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my parents are getting divorced (pg. 8)
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| Rose |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
Ok I'm totally gonna sound like a bitch here
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suck it up. You know how many years your mom took care of you and let you live with her and whatnot - time for you to step up and do it too. She took care of you your whole life, now it's time for you to take care of her.
Don't worry, it's bonus points as far as girls are concerned. |
I agree with Sara, you need to be there for your mom. |
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| tubularbills |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
Ok I'm totally gonna sound like a bitch here
but
suck it up. You know how many years your mom took care of you and let you live with her and whatnot - time for you to step up and do it too. She took care of you your whole life, now it's time for you to take care of her.
Don't worry, it's bonus points as far as girls are concerned. |
I'm not too concerned , really , with her moving in with me. this is what i'm worried about : that she's going to follow me the rest of her life. I'm cool with helping her out for a little while; and in reality it will help both of us financially as well.
and i feel bad for even thinking it; but i mean, really...i just don't want her living with me the rest of my life you know? |
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| squirrelly |
yeah but I mean, you never know what's gonna happen you know? Maybe you'll marry a baller and you guys can give her an apt and then have your own home.
Besides, your dad is required to pay alimony |
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| tubularbills |
| quote: | Originally posted by squirrelly
yeah but I mean, you never know what's gonna happen you know? Maybe you'll marry a baller and you guys can give her an apt and then have your own home.
Besides, your dad is required to pay alimony |
i know. and i'll be there for her. i've been doing it so far over the past three years anyway.
the last settlement i heard from my mom was $1500 a month from my dad. for 10 years. that's it.
oh, and he wants to put that place she's living in up for sale. and if the selling price is less than what its worth, he wants her to pay the part of the mortgage that is "under".
she wants her name off the place; but since she signed it while married, even after divorce, she can't just "unsign it". so even if she moves in with me, her name will still be legally attached to the ghetto condo.
oh, and she's responsible for insurance and taxes on the place too. |
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| squirrelly |
| you can get an apt for like 650$ (a 1 bedroom) why doesn't she do that? |
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| tubularbills |
not in chicagoland you can't.
unless you want to REALLY live in the ghetto. she's a 53 year old crippling white lady. she won't survive in any place that goes for $650 a month.
not to sound like a racist or anything; but she just won't. |
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| Rose |
| quote: | Originally posted by hundred
how's your mom mentally now? did she ever find a new source of happiness?
whoaaaaaaa |
wow nchos, that sucks ass. it's like you kinda predicted it. |
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| tubularbills |
| quote: | Originally posted by Rose
wow nchos, that sucks ass. it's like you kinda predicted it. |
yeah, i have to admit man, that's pretty creepy. |
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| L.E.N. |
| Had to deal with two divorces.(3 and 18 years old) Being older helps with understanding and your own life to deal with. Its hard but once they are both happy again it will help with healing, it just takes time. |
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| Ted Promo |
tl;dr
is mom still single? |
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| Rose |
| quote: | Originally posted by ********
Hey,
IT HASN'T HAPPENED YET...
What you need to do is get them both drunk and drop some spanish fly etc.. into their drinks etc.. you could rekindle their love and passions... remind them of the love they once had, maybe slip on a porno... you know get them in the mood. |
No words....just....no words. |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
Clearly, your mom just wasn't putting out.
I'm really not even kidding.
See, kids, when you don't use it, you lose it.
And if the previous generation was called Gen X, I'm vying for my generation to be referred to as the divorce/Ritalin/Zoloft/repeat generation.
//And I was really hoping this was the re-hashed thread from years ago when D-res announced his parents were getting divorced and Arbiter told him it was his fault. :haha: |
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