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epiphany.... another girl story...
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
(part 1)
ok so thers this girl in one of my classes that ive been after for a while now. We sit beside eachoterh each class and, on one occasion, did a one on one study session. So im really attracted to this girl.. like head over heels for her, but everytime i ask her out she keeps making up excuses on not wanting to go out with me. Ive asked her out literally like 8 times. lol
so today in class i told her "listen, when are you going to ask me out? ive asked you out like 30 times and each time youve been busy" and then she was like "ohhhh i gotta do schoolwork " and this and that so im like whatever... but she uses me all the time for assignments and only messages me or calls me when she needs something.
I always msn her and she never msns me or calls me. but whenever we talk on nmsn she keeeps up agood convo and asks q's etc.
ok so rounding up to the next part of the story.
(part 2)
Im minding my own business and this girl, is sitting besid me in the lab, and i notice shes doing a biology report. so im like oh your in biology? and shes like yeah. and starts talking to me. So im not attracted to this girl at all. But she starts bombarding me with questions.. sortof like what iwould do with the girl in part 1 of the story. and i kept on trying to tell her that i was studyign with someone else in my class and i couldnt study in 3's etc.. but she kept insisting.. and she got my e-mail from me and made sure i added it to my msn.. i felt like i was being robbed at gunpoint lol.
so ive come to the realization that i should stop asking that girl in my class (part 1) out because CLEARLY SHES NOT INTRESTED IN ME. and i feel like she feels like i do in this opposite senario.
what are your viewpoints. NOTE: part 1 girl i would probably marry her if i had the option lol. |
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| Zenchowdah |
| quote: | Originally posted by Nrg2Nfinit
part 1 girl i would probably marry her if i had the option lol. |
marry her lol, liek omg |
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
| quote: | Originally posted by Zenchowdah
marry her lol, liek omg |
lol maybe i took that too far but i dont have pics so i need to give a description lol |
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| HardTranceProd |
| What is not clear to you? Go for the girls who are interested in YOU. |
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
| quote: | Originally posted by HardTranceProd
What is not clear to you? Go for the girls who are interested in YOU. |
lol i think i have some deranged mental syndrome where im intrested in girls that are not intrested in me... is that wierd?
edit: any freudian conclusions :conf: |
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| HardTranceProd |
| quote: | Originally posted by Nrg2Nfinit
lol i think i have some deranged mental syndrome where im intrested in girls that are not intrested in me... is that wierd?
edit: any freudian conclusions :conf: |
if you want to interest that first girl, you have to go out with this one first, so that your self-confidence increases and you also make that first girl jealous. |
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
| quote: | Originally posted by HardTranceProd
if you want to interest that first girl, you have to go out with this one first, so that your self-confidence increases and you also make that first girl jealous. |
which one the russian one? |
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| HardTranceProd |
| quote: | Originally posted by Nrg2Nfinit
which one the russian one? |
whichever one you want. If she's not interested yet, she will be when she sees you with another girl. |
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| dj_bas |
| quote: | Originally posted by Nrg2Nfinit
which one the russian one? |
Karim, hit it for your Egyptian brother. |
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
| quote: | Originally posted by Dr. Phill
whichever one you want. If she's not interested yet, she will be when she sees you with another girl. |
lol:D |
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| colonelcrisp |
is girl # 2 the russian one karim? cause if so hit it
and your problem isnt that the girls you like dont like you back, its that you think all girls like you and want you to grab their ass at the pub..... if you can stop this behaviour things will work out for you.... even tho your egyptian.... and if you call me a leb again so help me god.... |
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| kadomony |
| quote: | Originally posted by HardTranceProd
if you want to interest that first girl, you have to go out with this one first, so that your self-confidence increases and you also make that first girl jealous. |
not gonna happen.
if the first girl sees you as a friend, there's nothing you can do (well, almost nothing, but it takes years) to make her feel attraction for you.
the 2nd girl is probably physically attracted to you, and is liking you now because it's the 1st time you met. without getting into too many details, i bet if you keep asking this 2nd girl out, she'll make up excuses eventually too.
tip:
if you ilke the 2nd girl, don't ask her out. TELL her to go out with you. |
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