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Girl/guy thread #000001 (pg. 2)
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| tribu |
| quote: | Originally posted by Mebot
Were you trying to put the moves on her when you guys were working over the weekend?
Maybe your actions are not as overt as you'd think and maybe she took something the wrong way.
Either way, punch the bf in the mouth and try to get jenny fired. Win-win situation. |
Not really. We've had very deliberate drunk and sober conversations about the whole thing, and I'd say that everything between all parties has been handled in a mature manner (until today).
She knows how I feel and my fatalist approach towards the situation. Shes the girl I did the set for I recently posted on ourboard :p
And sure, Derek. jealous:loser |
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| Floorfiller |
| really what matters here is your intentions. i mean if you really are just friends with this chick...then you didn't do anything wrong. but it does kinda sound like you do still like her...and in that case i don't think this dude is completely outta line. i've been on his side of it before, but i said something to my girlfriend not the guy. but i think it is your place if he calls you out publically... |
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| ierxium |
| So how was the coffee? |
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| Trancealot |
hmm lets see...
If you had a GF you understand and maybe others.....
We have a Long distance relationship right now because she is one year behind me in school. This past summer, she was working at her summer job the bank. One day this new kid worked there. Well they began talking and well I am far away so what can I do and I don't care. But as she talks about him I feel insecure. Well from what she has told me over the phone he has given her back rubs at work and to top it off she gave him her phone # so what am I to do. Well I threatened her and said well you feel like wasting almost 2 years of my life for some random kid thats fine with me!!!!Lets say the next day she never talked to that kid again and well she transferred to another bank. Is that a wake up call or am I insecure.
Here is the finale. Lets say I start chatting it up with some (new girl) no matter where(work,bar, random) F'N watch out for the GF to drop the bomb on that!!!!! You think guys are insecure. man you don't even know!
My point is if you are in a relationship, a new smlel in the air is good to see but don't touch or talk to. If your single you need all the smells and touches you can get out there. I know from experience! |
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| tribu |
Well, I would for sure hook up with her if the situation were right, but i wasnt thinking, 'well go out for coffee, drinks and back to my place.' It was more like when you're at a really great party and you don't want the night to end because everything has been perfect, so you eat another roll and stay up with a few friends and watch the sunrise or whatever.
So my overall intentions might be, yes, if things are right, but Sunday, it was more like, let's keep hanging out...this has been great so far.
And she declined the coffee. She was meeting up with her sister.
Additionally, she got the set because we were talking about techno music and i wanted to show her it wasnt all 4x4. You can read about it in OB if you really want. |
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| Sunsnail |
| quote: | Originally posted by Trancealot
Well from what she has told me over the phone he has given her back rubs at work and to top it off she gave him her phone # so what am I to do. |
woah. |
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| Trancealot |
| quote: | Originally posted by Sunsnail
woah. |
seriously,
I told her I only break up with her if she cheats on me or just likes someone else. Same goes for me!Communcation is good but we been through over couple hundered fights:stongue: :whip:
to top it off, some kid in her class was hitting on her few weeks back, she does not chat with this kid again.
Watch out for you GF, they are in demand like mine!! LOL but seriously |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by tribu
Shes the girl I did the set for I recently posted on ourboard :p
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uh oh... this is sounding all too familiar... :stongue:
if you like her, and i mean REALLY like her (not just "like" as in "yea she's hot, i'd hit it") then just in' go for it. maybe she likes you too but doesn't want to jeopardize a long relationship she has with her boyfriend, or maybe she's just too shy or she doesn't realize that her feelings might be deeper than friendship (denial is a bitch). if you feel like there is a mutual connection there, then see where it takes you, yeah? it could be the best thing ever... but you won't know until you give it a shot 100%.
i dunno, maybe i'm crazy for suggesting that, but i have an avid appreciation for the "friend in love"... it sounds like her boyfriend is a bit insecure and jealous of you, she might be better off with a guy like you.
then again what worked in my situation probably wouldn't work for everyone. :wtf: |
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| Trancealot |
the only way to get with her is...wait for her to be single. Try to steal this girl from him or her just liking you is going to leave this kid with a bad taste in his mouth no matter what. You gotta put yourself in this kids shoes for a sec. I see too many of my friends have girls go through without any remours from her view. I never see guys doing this to a group of girls. Prob because theyy breakup with one girl, he is outcasted from the group.
To just be foward,
are you truly going to have cooffee with this girl.. mann I would love to finish this sentence but I am insecure of what i am about to say on TA! unless you beg me to finish the sentence |
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| Floorfiller |
| quote: | Originally posted by Trancealot
hmm lets see...
If you had a GF you understand and maybe others.....
We have a Long distance relationship right now because she is one year behind me in school. This past summer, she was working at her summer job the bank. One day this new kid worked there. Well they began talking and well I am far away so what can I do and I don't care. But as she talks about him I feel insecure. Well from what she has told me over the phone he has given her back rubs at work and to top it off she gave him her phone # so what am I to do. Well I threatened her and said well you feel like wasting almost 2 years of my life for some random kid thats fine with me!!!!Lets say the next day she never talked to that kid again and well she transferred to another bank. Is that a wake up call or am I insecure.
Here is the finale. Lets say I start chatting it up with some (new girl) no matter where(work,bar, random) F'N watch out for the GF to drop the bomb on that!!!!! You think guys are insecure. man you don't even know!
My point is if you are in a relationship, a new smlel in the air is good to see but don't touch or talk to. If your single you need all the smells and touches you can get out there. I know from experience! |
that's not going anywhere good my man. seriously... |
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| Trancealot |
| quote: | Originally posted by Floorfiller
that's not going anywhere good my man. seriously... |
well right now we are seeing each other every 2 weeks.
I work full time and and she got one more year of school. If there is no trust in life then what else is there. |
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| Xenocreator_PG_ |
You could actually use the above scenario against shawn*. Plant the seed in Jenny*s mind that Shawn* is the wrong person for her. He is over protective, gets jealous, will not let jenny* have her own friends etc... & expose his aweful personality. Think about doing a long term breakup strategy. Even if it doesn't work, you can always still remain 'friends' with Jenny*.
If jenny* ever opens her legs for j00, do you think it would be worth the punch in the face by Shawn*? I dont think Shawn* has the balls to punch you in the face anyways. |
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