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What's your little "move" that you do to get girls/guys to notice you? (pg. 7)
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| StanVoid |
| quote: | Originally posted by all-nite-freak
slylee, put the flaming aside and tell me how you met craig then...no jokes im curious.
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on craigslist
get it? |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by all-nite-freak
rofl
a man is not an egotistical just because he refuses to bend over backwards:p
we are talking bar here, not church.
why is it too easy.I'd rather talk to someone who is truly interested and not trolling for drinks.
slylee, put the flaming aside and tell me how you met craig then...no jokes im curious. |
touche'
well what if u met a chick at a bookstore?
would u walk up to her and offer a book on kama sutra and give her the wink and the gun and say, "call me, i'm an all-nite-freak"
:stongue:
actually i would love to tell how i met craiggy:) i had just broken up with my ex and was truly happy to be going through the breakup and i was looking very forward to being single for the first time in my life. i went with a very cool chick friend of mine to an 80's rock lounge in south beach called Rokbar. my friend was spinning there that night and so i was there with her, dancing and having a good time and not even looking around for hot guys at all. i was clearly not interested in meeting any.
but little did i know that craig had walked in about 20 minutes earlier and took a once-over around the place (it's a small lounge) and zoomed in on me and watched me for about a half hour to see how i was and if i was with anyone and then finally, for the first time in his life, approached me. he had never approached anyone before.
he tapped me on the shoulder and i turned around like, " :eyes: HELLO" and we danced around together and tried to talk a bit over the music. he never bought me a drink because i was already pretty buzzed but he didnt offer to anyway.
we discovered that we both worked in ft. lauderdale and he said, "OH! well we'll have to do lunch then!" so i got his number in my cell phone and he did the cutest, funniest, most OCD thing i've ever heard of in my life. he made an actual date for me to call him:wtf: instead of like, "yea call me" he was like, "call me on ummm *thinking* like wednesday at 8 o'clock ok?"
i was like, "um, ok"
and then i left and blew him a kiss and the rest is history.
so :p
moral of the story - love certainly comes your way when you least expect it. if u would have told me i was going to meet the love of my life that night before i left, i would have laughed my ass off. |
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| venomX |
| quote: | Originally posted by all-nite-freak
rofl
a man is not an egotistical just because he refuses to bend over backwards:p
we are talking bar here, not church.
why is it too easy.I'd rather talk to someone who is truly interested and not trolling for drinks.
slylee, put the flaming aside and tell me how you met craig then...no jokes im curious.
welcome to the year 2006, why are men the only ones allowed to chase then? |
i agree on this one, if a woman wants me she better show some interest. if not she can go hang out with the pansy guys that chase after her and make her feel good because men chase her around and that rubs her ego. there's a lot of women out there but very little interesting men. |
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| Slylee |
oh yea and welcome to the year 2006 where women buy men drinks and meet them at bars and restaurants and then have no strings attached sex. why dont they just lay on their backs right there at the bar and spread their legs.
sorry, i'm kinda old fashioned about that. i give just enough of an interest so that they know i'm interested, but if you want to take me out or something, u gotta say so...but i dont mind taking the lead a little. i guess u could say i'm 50/50, but i'm not really the type of chick to like buy a guy a drink or send over my number on a piece of paper or something. i'd rather just smile at him and hope he gets the point that i want him to come over and talk to me. i hate having to spell everything out. |
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| all-nite-freak |
ok, so my question is if he would have introduced himself and walked away would you have made the effort to go see him?
and fyi the all-nite-freak isnt a sexual reference, but more of a description of my afterhour behavior;)
i dont let women buy me drinks, im old fashioned when it comes to paying,but when it comes to romance i need chemistry.
random sports were for when i was 19, believe it or not i might have a softer side most of you dont know about.TA is my outlet to get the inner prick out,because punching is sooooo1993
| quote: | Originally posted by Slylee
sorry, i'm kinda old fashioned about that. i give just enough of an interest so that they know i'm interested, |
that was the same thing i was saying in the first place. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by all-nite-freak
ok, so my question is if he would have introduced himself and walked away would you have made the effort to go see him?
