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My friend are all whipped!
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| Mr. Furious |
This is soooo frustrating.
They flake out on plans with the excuse "I forgot"
They talk on and on about how in love they are.
When you ask them to come out they say emasculating things like "I have to see if it's ok"
I have two good friends named Chris, who both happen to be good friends as well. One Chris is dating this girl named Lindsay, who is 18 (he's 25). If that's not bad enough, we all hate her because she's immature, but he claims he's in love with her....So one day, one chris calls te other Chris, and asks "what are you doing? he replies "I'm with the most beautiful girl in the world (his girlfriend was next to him)", and he responds with "Oh, you're with Lindsay too?"
UGH! Where's the vomiting emoticon?
I'm at this point in my life where I have absolutely no desire to get into a relationship, and i'm greedy, so I wish all my friends were single too.
This is why i always say that friends are disposable. You always have to have someone around to take his place.
....And whoever says that relationships shouldn't change a friendship is completely full of and obviously lying to himself.
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| muzzybear |
Awww, dude, that sucks! Come to Rancho Relaxo tonight, then. Check out girllovingtvibe's band. And eat good, cheap mexican.
I would never get in the way of my hubby's friendships, and he would never stop me from seeing my friends. Give your friends time, 'cause once the honeymoon's over, they'll be lookin' for you to hang out with. But there's always room for more friends! |
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| Tordan |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mr. Furious
UGH! Where's the vomiting emoticon?
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here you go...  |
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| Mr. Furious |
| quote: | Originally posted by muzzybear
Awww, dude, that sucks! Come to Rancho Relaxo tonight, then. Check out girllovingtvibe's band. And eat good, cheap mexican. |
Thanks for the offer, but I'm going out with the two douchebag Chris's for one of their birthdays.
| quote: | | ...But there's always room for more friends! |
I agree. When I say friends are disposable, I don't mean that I discard them like garbage...I just mean that things happen and friends often don't stick around a long as you'd like them too....People move, they fall out of touch...And that's life....That's why it's always good to have someone to take their place. ;) |
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| Jayx1 |
| quote: | | When you ask them to come out they say emasculating things like "I have to see if it's ok" |
Pathetic! Why are Canadian guys so whipped? This is why im single because ive had that fight way too many times in my life. Women need to understand that just because they are part of my life, doesnt mean they ARE my life or can control it as if they were my mother. And likewise!
But Canadian guys get what they deserve because most are spineless losers. |
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| Irishaddict |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mr. Furious
So one day, one chris calls the other Chris, and asks "what are you doing? he replies "I'm with the most beautiful girl in the world (his girlfriend was next to him)", and he responds with "Oh, you're with Lindsay too?"
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LMAO |
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| EvilTree |
Yeah. whipped guys make me laugh.
Grow some frigging balls. You gotta do what you gotta do and that means not listening to your gf every single frigging time. |
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| Playa24_7 |
In a relationship, you need time with your friends, and she needs time with her friends. You guys gotta trust eachother, then theres no in problem. If you dont trust eachother, then why the FRIG are you together!??? I DONT GET IT!!1 Obviously times together are wicked to, but you gotta balance stuff out people! If the two of you start trying to control all these parts of eachotheres lifes, then you have to rethink some stuff or your done.
My friend Dhany and his gf Steph. They call eachother every like 20min when they arnt together, to check up on eachother. They both always think the other one is up to something. in retarded! |
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| Tordan |
^^ that relationship isn't going to last long. if you can't trust the other person then what's the point?
about guys being whipped... yes, lots of them are. but what if the guy would rather spend time with his gf in this situation? maybe what his friends are doing doesn't interest him this time around. you gotta take that into consideration as well. |
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| ShadoWolf |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mr. Furious
They flake out on plans with the excuse "I forgot"
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IMO that there is the only thing you have a right to complain about in this situation. |
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| ChemEnhanced |
Typically, if one of my friends gets into a new relationship I will give them about a three month period where I don't expect I will see them very often. If you are just getting into a relationship then you need time to get to know each other. After the three months I will see if my friend wants to get together. If he/she doesn't want to hang out or if everytime we hang out the significant other is around then I will just stop talking to them.
People have to make their decision as to what is more important friends of some relationship that may not last. True friends will always make time for each other. |
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| Sly_Guy |
relationships don't have to change your friendships. I know several couples which I am completely happy to see endure because the people involved fit so well with each other it makes me happy to see them. One couple in particular, is of a girl who I became good friends with on my floor in first year. She's dating another guy whom I didn't know beforehand, but they meshed so well together her boyfriend has now become one of my good friends. It's at the point where they can come out as a couple, fit in with any group, and not alienate anyone. Furthermore, they are so relaxed with all of their [now mutual] friends, that I or any of them could sit down in their house, just the three of us, and not at all feel out of place. And if they wanted me or any other person to scram so that they could have sex, the method they'd probably use to get rid of us is to get us drunk.
To me, that right there is the ideal relationship. Where you feel equally comfortable with your friends with or without your partner, and sacrifice nothing with reguards to your friends while maintaining a great relationship. I do know couples on the other end of the spectrum tho, and those guys need to grow some friggin balls too. |
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