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Self Harm (pg. 5)
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| paranoik0 |
| how anyone would want to desire pain to themselves confuses me. if there's anything i hate more than everything in life, and avoid it at all costs, is pain. call me selfish and a , but i can't stand it. |
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| daylightdancer |
| i know quite a few people who do it,and it is because of releasing pain etc frm physical to emotional, i do see why ppl do it,but its just hard seeing ure friends go through it all |
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| ChemEnhanced |
| many people were worried about me and for me when I went through that stage. It is not something I would recommend to anyone but at that time in my life it felt good and I enjoyed it. |
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| Nell |
| quote: | Originally posted by est
Yes but people who self-harm are ill, Nell, and lack of communication is a symptom. I can see why self-harm would be a difficult thing to understand - hell i dont even understand it and i did it! But telling people that their illness is stupid or retarded doesn't really help anyone. If you can't help, don't hinder.
To be able to use the power of speech requires:
1. Knowing what the problem is (often the biggest hurdle)
2. Insight, and a genuine drive to reach the root of the problem
3. The brute emotional strength to dredge up serious and painful problems that have perhaps been supressed for a life time. And they've been supressed for a reason (another big one)
4. The realisation that talking to someone might help
5. Somebody to talk to that will take the problem seriously
6.The ability to articulate the problem
...And others that im not thinking of... |
You bring up some fair, interesting, good points!
i guess i have never had a majorly seriously problem, so i take back what i said.
i've been depressed, very depressed, but obviously nothing on the level of some of the self harmers. |
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| ::TranceVanDyk:: |
i did that back when you're in puberty, dont know what the feck is going on with you. u dont know who you are? am i an emo? or a hip hopper. thank god i found EDM and its sophistication that comes with it.
i still have a two inch scar from when cut my thigh with a sterile knife, just for the hell of it. bloody mess, but i didnt go too far with it all that "emo" crap. |
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| nchs09 |
| why the question jackson? btw i dont think iv ever met anyone who does this. |
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| jonSun |
| Ive harmed myself by being lazy. Ive also harmed myself by dating the wrong women for too long of a time. |
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| Xenocreator_PG_ |
| quote: | Originally posted by nchs09
why the question jackson? btw i dont think iv ever met anyone who does this. |
ninjas do it bro. But only if they are cornered by thousounds of enemy ninjas.
They'll never take that ninja alive!! |
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| Jackson |
| quote: | Originally posted by nchs09
why the question jackson? btw i dont think iv ever met anyone who does this. |
Because i do it. Like once every 2 months or so when i'm feeling really really suicidal |
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| Mr. Pink |
| quote: | Originally posted by Jackson
Because i do it. Like once every 2 months or so when i'm feeling really really suicidal |
See, here's the thing.
I remember back when I was a teen.......from 14-17 I was a pissed off human being. I was trapped up in that Angsty bull.
I was the 90's version of Emo. Writing poetry, playing guitar and in a ty fukin relationship. (although i love to write and play guitar....cept now i do it for good reasons, not emo bull like in HS).
anywayz, as you grow you start to realize life is worth living. Life is beautiful....and its not something you should get caught up in. You only have so long to live in this world, why bother wasting it on pathetic thoughts like, "i want to die"?:conf:
if anything, you should be wishing for more time to live....
...because everything around you is good.
Sure, some people suck. Some things aren't nice or fun to deal with. But in the end, what else do you have but this?
Sorry buddy, but living in the clouds or burning in hell aren't your only options. This is it. Enjoy life.
...........and stop wasting my time, slut.
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| superglo |
or do large amounts of drugs.
that way you waste your life away and have fun at the same time. |
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| Spacey Orange |
| quote: | Originally posted by Jackson
Ever done this?
Its a serious question so no stupid responses Please. |
yes. sometimes i starve myself for up to four hours.:( |
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