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Guess what!! I'm no longer a virgin either!!! (pg. 14)
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| DJ RJT |
| The parts of this thread that were about me getting some buttseckz later tonight were terrific, I don't know how I missed this all! :haha: |
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| philliez |
| quote: | Originally posted by HardTranceProd
Just one question for all the people who lost their virginity at 15-16, are you aware that American society as a whole frowns upon your behavior and considers your lifestyle an "alternative" one? I strongly disagree with that view, but I'm in the minority.
Every day when browsing news sites, it seems, I run across articles or op-eds or columnists who express shock at the possibility of teens having sex, and even some syndicated psychologists dishing out advice consider this behavior "marginal" or unusual. Just like most parents who consider it unlikely and weird.
Yet, it seems, most people lose their virginity at 16? Where's this disconnect coming from? Looks like there's some major gap in acknowledging reality, or actually it is true that few teens are sexually active at 14-15, and therefore it is indeed an "alternative" lifestyle? |
what kinda lame-ass ? nobody cares columnists. we're talking about butt-sex here, hop on the bandwagon buddy. :haha:
jfwy. but really nobody cares about who frowns upon what. |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by jonSun
Damn Lira, thats some self control, esp with those hotty Brazilian women. :p |
Hehe, I've always believed that clicking with "the one" would be more satisfying than having it with girls I didn't care about that much :)
I don't regret having waited and, if I didn't meet my girlfriend, I wouldn't mind waiting longer.
edit: "Alive 1997" rocks!  |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by philliez
jfwy. |
What acronym is this? |
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| lücid |
i love when i can talk about getting anally penetrated and what kind of school i'd send my kids to all in the same thread.
"mommy likes buttsex, and you're going to public school!" |
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| philliez |
| quote: | Originally posted by Lira
What acronym is this? |
just in with you |
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| DJ RJT |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
i love when i can talk about getting anally penetrated and what kind of school i'd send my kids to all in the same thread.
"mommy likes buttsex, and you're going to public school!" |
No kids.
You better not have stopped taking the pill on me, if so, you better get ready for a plenty of anal penetration ;) |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
i agree.
i went to a public school in a pretty poor community, and didn't even touch drugs until after i graduated and started hanging out with rich kids at my friend's college. i was a pretty tame girl... i mean i was no angel, i got into my fair share of trouble, but it wasn't nearly as bad as the things i heard about from my friends at private schools.
if was going to have kids, i would be a pretty leniant parent. i think the more restrictions you put on a child, the more they want to rebel. my mom was very leniant with me and let me have a LOT of freedom when i was young. she was very open and straightforward with me about what is right and wrong, and ever since i was a very little kid she educated me to always be able to make my own decisions. she put a lot of trust in me instead of putting rules and restrictions on everything i do, and in return, i repaid her by being a smart and responsible kid. i knew that if i betrayed her trust, she wouldn't let me have as much freedom as i had, and i didn't want to lose that freedom.
granted not everyone can be raised like that... but it seemed to work fine for my family.
a perfect example of too much structure would be my cousin. her parents were so strict that they held her back a grade because they thought she wasn't ready for high school, she was never allowed to go to parties or go out with boys, she had a very strict curfew, and basically just didn't have any freedom... then when she went away to college, within her first semester she had experimented with a few different drugs, had sex with multiple partners including a three-some with her roommate, and got drunk almost every single night. |
yea i agree with a lot of what you're saying too. i definitely won't be forbidding my kids to do anything because that usually just makes them want to rebel. the only thing i'm going to be strict about is school.
also, u guys are confusing "private schools" with same sex schools. yea, i knew a ton of rich spoiled pothead kids who went to private catholic schools too. i think there's a bit of a difference with the same sex ones. there's just not that distraction of the opposite sex at a place for learning and i think that's important. all that stuff is for the weekends, which i wont have a problem with, but at the same time, there will be ground rules n stuff.
ideally, i'd like my husband and me to be the parents who are pretty easy going and laid back, and i will definitely be the "party house", meaning my kids can throw parties whenever, or have sleepovers whenever, as long as i'm there, but i'll be in my room with my husband to give them privacy...stuff like that. |
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| Moral Hazard |
| quote: | Originally posted by DJ RJT
You better not have stopped taking the pill on me, if so, you better get ready for a plenty of anal penetration ;) |
That was my ex and I's principle form of birth control. |
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| DJ RJT |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
i knew a ton of rich spoiled pothead kids who went to private catholic schools too. |
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| philliez |
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
like I said, she is not going to be so sheltered that she won’t know what a boy is. I’m not that stupid. She will have a social life including boys and she’ll be allowed to have boyfriends and all that. this isn’t about trying to keep her a virgin…I was just pointing out that during the week in school, she should be there to learn, not to have the coolest outfit, the latest gossip, a boyfriend walking her to every class where they make out, etc…that’s not school, that’s a social life…and sadly, that’s how it is in public schools.
Just because she’ll go to an all girls school, doesn’t mean it’s going to be out in some isolated area where she’ll never see a boy or anything like that. Trust me, I know I haven’t exactly been an angel, but I have the right idea about raising kids for some reason. I’m not too strict, but I’m principled and I’m not going to have some typical, disrespectful slutty and/or “badass” daughter or son. My kids aren’t going to have their own TVs with cable/Tivo, a cell phone, a laptop, a brand new car, etc…they’re not going to be 14 years old with their own internet access and myspace pages for perverts to look at. just stuff like that, i am strict on because i know how i was and what i was exposed to. i dont think i'm going to be able to keep my kids from doing things like trying pot and having sex though. i will keep a good enough relationship with them to where they will feel comfortable coming to me with certain issues, like my mom was with me. when i lost my virginity, i told her, and she put me on birth control right away without yelling at me or anything. she lectured a little bit about safe sex and stuff, but that was it. that's how i want to be with my daughter. |
I dont understand this mentality. Don't you trust that if your children are intelligent and you teach them to make good decisions, and to appreciate what they have so they dont become spoiled and irresponible that they will have better judgement in life than those who are sheltered (I know you said you aren't going to shelter them, but for lack of a better word I'll say 'sheltered') and will probably go do the 'wrong' thing to the extreme because of it? |
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| Lira |
| quote: | Originally posted by philliez
just in with you |
Ah, thanks :) |
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