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epiphany.... another girl story... (pg. 7)
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| psychosomatica |
the obligatory:
SEND THE LETTAR |
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| squirrelly |
| quote: | Originally posted by psychosomatica
the obligatory:
SEND THE LETTAR |
That would make more sense if there was any mention of a letter involved in this thread. |
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| 3xx3r7 |
Next time she calls you up for an assignment or homework tell her you're busy or something. Don't be a tool. The best way to get her off your mind is to start dating other women. It may be hard but don't be a mangina. Even though, there is practically no chance of getting her at all, she may become puzzled with your changed behavior.
Oh and remember, attraction isn't a choice. Even if she wants to like you, things will not get far if she is not feeling attraction. You have to create it inside of her by not being a boring wimp. |
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| 3xx3r7 |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
That would make more sense if there was any mention of a letter involved in this thread. |
Nice avatar......stranger ;) |
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| Geoff |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
That would make more sense if there was any mention of a letter involved in this thread. |
i think the letter comment is welcome in anytime |
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
| quote: | Originally posted by Geoff
i think the letter comment is welcome in anytime |
i think if i send her a letter that would ruin all of the 2 % chance i have to get together with her on a date |
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
OKOK update time.. hehe
so this is the story now.. and i need to fill in some gaps.. Girl #2 is out of the question.
So yeah everyones like oh shes not intrested etc etc.. cut your loses move on.
So some events preceeded throughout the term.
1) She is single, but she doesnt date. (not me at least she said she wasnt intrested after i asked her blatantly)
2) She keeps insinuating that a guy who i talk to alot in my class is hot, ive had suspisions that this guy was using me from the beginning to get to know her. I did hte nice thing and introduced them to eachother when i first met him.
3) we now have 2 classes and a lab together this semester. So we sit beside eachother in class. This other guy, adam, is in one of our classes.
So she knows i really like her. We talk on msn alot (she messages me now) and i flirt with her excessively. But she keeps on talking about how she thinks adam is hot and "hes probably makign out right now etc.."
so what can i do to play hard to get.
Theres this cute girl in my lab who is my lab partner. i think i should flirt with her alot ot make girl #1 jealous.
ok advice on what to do now. Whats the best way to play hard to get?
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| DickRenegade |
i think you need to start working out and let them come to you. how much do you bench?
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| trewqy |
NRG..heres what u do..
FORGET ABOUT IT. Let me tell u something. Attraction isnt a choice. Subconciously she probably hates u and there is nothing u can do about it...cause frankly..there is nothing SHE can do about it.She doesnt have a choice but to be not attracted to u. I'm sorry dude.
Either that or u stop being a wussy.
Stop complimenting her ffs.Show that ur an alpha male. Stop msning her all together. Show that u actually have a life and is not infatuated with this bitch. Be a cocky jerk but at the same time be funny. Theres a balance to it. Girls go ga-ga over it. Dont ask me why..its a proven formula. |
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| fitom tiel |
you sound needy. and, not to be offensive, but also, unexperienced. they don't like that. i don't like to generalise, but basically, when someone is attractive, confident enough, then they are used to the attention. they feed off of it. it's parasitical though. they'll take what you give them, but they will only give back enough so you keep giving. and if you give too much, they'll take it, but push back so you can keep your reserves and remain available for them to take later. also, they don't like it when you push for the same attention from them. what you have to do is...back off. simply. let her breathe, and you yourself, get some air. look around. disperse your feelings rather than focusing them on her. harsh, i know, but she doesn't want them. you can't act cold or uninterested, but you do have to subtly start getting over her. act more as a friend. and if you're still interested, then once in a while remind her. let her know, and she'll treasure it. she might even end up wanting more and become interested in you. for now, give her a break.
my two red cents. |
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| Aristronica |
six pages!!!:whip: :whip:
... butsekz ftw!:eyes: |
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
| quote: | Originally posted by DickRenegade
i think you need to start working out and let them come to you. how much do you bench?
dr |
lol that hardly works in my case
185 lbs max |
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