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Haha, I just love women... "Nice guys finish last" Part Deux
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| HardTranceProd |
Straight from the horse's mouth, posted on a "girls-only" board
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I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months. We have a great relationship. We get along so well, he cracks me up so much, we never have any major arguments rather little dissagreements, he treats me so well, he listens to me and he is the guy that I have always wanted to be with and grow old with. I can tell the difference between the way he feels about me, and the way my ex used to feel about me and its a great feeling to be genuinally loved.
So this is my problem.
Last night, I was cuddling up to him on the couch watching the season finale of Grey's Anatomy when all of a sudden I couldnt stand him touching me and I had this flashing thought in my head about how its not what I want. I think most of it was that I just got annoyed at being touched all night. I know it sounds crazy, but sometimes I just want to sit on my own and dont want to have my arm rubbed or my stomach rubbed. I told him and pulled away from him and he didnt get annoyed or anything, he just stopped. And I know that he didnt get upset with me, he knows I do that sometimes. But I couldnt stop thinking for the rest of the night about the other thought about it not being what I want.
I am totally crazy. For years, I have wanted the exact type of guy that he is. I liked him for so long, and I love him. I do, I love everything about him. I have complete trust in him and its a great feeling. I dont miss my ex and I dont want him back, but we had this amazing spark and thats the only thing I miss that I dont have with my boyfriend.
I dont want to end this relationship. I want him to be the guy I marry. I love him, I think he is the hottest guy and the best guy you could ever want to have a relationship with. He suits me so well, even though he is so different from me. He makes me very happy. Its just a passing thought about not wanting to be with him, even though I just want to not have these feelings. I just want to let my thoughts out and get over these feelings. Part of me thinks that Im still used to the highs and lows of being treated like crap and all the bad boys stuff that goes with it. I guess I always thought that being in a relationship with a good guy who loves me, would mean I never had any negative thoughts.
Does anyone relate? Can anyone give me some feedback?
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| Clovis |
| Could you summarize that in one syllable? |
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| all-nite-freak |
| quote: | Originally posted by Clovis
Could you summarize that in one syllable? |
fap |
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| nrjizer |
| What a dumb bitch. |
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| Clovis |
| quote: | Originally posted by all-nite-freak
fap |
ho |
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| Theresa |
| quote: | Originally posted by Clovis
Could you summarize that in one syllable? |
Crap. |
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| HardTranceProd |
| quote: | Originally posted by Clovis
Could you summarize that in one syllable? |
c'mon - it's not that long, read it.
If I were to summarize, all the juiciness and power of that message would be lost on you :) it's better if a girl does it! :stongue: |
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| all-nite-freak |
| quote: | Originally posted by Clovis
ho |
skeet? |
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| Clovis |
| quote: | Originally posted by HardTranceProd
c'mon - it's not that long, read it.
If I were to summarize, all the juiciness and power of that message would be lost on you :) it's better if a girl does it! :stongue: |
Believe it or not I read the whole thing twice before posting that. The idea was entertaining. |
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| HardTranceProd |
| quote: | Originally posted by all-nite-freak
repost:p |
No, you're wrong: This is Part DEUX. For you Montrealers ;) |
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