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Today is the day! Mellymel and Zewad comes to Toronto! (pg. 6)
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| igottaknow |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Moral Hazard
Liz, you've admitted to staying with your bf even though he treats you like and you're not happy. I'd say this lands you in doormat territory. Being a doormat you will attract men who wish to hold power over women.
Jamie, you're a bitch, no question there. As a bitch you attract weak men that need to be mothered and told how to behave, what they want, and what to do.
Neither of these extremes is good. Most men prefer women that are somewhere in the middle. Women who will take a stand for what they deem important and will challeng their partners but are also willing to backdown when something is of great importance to their partner. More then anything men (when considering long term relationships) want someone that they don't have to fight with but doesn't need constant direction, they want someone who will oppose them but is willing to compromise, they want someone with their own wants and interests provided that their partner is high on that priority list. Neither one of you would be desirable in my eyes as a partner (although I believe you'd both be good as friends). |
Actually, I’m a bit turned off by men who are too weak and need to be spoon fed their own opinions. It annoys me. While I like sensitive men who are sappy and romantic and somewhat reserved, I definitely do not like doormats. Are weak men usually attracted to me? Yes, but I can’t help that. It’s THEIR problem that they need some sort of mothering figure as a girlfriend, not mine. It’s only my problem if I take advantage of that, which I don’t. Craig is almost a happy medium but he definitely still needs to work on his communication skills and standing up for himself and you know what? I back him up 110% and encourage him to do so. If I was the type of bitch you described, I would belittle him every time he attempted to stand up for himself and discourage him in wanting to actually have a mind of his own. I would never do that because it is unattractive to me. I want to see him grow as an individual and be a bit more strong minded (and so does he). I’m really not that bad, trust me. I’m basically exactly what Jocker described in his post, believe it or not. |
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| Boomer187 |
lol, I knew what this thread was aboot when it started eh, but I forgoot towards teh end eh.
someone remind me plz. |
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| Silky Johnson |
| quote: | Originally posted by Boomer187
lol, I knew what this thread was aboot when it started eh, but I forgoot towards teh end eh.
someone remind me plz. |
Beer, hockey, back bacon, and igloos. Take off, ya hoser. |
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| Trance Addix |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
Actually, I’m a bit turned off by men who are too weak and need to be spoon fed their own opinions. It annoys me. While I like sensitive men who are sappy and romantic and somewhat reserved, I definitely do not like doormats. Are weak men usually attracted to me? Yes, but I can’t help that. It’s THEIR problem that they need some sort of mothering figure as a girlfriend, not mine. It’s only my problem if I take advantage of that, which I don’t. Craig is almost a happy medium but he definitely still needs to work on his communication skills and standing up for himself and you know what? I back him up 110% and encourage him to do so. If I was the type of bitch you described, I would belittle him every time he attempted to stand up for himself and discourage him in wanting to actually have a mind of his own. I would never do that because it is unattractive to me. I want to see him grow as an individual and be a bit more strong minded (and so does he). I’m really not that bad, trust me. I’m basically exactly what Jocker described in his post, believe it or not. |
From experience, when I stated my opinion and my gf didn't like that usually she got mad...I dumped her 2 weeks ago..what a jealous b*tch she was:o |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by Trance Addix
From experience, when I stated my opinion and my gf didn't like that usually she got mad...I dumped her 2 weeks ago..what a jealous b*tch she was:o |
well good for you then. :) |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
Actually, I’m a bit turned off by men who are too weak and need to be spoon fed their own opinions. It annoys me. While I like sensitive men who are sappy and romantic and somewhat reserved, I definitely do not like doormats. Are weak men usually attracted to me? Yes, but I can’t help that. It’s THEIR problem that they need some sort of mothering figure as a girlfriend, not mine. It’s only my problem if I take advantage of that, which I don’t. Craig is almost a happy medium but he definitely still needs to work on his communication skills and standing up for himself and you know what? I back him up 110% and encourage him to do so. If I was the type of bitch you described, I would belittle him every time he attempted to stand up for himself and discourage him in wanting to actually have a mind of his own. I would never do that because it is unattractive to me. I want to see him grow as an individual and be a bit more strong minded (and so does he). I’m really not that bad, trust me. I’m basically exactly what Jocker described in his post, believe it or not. |
so i guess its true women want a man who is soft as clay that they can mold. hahaha woman and their projects always trying to change us men. but who knows maybe you build him up so you can tear him down when ur pmsing. :stongue: you enjoy being the one who is superior "teaching" him how to be a man. |
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| dj_bas |
| Soooo...Mel's going to Tornto huh? Mel, bring back news of this canadian bacon/ham nonsense. I still don't believe you guys. |
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| DJ RJT |
Hey guys, bg gulps eh? Alright....
... Well, see ya later!
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| Trance Addix |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
so i guess its true women want a man who is soft as clay that they can mold. hahaha woman and their projects always trying to change us men. but who knows maybe you build him up so you can tear him down when ur pmsing. :stongue: you enjoy being the one who is superior "teaching" him how to be a man. |
I heard PMS is one bing conspiracy theory to allow women to be bitchy :p :haha: |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
so i guess its true women want a man who is soft as clay that they can mold. hahaha woman and their projects always trying to change us men. but who knows maybe you build him up so you can tear him down when ur pmsing. :stongue: you enjoy being the one who is superior "teaching" him how to be a man. |
i would never try to change someone if they didn't want to change themself. he wants to be more opinionated and aggressive. i get it out of him. even when i can detect that he doesn't agree with me, yet is acting like he does, i tell him not to. i make him feel comfortable in disagreeing with me, i don't chew his head off or anything.
the other night in the kitchen i was making us a big salad with grilled chicken on it and he was like, "hey, u think it would be good with some cheese on it?"
and i laughed and i was like, "so in other words, would u like some cheese on your salad baby?" and he started laughing and i said, "well i'm not putting any cheese on the salad until you demand that i do" :stongue: |
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| FallingMoon |
| quote: | Originally posted by dj_bas
Soooo...Mel's going to Tornto huh? Mel, bring back news of this canadian bacon/ham nonsense. I still don't believe you guys. |
YEAH! WTF is up with canadian "bacon" but it's ham.
damn Canadians :p
I kid. I'll get to try for Labour of Love |
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