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back to the city or...not? (pg. 2)
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| ZxZDeViLZxZ |
| move become a crackwhore and live an eventfull life being a small town bicycle..... ohhh doesnt it only take like 2 hours to get from oneside of mass to the other side? en people bitching about short drives bla bla bla go live someplace where its bigger and quit your ing bitchen? or just as i said become a drug addicted whore and live two lifes so your allways got going on? |
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| AndreaCKY772 |
| quote: | Originally posted by ZxZDeViLZxZ
move become a crackwhore and live an eventfull life being a small town bicycle..... ohhh doesnt it only take like 2 hours to get from oneside of mass to the other side? en people bitching about short drives bla bla bla go live someplace where its bigger and quit your ing bitchen? or just as i said become a drug addicted whore and live two lifes so your allways got going on? |
i think i have the gist of that...message. no one is bitching here. |
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| Omega_M |
| Dump his ass, go to t3h city and find yourself a new FB. 0_o |
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| Spacey Orange |
| both of you are dating the wrong person. |
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| gehzumteufel |
damn andrea i thought you were a bit older than 21. your like me youve been through a ton of and had to grow up quickly.
from a neutral pov i say tell the bf the way you feel. i dont personally think this will yield anything because he is 28. ready to settle down. your 21 just starting to get your groove on. you both seem to be at different points in life. don't settle. you will be mad that you did. you will also be miserable. not saying he is a bad guy or anything but he is wanting things you just aren't ready for. also...21 and living with the bf? thats just nuts. too early. way to early. you still have yet to fully explore yourself let alone explore yourself with the burden of a bf right there while your doing it. |
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| Project-K |
| quote: | | Originally posted by AndreaCKY772 and you don't mind the drive, right? i don't think i would have a problem with driving back and forth... |
I take the metro, and it's a pain in the ass. But it's a sacrifice I'm willing to take to work in the heart of downtown. If I had a car it would be a thousand times more pleasant. So yeah, I'd say it's well worth a drive. |
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| Inconspicuous |
I'm only going by the title & not whatever situation you're referencing, but living in a city is always better than living elsewhere (I've spent half my life in each). Unless you're 8 or have 5-year-old children and, thus, have use for big expanses of grass, the advantages of having everything close by and never being without something to do FAR outweigh the advantages of, say, a bigger place to sit around and watch tv.
Then again, I also have a strong dislike for Boston. I say move to another city. |
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| ZxZDeViLZxZ |
| quote: | Originally posted by gehzumteufel
damn andrea i thought you were a bit older than 21. your like me youve been through a ton of and had to grow up quickly.
from a neutral pov i say tell the bf the way you feel. i dont personally think this will yield anything because he is 28. ready to settle down. your 21 just starting to get your groove on. you both seem to be at different points in life. don't settle. you will be mad that you did. you will also be miserable. not saying he is a bad guy or anything but he is wanting things you just aren't ready for. also...21 and living with the bf? thats just nuts. too early. way to early. you still have yet to fully explore yourself let alone explore yourself with the burden of a bf right there while your doing it. |
hinting to a lesbain sex video? butter them up hint some exploration of oneself and hope for video footage?
btw no ones bitching but just a randomness at its best possibly? |
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| AndreaCKY772 |
honestly, thanks for the opinions all...
gehzumteufel, i fear the most that whatever decision i make, i will regret it. like if i move to the city and i lost a great guy, or if i stay in western mass and i'm not happy and i'm not having fun when i'm young. i guess that's life.
so...i hope everything turns out for the best. i am a believer of, "whatever happens happens" and a bit of me believes that things happen for a reason. i hope i make the right choice. right now, i'm leaning towards the city... for the past couple of weeks or maybe past months i've been switching my decision in my head, constantly. |
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| CranberryJuice |
andrea i would say that u rather feel living in the city so if u can do it ...do it
imagine ...u finally stay with your boyfriend in the country.....u do realize it's exactly what u wanted to avoid and u feel like u did the wrong choice , u wont feel happy and im sure at the end it could ruin your relationship because it could happen due to the frustration u finally totally blame your situation on your boyfriend.....
so yeah go to the city if it's really what u feel doing even if it's for let's say only a couple of months ....and then u realize u finally feel ready and would feel better near ur boyfriend in the country but i would say experience both of lives and see which ones u fit better in :)
and like myra said 2 hours away from your boyfriend isnt that bad
good luck ;) |
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| emc^2 |
21 - 28 is not A BIG age difference. I had a 5 year age difference with my x-gf and we broke up for exactly the same reasons - I was established, had a profession, some sort of outlook and she was in college, just starting out. So, it definitely took a toll on us. She spent most of her time studying, I felt neglected... so we broke it off. in retrospect, I regretted the decission for a long time but in the end it worked out for both.... Ironically, she's with an older guy (10 years older than she is) and I am.... with her brother's best friend's sister.
I think I got a better part of the bargain... :clown:
that's my mantra and I'm sticking to it! So what that she has a Ph.D. in Business from ivy league school and has a 6 figure income, and more mature, and more responsible, and... a squirter with bi tendencies!!! Who cares about all that!!! Right?
Ah, who am I kidding?!  |
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| gehzumteufel |
| quote: | Originally posted by AndreaCKY772
honestly, thanks for the opinions all...
gehzumteufel, i fear the most that whatever decision i make, i will regret it. like if i move to the city and i lost a great guy, or if i stay in western mass and i'm not happy and i'm not having fun when i'm young. i guess that's life. |
well unfortunately your going to be miserable to start out whichever you choose. if you choose to move then you will be sad that things may go sour with the bf but if you stay there things could go just as sour because your miserable. so really would like to be miserable in more ways than one or would you rather be miserable in 1 aspect of your life? its better to know you left something that was good than to never take a risk and life a life full of what ifs.
and dont regret. you are who you are because of the that happened. you may not be proud of you did but dont regret what happened. hindsight is 20/20. |
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