and fyi the all-nite-freak isnt a sexual reference, but more of a description of my afterhour behavior;)
i dont let women buy me drinks, im old fashioned when it comes to paying,but when it comes to romance i need chemistry.
random sports were for when i was 19, believe it or not i might have a softer side most of you dont know about.TA is my outlet to get the inner prick out,because punching is sooooo1993 |
well how interesting that we can't stand each other and are so much alike:toothless
anyway, no i wouldn't have gone up to him because i honestly didn't know he was alive. for the first time in my life i wasn't on the prowl looking around for hotties...i seriously just didn't care and was there with my girl to have a good time. but when he came up to me, i was shocked that i hadn't noticed him yet because he is exactly my type, physically.
it's so cute when he tells me how he was nervous and kept chickening out to go up to me, and finally he was like, " it i'm gonna go talk to her"
ok ok i'll stop now i'm sure most of you are gagging. |
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| Slylee |
| quote: | Originally posted by StanVoid
on craigslist
get it? |
omg u gotta hear something funny. i still talk to my ex on msn and stuff and we're still good friends...anyway, when i created that thread "post funny craigslist ads" i saw some really funny ones on there that i wanted to share with him, so i msg him some links and i was like telling him "look what i found on craigslist hahahah"
and he totally didn't understand it was a website (hadn't heard of it) so he thought i was showing him links to things that craig (my bf) looks at. and of course i was shwoing him personal ads from trannies n . and anyway, my ex was like, "umm, why is that funny that he's looking at that stuff?" and i was like, "HUH?"
and then i cracked up and explained to him what craigslist was and he was like OOOH!
:stongue:
just thought i'd share, i thought it was hilarious. |
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| all-nite-freak |
well you see, he is the love of youre life, but you wouldnt have chased him...
you would have missed out...
its not like i make women jump through hoops, but if they show me they are really interested then i go the extra mile to explore and make things interesting.
I have no time for women who have hidden or selfish agendas.
relationships involve 2 people not 1;)
and to love someone else you have to be able to be true to yourself, love yourself, and accept no substitutes. |
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| Slylee |
i know and i'm thankful that he was paying attention to me. honestly though, i think i would have noticed him eventually that night and if i did i would have checked him out a lot and smiled or something.
who knows...i'll never know. i'm just happy he came up to a girl for the first time in his life that night and that girl was me:)
i could on forever about that night, and what his perspective on it was and mine...he thinks that i sort of connected with him before he approached me cuz he said it was like as soon as he said, " it, i'm gonna talk to her" and got up, i turned and took a few steps towards him but still wasn't looking at him. but i was about to turn around as he tapped me on the shoulder. it was like at the same time. he thought it was weird. |
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| UWM |
| They don't even notice me before the chloroform rag takes effect ... |
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| all-nite-freak |
ok too friendly now
you slylee craig is a fag:p |
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| Theresa |
At the bar, I usually go up to the guy and strike up a conversation somehow. Either I mention something about their clothes, their drink... anything to get him talking.
While he is talking, I calculate his repsonse and behaviour towards me, and then decide accordingly to either stick around and keep chatting, or move on.
I usually say something like "we should get in touch", or "I hope to talk to you soon", to give him the open door to ask for my number. If he doesn't, I assume he wasn't that interested and move on.
Anywhere else, I do pretty much the same thing. Talk about something relating to where we are, or something in the immediate situation. If I have NOTHING to talk about, or can't think of something good to say, I will do the "you look familiar" tactic.
But usually, I figure since I made the first move to show interest, the guy should reciprocate by asking for my number. I wont ask for his number unless he approached me.
Oh.. if I see a guy across the room (specifically in the bar,) and I catch his attention to give him a smile, and he seems interested, I will "coyly" meander off, but will plan to "bump" into him later, or pass his table.
I am very extroverted and proud of it. I have no qualms whatsoever about approaching guys. It's like a game for me :D |
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