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Question for the boyzz (pg. 6)
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| ** TigerLily ** |
| quote: | Originally posted by yankeeBaby
Question #2: Who thinks cheating starts as soon as you cross that "line" (ie: flirting with the intention to have sex, kissing, etc), and who thinks cheating= sex/forepley, etc?
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I think the fine lines of cheating is crossed when a person is always thinking about and wanting to spend more time in the presence of a person who isn't their significant other....
If it's not that emotionally deep, then I think even just kissing or flirting with the intention of hooking up is cheating. Cheating is such a strong word for that but it is what it is and it'd definielty make a person feel betrayed, foolish and just livid. |
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| FunkyGroove |
| quote: | Originally posted by yankeeBaby
now THAT I definately don't believe....seeing as I have been tempted many times myself (but never have).
I think that it more human nature to be attracted to more than one person, but I also think that most people are choosy...i mean you ARE technically putting your relationship on the line, so I would assume that if you were to take it this far that one would pick a worthwhile candidate......imo |
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| EvilTree |
| quote: | Originally posted by yankeeBaby
Question #2: Who thinks cheating starts as soon as you cross that "line" (ie: flirting with the intention to have sex, kissing, etc), and who thinks cheating= sex/forepley, etc? |
The 'line' is quite blurry and tends to change from couple to couple.
Some have not even look at another girl/boy policy. Some are swingers.
I guess its when you've done something that your partner would consider hurtful.
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I seriously know at LEAST a handful+ of men who have cheated repeatedly one their girls, and the weird thing is, is that they CLAIM to love them, and treat them like gold the other 99% of the time...they expain that its "just sex" :rolleyes: :rolleyes: |
Pure selfishness. |
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| ** TigerLily ** |
| quote: | Originally posted by yankeeBaby
*Also an important note: the new stats on HIV in US: The #1 increase in HIV cases are married women ages 40-50....because so many husbands cheat (with both men and women), and women who are unsuspecting sleep unprotected with their "seemingly" faithful men. I learned that in my grad class the other day...SCARY!!! :eyespop: |
This is by far the sadest part of it all - so what is worse than cheating - not owning up to it and continuing to lie about it and put your "loved" one at serious risk |
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| JoJoJo |
| quote: | Originally posted by FunkyGroove
actually being able to stand up to a temptation is what differentiates us from animals |
I agree and thats what makes someone a decent person too :)
You guys got Temptation island over there?? how embarassing!!! |
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| TRANCEEEE |
- don't rush into a relationship
- make up your mind, "do you want to settle or else?"
- if you're going for ass, get a whore
- stupids mate with stupids :) |
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| FunkyGroove |
| quote: | Originally posted by JoJoJo
I agree and thats what makes someone a decent person too :)
You guys got Temptation island over there?? how embarassing!!! |
lol:D yeh that show is ed up:D
i actually confess i was tempted very strongly twice, and was able to resist it in the end :toocool: |
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| JoJoJo |
it was! especially the aussie version! thats why im coming to canada in 3 weeks... to get away from bad aussie broadcasting!
Same I was in a relationship for 6 years I was tempted and never acted on it.. its natural to be tempted its how to deal with it that matters. Pity I cant say the same about him haha :D |
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| FunkyGroove |
| quote: | Originally posted by JoJoJo
it was! especially the aussie version! thats why im coming to canada in 3 weeks... to get away from bad aussie broadcasting!
Same I was in a relationship for 6 years I was tempted and never acted on it.. its natural to be tempted its how to deal with it that matters. Pity I cant say the same about him haha :D |
hehe
i just got my mates to look after me if i ever got drunk in a company of hawt guys and all:) but i mean it wasn't like "omg i gotta bang him asap or i'll die" :thepirate |
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| EvilTree |
| quote: | Originally posted by JoJoJo
it was! especially the aussie version! thats why im coming to canada in 3 weeks... to get away from bad aussie broadcasting!
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Oh trust me. The Aussie version was WAY better than the one we had here. |
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| yankeeBaby |
| quote: | Originally posted by ** TigerLily **
This is by far the sadest part of it all - so what is worse than cheating - not owning up to it and continuing to lie about it and put your "loved" one at serious risk |
yup, and to add to that: its one thing to cheat on a girlfriend but its a WHOLE other story to cheat on your wife (and family, since it affects them as well).
I am not very religious, but someday, when I am married, I would want my man to honor his vows, and if he can't go by them, then we should just co-habitat and skip the damn ceremony LOL :)
...plus you can't with your children's lives like that, its not worth it for a piece of ass, and that goes for women too!! :whip: :whip: |
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| Hantu |
| quote: | Originally posted by JoJoJo
its natural to be tempted its how to deal with it that matters. |
Exactly, there is nothing wrong with being tempted by another. But once it's goes past temptation, then it's gone too far. |
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