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| ahway26 |
Getting married at earlier age (age26-28) or later? pass 30?
Personally i didnt want to get married and dont really want a kid, because of the screwed up society we have now. Kids doing mass drug, killing people etc....the world has changed. I dont want my kids to be like that or hurt themselves. Also i dont trust marriage.
Back to getting married early or later. I think getting married early is good because both can focus more on living and forget bout other relationships.
I guess there is 2 questions in here. Getting married early or late, and do u want to have a kid? |
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| D-res |
| quote: | Originally posted by ahway26
I dont want my kids to be like that or hurt themselves.
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then raise them right |
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| jonSun |
| wait as long as u can for marrige & kids. |
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| Azz3D |
late
live with the person for a few years first and find out if you'll last
kids even later |
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| bidor |
first a long term relationship. after that ill consider getting married.
and a kid? only if we are really ready to have one, then maybe. |
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| Ygrene |
| At what humidity do you think marriage should happen?? |
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| Zoso |
Based on personal experience, I can say that mid to late 20's seems to work well. I could not have handled the responsibility of marriage (and kids, I got a package deal on my wedding day) in my early 20's. I got married right at 26, and for me this was the right time.
I worry a little every day about the world my kids will grow up in. I worry about the wars they might see or endure. I worry about being able to afford a higher education for them. I worry about them using drugs.
But, at the end of the day, I can't say that I'd trade it for anything. |
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| ahway26 |
but having a kid late will cause u and the kid having gap. Lets say u have a kid at 35..when he is 20, you are already 55. my dad is 75 and im 28 right now, we dont even talk much.
D-res. Of course if i have a kid i will raise them right, but nowadays kids are not going to listen to you and the influence outside or in school will pull them away. |
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| placebo |
| quote: | Originally posted by Ygrene
At what humidity do you think marriage should happen?? |
ahahahah |
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| ahway26 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Azz3D
late
live with the person for a few years first and find out if you'll last
kids even later |
my brother has been with his gf for 11 years now....i dont think they will get married and dats kinda sad..They lost the "courage" i guess to get married. maybe there is other words suits beter but i cant think of it. |
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| grooviebeats |
| im 25 and i just got engaged on 04/18/06. I feel waiting this long was a good decision. I wanted to wait since my dad had been married 5 times it was very important for me to wait till it was right. After over 5 years of being with my girlfriend it was time. My point is it shouldnt matter how old you are as long as it feels right. |
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| ahway26 |
awsome!
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But, at the end of the day, I can't say that I'd trade it for anything. |
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