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Make a woman feel pretty? (pg. 6)
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| igottaknow |
| give her a facial ;) |
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| igottaknow |
i've always wanted to know whats a charm? |
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| Protege |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
give her a facial ;) |
Pearl necklace you mean!?:p |
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| weymouth |
Could be five things:
1. Ugly duckling swan thing
2. Guilt from pre-marital sex and feeling like she is being used
3. Molestation or abuse as a child
4. Horrible self-confidence because of past relationships and media
5. She does this in all relationships she is in for attention. People will do the same behavior if they like the results, in this case more attention.
If you know any of her Ex's contact them and ask if she did the same with them. If you find out it is just you then maybe she thinks you are too good for her or she is too good for you. Anyway if it is just a thing with you and her, talk about it and clear it up. If it might be any of the other 4 reasons, she will need help to change. |
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| igottaknow |
^--- good advice
That made me think of one thing that you haven't mentioned. She could have stumbled across his pr0n collection. Girls get all weirded out if you *fap off to other women. I know its hard to believe but its true.  |
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| NeoPhono |
Here's a little trick that's always worked for me.
1. While she's sleeping, take a dump on her face.
2. Take a picture.
3. Show her the picture.
She'll quickly realize that in comparison to her face with poop on it, she's a beautiful woman.
Take her out to dinner, then poke.
4. Repeat. |
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| Unique2701 |
| Just give her enough attention.. Make her believe that even if she wouldn't be pretty you'd still like her.. We girls like that :o |
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| Danny Ocean |
reminds me of this verse from a song
She thinks I can't see the smile thats she's faking
And poses for pictures that aren't being taken
I loved you
Gray sweatpants
No makeup
So perfect |
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| Vivid Boy |
| quote: | Originally posted by Perfect_Cheezit
My girl doesn't think she's pretty. Common source of concern for women, I know, but it does concern me as well. She honestly doesn't see it in herself. I want her to be happy and I want some advice from women (or men i guess) as to what can be done for a girl to make her feel pretty overall. Not minor things like saying you're beautiful casually and often, etc, I do that already. I'm wondering if there are/is anything that can be done to make this girl feel like she's a star. Yes, my C0Rwhore friends, she is a hotty, I'd just like her to know it. Any advice?
oh yeah and -
Things i wont do:
1. post pics
2. stfu
3. stick it in tha pooper
4. send tha lettar |
maybe her kow self esteem comes from dating u. maybe u should pretty urself up a bit |
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| jonSun |
| quote: | Originally posted by Vivid Boy
maybe her kow self esteem comes from dating u. maybe u should pretty urself up a bit |
I was gonna say something similar but held off. I knew Vivid would post FTW. :p |
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| Xenocreator_PG_ |
| Buy her more clothes & a dildo. |
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| Aquarian |
| quote: | Originally posted by allcentury18
being past relationship advice? theres no way thats possible. i'll see a thread in here in due time about how your relationship went to and you don't know why.
thread originator: you don't have to take my advice, i fully understand your situation though. the HARDEST part about all the things i tell you is not whether or not they are true. psychoanalysts are so good at stripping apart ficticious ideals that people hold on to during relationships. what you'll realize is that 3rd party views, although skued, are usually the more sensible ones. in this entire thread you took your g/f's defense and shut out most answers that, people just don't get it. or you dont know her like i do.
if you have the ability to step outside your own reality and look at this analytically, do it. you can't sit there and say, "she thinks this... " but defend her in your own mind by saying "yeah she thinks this, but i know this..." |
^ good advice ^
Worst thing you can do is keep looking at it subjectively. You're only dealing with the surface here, not the root of the problem. Ask yourself why she wants to feel attractive - or why she wants you to say she's attractive. What are the motives behind it? Ideas like "talk to her and make her feel special" or "tell her how beautiful she is" may sound all girly-cute on paper, but it won't get you anywhere in real life. If she was so unattractive, you wouldn't be with her in the first place, and I'd bet there's a 99% chance she knows that very well. So why is she still feeling unattractive - or pretending she feels unattractive? |
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