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| StanVoid |
So yesterday I stayed out pretty late with coworkers, drinking at a local bar. I got pretty sloshed and it came time to go home. Except I wasn't going home, I was gonna crash at my girl's so I just went there. However, it was 2am in the morning, and my buddy (whom i work with) had to get home too. But he lives in Jersey, which is a long ass way from where we were in NYC. I told him he can take my keys and just crash in my apartment since I live in the city. So I give him the keys, send him off, and go my own way.
When I get off the train about 40 minutes later, my phone is going. It's one of my roomates. Now, I share an apartment with 2 girls - and I forgot to phone them and warn them that someone else was gonna sleep in my room instead of me lol. Pretty ing stupid of me, but given my condition at the moment I simply forgot. So my roomate is FREAKING OUT on the phone, yelling at me, telling me not to ever ing do it again, how it was real scary, all that. I felt horrible, and I'm bugging out over it now, cuz I gotta go back home tonight and face them. So any advice on what I can do to smooth this out even a little bit?
I was thinking like getting a boquet of flowers and bringing it home or some .
SHORT VERSION: I got drunk, went to a girl's place instead of my home, and told my friend that he can go and crash at my place since he lives far. He went, and my roomates flipped out cuz I didn't warn them and they had to deal with a stranger coming into the house at 2am. What can I do to get on their good side again. They're both girls. |
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| DigitalPhoenix |
| Tell them you realize you were a cvnt and cook dinner for them... |
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| nchs09 |
| ya u kinda made a mistake... but wtvr.. it was a mistake... tell them it wont happen again and that ur sorry. |
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| Marc Summers |
| WHAT'S A BRUUKLIN STIYAL PEETZA?! WHAT AH YA NUTZ?! |
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| AndreaCKY772 |
| quote: | Originally posted by nchs09
ya u kinda made a mistake... but wtvr.. it was a mistake... tell them it wont happen again and that ur sorry. |
agreed
they should accept your apology over that |
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| Silky Johnson |
| Yeah man, just apologize and be accountable for your mistake. I'm sure the flowers would be a nice touch too. :) |
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| grooviebeats |
| just say sorry.. explain the whole thing to them..they should be fine with it.. might be like never do that again.. but no reason they would be super pissed. |
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| nchs09 |
| ya def dont take flowers... or they will think ur a bitch. just an apology:disbelief |
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| Ian |
| chocolates, and offer to clean the bathroom |
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| nchs09 |
| quote: | Originally posted by grooviebeats
just say sorry.. explain the whole thing to them..they should be fine with it.. might be like never do that again.. but no reason they would be super pissed. |
i think they do have a reason to be angry.. u know when u live with someone u have to take them into account. now an explination will be nice but make shure to not make it an excuse...
i like this thread.. it has like a porpuse.. its not just a dumb cor thread.. which i like from time to time.. but i like this better :D |
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| asfdz |
| quote: | Originally posted by StanVoid
So yesterday I stayed out pretty late with coworkers, drinking at a local bar. I got pretty sloshed and it came time to go home. Except I wasn't going home, I was gonna crash at my girl's so I just went there. However, it was 2am in the morning, and my buddy (whom i work with) had to get home too. But he lives in Jersey, which is a long ass way from where we were in NYC. I told him he can take my keys and just crash in my apartment since I live in the city. So I give him the keys, send him off, and go my own way.
When I get off the train about 40 minutes later, my phone is going. It's one of my roomates. Now, I share an apartment with 2 girls - and I forgot to phone them and warn them that someone else was gonna sleep in my room instead of me lol. Pretty ing stupid of me, but given my condition at the moment I simply forgot. So my roomate is FREAKING OUT on the phone, yelling at me, telling me not to ever ing do it again, how it was real scary, all that. I felt horrible, and I'm bugging out over it now, cuz I gotta go back home tonight and face them. So any advice on what I can do to smooth this out even a little bit?
I was thinking like getting a boquet of flowers and bringing it home or some .
SHORT VERSION: I got drunk, went to a girl's place instead of my home, and told my friend that he can go and crash at my place since he lives far. He went, and my roomates flipped out cuz I didn't warn them and they had to deal with a stranger coming into the house at 2am. What can I do to get on their good side again. They're both girls. |
They liked it. |
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| Slylee |
no biggie. just apologize. it's not the end of the world, and you're human.
they ARE chicks though, and most chicks are overly touchy about stupid like that.
if you had 2 guy roommates, they probably would have continued drinking with him. lol
guys > girls.
anyway, ur gonna have to grovel a bit. just make sure you use the words, "will never happen again". |
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