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What do sex & skiing have in common?
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| Slylee |
no really...i would like your input:D
i couldn't copy/paste before this part of the convo cuz i had closed the window. but basically we were talking about a man being a stripper and/or an escort and a woman doing it. i was saying it's different for guys...
Jamie says:
but ur a dude
Moral Hazard says:
so what? it's okay for a man but not a woman......
Jamie says:
yea...double standard. i'm OK with it
Moral Hazard says:
.... that don't work with me
Moral Hazard says:
I don't do double standards. but then again, I don't believe in morality, which is what most double standards are based on
Jamie says:
ok, so let's say i start ing all these guys i meet at clubs, and i'm so hot and i'm so good in bed, that all of them keep calling me. they just think i'm so ing cool and hard to get, they're dying to hang out with me and get some more of my time.
Jamie says:
so what does that make me?
Jamie says:
a player?
Jamie says:
or a slut with intimacy issues...
Moral Hazard says:
I suppose it depends on your motivation.....
Jamie says:
let's say i pride myself on screwing as many men as i can
Moral Hazard says:
.... if you're doing it because you like sex and moreover like sex with multiple partners then it's all good and I'd say you're just being you
Moral Hazard says:
...... if you're doing it because you're looking to replace some missing love in some aspect of your life then I'd say you need to talk to someone
Moral Hazard says:
.... if you pride yourself on screwing as many men as possible then I go with player
Jamie says:
yea yea
Jamie says:
well too bad the rest of society doesn't agree
Moral Hazard says:
Hey, one of my closest friends has had nearly 100 men.... I don't hold any qualitative judgement to that
Moral Hazard says:
it is too bad
Moral Hazard says:
people have this ed up morality regarding sex.... yes it's great in a strong loving relationship and can do a lot to further such a relationship
Jamie says:
it's a sacred thing..i dont think u should just go ing anyone to get off
Moral Hazard says:
.... but it's also pretty good as a recreational activity
Jamie says:
it's dangerous and it complicates things
Moral Hazard says:
.... you don't look down on someone who skis at a lot of different mountains do you?
Jamie says:
but hey, if u are ok with giving your body to just anyone, then that's ur busines...and i don't mean "YOU" as in u personally...i'm saying generally speaking
Jamie says:
HAHAH u did NOT just make that comparison
Jamie says:
that was ridiculous
Moral Hazard says:
It's not dangerous and if both partys are okay with it then it doesn't complicate anything
Moral Hazard says:
why was that ridiculous....
Moral Hazard says:
.... if you don't equate sex with love then sex is just an activity that people enjoy doing
Jamie says:
i'll answer that in a minute...i have to get the mail...
Jamie says:
and think about what i want to say in response
Moral Hazard says:
I've had sex with lots of women I care nothing about just because I like the act
Moral Hazard says:
I'll wait.....
Jamie says:
skiing is an activity that doesn't involve the exchange of bodily fluids and emotions.
Moral Hazard says:
sex doesn't have to involve either of those things
Jamie says:
i'm creating a thread about this
Moral Hazard says:
otay
Moral Hazard says:
I predict the bulk of my day will be spent in that thread
Jamie says:
lol |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by nchs09
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To sumerize..... Jamie holds the position that sex with multiple indescriminate parters is wrong.... my position is that there should be no morality attached to sex. She claims it is an emotional act, I claim it can also be a purely recreational act. If looked at as a recreational act then there should be no morality about multiple partners. |
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| DOOMBOT |
| When everything is all said and done, just be safe, responsible and have fun! :) |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by nchs09
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it's really not...but that's cool if you don't have the brain power. |
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| nchs09 |
i really dont have the brainpower.
and ya i dont htink sex is attached to emotions most of the time for guys but for girls yes. go figure... i guess that is one of our differences. |
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| DOOMBOT |
| quote: | Originally posted by nchs09
i really dont have the brainpower.
and ya i dont htink sex is attached to emotions most of the time for guys but for girls yes. go figure... i guess that is one of our differences. |
Not true at all. Both people have to know why they are having sex with eachother. Otherwise then yeah, it could go either way for the guy or girl with your statement. But I have to say, nothing beats sex with someone you absolutely love. :crazy: |
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| nchs09 |
| quote: | Originally posted by DOOMBOT
Not true at all. Both people have to know why they are having sex with eachother. Otherwise then yeah, it could go either way for the guy or girl with your statement. But I have to say, nothing beats sex with someone you absolutely love. :crazy: |
ok i think i do need to read it... but both poeple have to know why they are having sex with each other.. but does it have to be because of the same? |
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| trewqy |
Sex cannot be equal as an act of love.
If you seriously think thats the case, ur not ready for sex in the first place.It will just complicate things and you wont know how to handle the relationship properly.
Either way, you wont get a "correct" answer from both sexes..cause obviously both sexes have different views on the matter. |
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| Moral Hazard |
| I think the real question Jamie was looking to ask is whether or not there is something morally objectionable to a person having sex with multiple partners with no emotional attachment and additionally, if there is/should be a double standard in this regard. |
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| DOOMBOT |
| I just think it is better for both people to know. Otherwise feelings get hurt and drama starts. |
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| DOOMBOT |
| quote: | Originally posted by trewqy
Sex cannot be equal as an act of love. |
What does that mean? |
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