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Guys... what do you prefer? (pg. 5)
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| DaveSZ |
| quote: | Originally posted by Theresa
I conciously make an effort not to make judgements of people prior to getting to know them. There have been many times that I have met someone that who, on the surface, look like a total freak, or a complete sketch, but once I got to know them, they were really nice people.
I think as people get older and they mature, they realize that you really can't judge a book by its cover. |
I used to live in the same candy-coated fantasy world, and then I opened my eyes and stepped into reality - the reality that modern society is a veneer and we all still play by evolution's rules (we're still wired to live in little tribal bands of 30 people and anyone who looks, dresses, acts or talks a little different is immediately viewed with suspicion because those without this survival mechanism did not pass on their genes). |
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| Allied Nations |
| quote: | Originally posted by DaveSZ
I used to live in the same candy-coated fantasy world, and then I opened my eyes and stepped into reality - the reality that modern society is a veneer and we all still play by evolution's rules (we're still wired to live in little tribal bands of 30 people and anyone who looks, dresses, acts or talks a little different is immediately viewed with suspicion because those without this survival mechanism did not pass on their genes). |
Thanks for that. That's a great way of explaining it. |
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| bananas |
we all make those judgements.
flyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy lesbian seagull... |
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| Arbiter |
| I prefer option A. But unlike most people I have sound judgment, so my opinion might not be very useful to you. |
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| philliez |
on the subject of judgement:
most old people are judgemental because they are old and have had so much time for their opinions, sterotypes, and closed-minded ways to become facts to them. and it really doesnt matter anymore, they are just old people.
when young people are judgemental and let it affect how they treat someone or associate with someone it is just sad. we have no reason to be, and if we have developed these kind of ways we can make a concious effort not to discriminate. |
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| jahnlay |
| If the boobs are perky, no bra for sure! |
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| riskytrader |
In this particular case it's not too fair because the 2nd pic has an older lady's body and the 1st has cute, perky nipples. I think 2 years ago it was okay to go sans bra but I think that style is over. Personally I think it looks trashy (and dated) and therefore not as sexy as a nice bra that accentuates the breasts.
JMHO though. Why not instead wear a tank that has a shelf bra built in? You get the support without the strappiness of the bra. :) |
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| Ian |
| both are ok in their own way. obv if the boobs are big, support is handy, but even small ones can lose shape & sag so don't do it too much. another idea would be a tight sports type top that would offer protection whilst also require no bra. |
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| eRRaTiK |
| quote: | Originally posted by bananas
flyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy lesbian seagull... |
i LOL'd.
if you've got weird deformed nipples theresa, bra on kthx. |
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| Lira |
What do you feel more confortable with?
If it feels better without a bra, then I don't see a reason why you should wear one. |
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| lücid |
| i'd love to go without a bra, but i feel too naked without one. i mean it's different if i'm wearing a halter top or a top that i can't wear a bra under... but just for regular t-shirts and tank tops i always feel too... exposed. |
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| kid nyce |
| quote: | Originally posted by Theresa
I conciously make an effort not to make judgements of people prior to getting to know them. There have been many times that I have met someone that who, on the surface, look like a total freak, or a complete sketch, but once I got to know them, they were really nice people.
I think as people get older and they mature, they realize that you really can't judge a book by its cover. |
i kinda thrive on this since i do not believe in first impressions. I think the whole first impression thing is a fluke anyways. so I always tend to play a part when i first meet someone. it'll gauge their interest if there is depth to a person or not. Why would I even concern myself with someone who doesn't spend the time to get to know me. So be warned, if I come off like an asshat or a complete noob you've already judged me. I kinda like when people sleep on me, it makes me feel like the underdog of a boxing match, just that i'm the one packing the knife and they don't know that |
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