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Make a woman feel pretty? (pg. 7)
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| igottaknow |
| he should use her insecurities to his advantage. (turn a negative into a positive). :disbelief |
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| Aristronica |
yeah, butsekz is the true solution to your problem.
if you have the guts to stick it to her in teh pooper then... ok i don't know where i'm going with that one... |
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| Perfect_Cheezit |
| quote: | Originally posted by Aquarian
^ good advice ^
Worst thing you can do is keep looking at it subjectively. You're only dealing with the surface here, not the root of the problem. Ask yourself why she wants to feel attractive - or why she wants you to say she's attractive. What are the motives behind it? Ideas like "talk to her and make her feel special" or "tell her how beautiful she is" may sound all girly-cute on paper, but it won't get you anywhere in real life. If she was so unattractive, you wouldn't be with her in the first place, and I'd bet there's a 99% chance she knows that very well. So why is she still feeling unattractive - or pretending she feels unattractive? |
Uh...what girl wants to feel ugly? People have been pinpointing it, its largely an ugly duckling type syndrome. I guess if you're suggesting that I wouldn't be with her if she wasn't pretty thats a point to take into consideration, but I've dated women before who weren't particularly attractive by other's standards. So I don't think its an insecurity issue for her thinking the only reason I'm dating her is because she's hot. That's not it - or if you want me to be objective, "It is my opinion that looking at the situation objectively that this particular instance is not the root cause" |
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| Zenchowdah |
just do spur of the moment stuff, even little things.
girl - "Hey have you seen..."
you - "you're the only person ive seen all night long."
its cheesy as , but it works :) |
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| squishymishy |
| Orbax ? wtf is a 'CURB STOMP' :S ... if ur gunna be a bitch then atleast threaten me with something i am familiar with :) |
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| Noree |
| quote: | Originally posted by allcentury18
lol a CORe disclaimer... priceless!
in any regard, your girlfriends lack of self confidence has nothing to do with her looks. and by you telling her how awesome she is all the time is hurting your relationship. if you talk about how lucky you are to have her and how she is the center of your world, you my friend are in trouble.
remember as a social being(all humans are), qualification inside a social dynamic, in this case a relationship is completely determined by programming and tests. her test to you is whether or not she thinks you qualify. by you acting needy you are acting submissive to her needs.
ie. you are not showing alpha male qualites and instead she will be less attracted to you.
btw i do free seminars and night training if anyone is interested |
he is very right! another trick that i actually learned from tom lycus...is using backdoor compliments! which means lets say ur girls says.....i think im fat...hunny what do u think? u dont say baby ur the most amazing thing blah blah but what u do say is "hunny forget what everyone says...to me ur perfect" this way u have her in ur palm for the most part....she will always be thinking hmmm somehting is wrong with me but atleast he likes me! its a bit more complicated but im sure u can find articles on this technique...i also will be hosting seminars for who ever is interested LOL j/k |
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| Orbax |
| quote: | Originally posted by squishymishy
Orbax ? wtf is a 'CURB STOMP' :S ... if ur gunna be a bitch then atleast threaten me with something i am familiar with :) |
its making someone bite the edge of a sidewalk and you jump on the back of their head. |
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| squishymishy |
| like you would be able to do that to me =\ ill curb stomp u! |
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| Ygrene |
| quote: | Originally posted by squishymishy
like you would be able to do that to me =\ ill curb stomp u! |
Stfu and go post in the 'Meet Shay' thread. Your screenname is perfect for it. |
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| trance4life627 |
some girls are just plain dumb and aint worth the time...
i swear, i went to a concert last week and i swear ive never met hotter/stupider girls that just LOVE the dick
i told one girl i was related to joseph stalin, and she goes "oh what band is he in?!"
i just walked away.. |
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| squishymishy |
| Ygrene no one told you to come out from under your rock. my screenname is ing fine for any thread i wanna post in :) so stop thinking your some 'elite tranceaddict' and stop picking on the noob :) |
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| Ygrene |
| quote: | Originally posted by squishymishy
Ygrene no one told you to come out from under your rock. my screenname is ing fine for any thread i wanna post in :) so stop thinking your some 'elite tranceaddict' and stop picking on the noob :) |
lol, I'm not picking on you. If you read the 'Meet Shay' thread you'd get the joke. |
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