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| Moral Hazard |
| Mrs. Hazard and I considered this but then realized that we felt we were certain of our love and that we were right for each other therefore we really had little to gain from such an activity. |
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| Tordan |
| quote: | Originally posted by Summer21
In my opinion a "break" is a bunch of B.S... it's like cheating but with an excuse. If you feel the need to see other people, then you're not meant to be together, and/or there are some serious problems in the relationship. I never understood this approach.
Sandra |
so true... when it's the one, you just know. no need for any breaks. |
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| Swamper |
| quote: | Originally posted by LittlePoonzgirl
who's idea=both of ours, more him though seeing as I'm still young and have plenty of time...he's not quite as young and doesn't have as much time
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Marriage should be something that is considered when the person you're with is whom you want to share your life with - instead of settling for your partner simply because of timing - compatibility first, 'convenience' (with respect to age) second. |
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| DigitalMP |
| quote: | Originally posted by Summer21
In my opinion a "break" is a bunch of B.S... it's like cheating but with an excuse. If you feel the need to see other people, then you're not meant to be together, and/or there are some serious problems in the relationship. I never understood this approach.
Sandra |
I agree...rarely is that case that both people are on the same page with this. One person just wants to bang someone else. |
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| dnmr |
"A break"
The problems with a break:
1) it can be misleading to one or both people involved, usually ends up meaning that you just need to end it but don't know how
2) when your break will end and get back together is never trully known, how do you start dating others then just say sorry got go back my break is over? and one person may feel this way but the other may not so it can be a very mental and emotional rollercoaster
3) If you try and get back together after being apart there are many things that can occur, such as jealousy, who were you dating, what did you do..... and the trust may never be fully regained.
Truthfully, I believe breaks are bs and that they never work, if you need a break it probably means that things aren't workin out and that you need to end it. THe end result of a break is a lot of heartache, emotional damage that no one needs. |
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| Floorwhore |
| quote: | Originally posted by Summer21
In my opinion a "break" is like cheating but with an excuse. If you feel the need to see other people, then you're not meant to be together, and/or there are some serious problems in the relationship.
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| El Kay Dee |
| quote: | Originally posted by dnmr
Truthfully, I believe breaks are bs |
i dont care what u say...i think Breaks> DDTT
ok nuff of my dry humour |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by Swamper
Marriage should be something that is considered when the person you're with is whom you want to share your life with - instead of settling for your partner simply because of timing - compatibility first, 'convenience' (with respect to age) second. |
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| EvilTree |
| quote: | Originally posted by Summer21
In my opinion a "break" is a bunch of B.S... it's like cheating but with an excuse. If you feel the need to see other people, then you're not meant to be together, and/or there are some serious problems in the relationship. I never understood this approach.
Sandra |
+1 |
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| LittlePoonzgirl |
Actually, our relationship is better than ever and we consider each other best friends as well as gf&bf. I guess the problem is one of us has had other relationships, the other one hasn't to the same degree. I don't think this is complete bs because I think it's hard for some people to decide if they want to spend the rest of their life with someone if that's the only person they have dated for an extended period of time. Are most people 100% sure that's the person they want to start a family with absolutely no doubts? I mean, I don't even know how long this will last, perhaps not long at all.
Sometimes people don't appreaciate what they have till it's gone. |
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| LittlePoonzgirl |
| quote: | Originally posted by El Kay Dee
i dont care what u say...i think Breaks> DDTT
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lol +1 |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by LittlePoonzgirl
Actually, our relationship is better than ever and we consider each other best friends as well as gf&bf. I guess the problem is one of us has had other relationships, the other one hasn't to the same degree. I don't think this is complete bs because I think it's hard for some people to decide if they want to spend the rest of their life with someone if that's the only person they have dated for an extended period of time. Are most people 100% sure that's the person they want to start a family with absolutely no doubts? I mean, I don't even know how long this will last, perhaps not long at all.
Sometimes people don't appreaciate what they have till it's gone. |
I had no doubts that Mrs. Hazard was the woman with whom I wanted to spend the rest of my life, subsequently, it was one of the easiest decisions of my life..... deciding what colour to stain the kitchen cabinets was much more difficult. |
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