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The infamous "Let's just be friends" (pg. 2)
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| Marc Summers |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
i agree 100%, and i wish more girls (and guys) would be upfront and honest about what they really want. i think the main problem though is that the majority of younger people who are playing the field don't really have a clue about what they really want... so they leave all options open until they find something that makes them happy. |
I'm always honest.
Girl: I really like you, MORE than just friends
Me: Oh... Jeez, um... yeaaah, I don't. You know why I haven't been on AIM in a while? I blocked you.
Thats when she was crying, in the movie theatre, for everyone to see. :o |
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| Haunted |
| quote: | Originally posted by Sand Leaper
Looks like someone's been studying Neil Strauss rather well. Or not. |
I actually have read "The Game".
Basically, I want to be friends with her, she's cool. I just was afraid that if I gave her the power to choose the relationship
"Let's just be friends"
"Yes ma'am"
Then she would think i was a wuss and would use me like I use my used condoms.
I'm really not interested in just seducing her so Neil Strauss does not apply. I want her as a friend but I also want the option for the relationship to grow, because who knows where it could go.
I told her we should get together tomorrow night for coffee and she said thats a good idea. I'm thinking of just telling her straight up what I just told you guys. If I wanted to just sleep with her I would just say "ok thanks, bye", but for some reason i'm intrigued by her. maybe i'm just horny for some good converastion. ha |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Marc Summers
I'm always honest.
Girl: I really like you, MORE than just friends
Me: Oh... Jeez, um... yeaaah, I don't. You know why I haven't been on AIM in a while? I blocked you.
Thats when she was crying, in the movie theatre, for everyone to see. :o |
well there's definitely a difference between being honest and being outright mean. ;) |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Haunted
Then she would think i was a wuss and would use me like I use my used condoms. |
you know it's a bad idea to use used condoms, right?
:p |
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| Haunted |
| i ment how i throw them out :D |
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| igottaknow |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
girls are sketchy and i think most of the time the words "let's just be friends" actually mean "sorry, i'm really not interested, but i don't want to be mean to your face" |
you hit the nail on the head...
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| Marc Summers |
| quote: | Originally posted by josh4
every time i look in this direction i'm always amazed at how much kids today are integrating these things into social interaction |
It's the same thing as saying, "I don't pick up the phone, because I know it's you. Psycho bitch." |
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| Haunted |
| quote: | Originally posted by Haunted
I want her as a friend but I also want the option for the relationship to grow, because who knows where it could go.
I told her we should get together tomorrow night for coffee and she said thats a good idea. I'm thinking of just telling her straight up that. |
thoughts? i'm using the advice of being straight with her. i don't want a relationship with her, i just want to be friends, but i still want the option to be there for us to grow. |
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| Mr. Pink |
Come to think about it.....i dont really have any girl friends. :wtf:
i hang out with my crew, their girlfriends, and .........the rest of the ladies are either casual aquiantances or girls id like to screw :)
i guess thats what it all comes down to, rly. |
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| Haunted |
| quote: | Originally posted by bidor
LJBF? |
lets just be friends |
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| Boomer187 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Haunted
I know that once your game evolves you won't be hearing this anymore, and it shouldn't even matter if you do. |
it won't matter cause you'll be the one saying it. ;)
and the best thing to say is, 'lets get drunk and make some bad decisions'.....well you can make it verbal or keep it mental, but either way, BAM, problem solved...either she makes a bad decision and does you, or she doesn't hang out anymore. :wtf: |
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