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Is an Omission a betrayal? (pg. 2)
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| Mr. Pink |
The answer to this is easy.
Easy enough for you to never make a thread about this again. :rolleyes: |
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| Arbiter |
| If you know the proper definitions of all the words you wrote, then you should already know the answer. There isn't much to discuss. |
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| Orbax |
The only reason omission is painful is when you are omitting something hurtful you did.
For instance. The other day my GF wanted to stop by on her way out. for 15 minutes and then she was gone. Hadnt seen eachother in a day or so and it would have been nice.
I say Im going to be gone and it wont work.
I tell my other friend im going to gym for a bit and ill talk to him later.
She asks him where I am
he says the gym
her thought "he chose the gym over me...wow."
what actually happened is I stopped by the gym and then had to go see my uncle and give him his dog back that wed been keeping for a month and he was going to be here for 1 hour. The hour encompassed her 15 minute window.
Should I have told her all that?
No, its time consuming and a pain in the ass. Its a trust issue. If someone says "I cant, Ill be busy" if you ask "Doing what" for ANY other reason than PURE curiosity you are not only distrusting them but not respecting their ability to make good decisions. and you know, sometimes people need to be alone. So respect that as well and dont press it.
If its a constant game of hide and seek with your significant other...I cant imagine being in a relationship like that. How miserable. |
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| igottaknow |
the correct answer is...
yes but no |
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| Nrg2Nfinit |
| quote: | Originally posted by igottaknow
the correct answer is...
yes but no |
no its not lying if you dont say it
its simple algebra |
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| kadomony |
colordancer is a girl n00bs.
HI HEATHER :D |
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| BTG |
| quote: | Originally posted by D-res
complete honesty is the only way to go. just conveniently leaving things out can be very hurtful and completely kill your relationship |
you are a damn fool. |
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| Orbital32 |
| If you forget to tell her, then it's not or fault. I'm sure being a busy person things can be easy to forget. |
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| Zombie0729 |
you'll be thankful i showed you this...
http://www..net/The_Ways_We_Lie.pdf
i had to write a 8 page mini-thesis on this article, it should answer all your quesitons :) |
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| SomewhatDamaged |
| Yes of course it is!! I hate when I ask my guy what he did over the weekend or during the day and he says oh I went out to lunch with a friend and thats it. And then I find out later he did more than go out to lunch. It's exactly like lying. |
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| Yan |
| If it has no real relevance to anything relating to your significant other than it's not lying. |
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| kadomony |
| quote: | Originally posted by SomewhatDamaged
Yes of course it is!! I hate when I ask my guy what he did over the weekend or during the day and he says oh I went out to lunch with a friend and thats it. And then I find out later he did more than go out to lunch. It's exactly like lying. |
i think she means like not saying anything at all.
like having a secret and not saying it whatsoever. |
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