laughs and we look at each other deeply in the eyes...
then its over and shes like see you later! and opens the door for me and then shuts it. with her still inside.
at this point im like :wtf: :whip: :wtf: and so i go home thinking that she doesnt like me and i get on instant messenger... then she starts flirting with me again!
needless to say i subtly blew her off and went to bed but :wtf:
my one friend says i just need to give it more time but her anti-socialness and body-language are confusing me.
and no pics :whip: :whip: :whip: :whip: :whip:
until i solve the problem ;)
-will
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im used to chicks who are more normal... and at least kissing on the first or second date.
that makes her interesting but its starting to get frustrating to the point where i want to just forget about her. |
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| Floorfiller |
| since it seems like AOL is her safe haven or whatever....why don't you confront her about it on there? say hey...i really like you bla bla...but if i can't get any...this just isn't going to work... |
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| M@t |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
since it seems like AOL is her safe haven or whatever....why don't you confront her about it on there? say hey...i really like you bla bla...but if i can't get any...this just isn't going to work... |
but dont say it like that or she'll think u only want her for sex
also amelie rocks |
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| shades_of_gray |
| quote: | Originally posted by M@t
but dont say it like that or she'll think u only want her for sex
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usually the case :rolleyes:
some ppl can flirt online, but whenn there in person they cant.....they can walk the walk, but cant talk the talk if u no what i mean
she sounds a bit jumpy nd nervous...just talk to her and stuff |
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| Sinatra |
| ^ Do what he said and then just take a chill pill.. Obviously she is one of these girls who takes things slower, where as you might not be use to it. If you like her stick with it, girls are the most confusing! So just give her time. Maybe next time she'll let you in her room, haha. ;) |
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| Basstard |
| boy if its this awkward just trying to get into her "personal bubble" as you put it i cant wait til this thread's sequel when shes freaking out coz ur pen0r wants to misbehave! |
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| Xenocreator_PG_ |
| Micheal jackson: 'Just hit it' |
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| wizniz |
so just keep chillin?
dont want to get tossed into the "just friend" part of her mind... :confused: |
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| nchs09 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
since it seems like AOL is her safe haven or whatever....why don't you confront her about it on there? say hey...i really like you bla bla...but if i can't get any...this just isn't going to work... |
old avatar is back.... great succes. |
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| DjConfessions |
| maybe is just acting like the girls here in southern california. Flirting is just part of the friendship |
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| apostrophe |
^^^
Too true. some girls just love to tease the cock. And when you make a move it's all "Wait, i thought we were just friends!!" *queue more teasing* :whip: |
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| Mr. Pink |
if she's like this with normal body language IMAGINE you tryin to kiss her, or worse- get her in bed.
sounds like she's young and you are too.
I say , dont fret. Act chill and she will come around.
Tell her you like her, and see what goes down. |
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