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back to the city or...not? (pg. 3)
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| AndreaCKY772 |
| quote: | Originally posted by CranberryJuice
at the end it could ruin your relationship because it could happen due to the frustration u finally totally blame your situation on your boyfriend.....
so yeah go to the city if it's really what u feel doing even if it's for let's say only a couple of months ....and then u realize u finally feel ready and would feel better near ur boyfriend in the country but i would say experience both of lives and see which ones u fit better in :)
and like myra said 2 hours away from your boyfriend isnt that bad
good luck ;) |
yes! those are crucial points. the relationship could not turn out well because of me being frustrated.
| quote: | Originally posted by emc^2
but in the end it worked out for both.... |
that's definitely good it worked out...
| quote: | Originally posted by gehzumteufel
and dont regret. you are who you are because of the that happened. you may not be proud of you did but dont regret what happened. hindsight is 20/20. |
that will stick in my head forever!:) |
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| gehzumteufel |
| quote: | Originally posted by AndreaCKY772
that will stick in my head forever!:) |
:) this was a hard thing to learn to do. i dont regret anything i have done but i can say i have things i did in my past that when i think about it im like...wow was i stupid. |
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| Allied Nations |
| quote: | Originally posted by Project-K
It's not irrational at all. Your environment plays a huge part in your day-to-day life. If you're not happy in the country, don't stay there. I for one couldn't stand living anywhere to far from a major metropolis. It's a completely different social environment. |
How can you say that and live in Laval! That's light years away from montreal! :p
Oh and not living in a city... for me it's either in a city or completely isolated in mts, etc. no inbetween suburbia bs |
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| gehzumteufel |
| quote: | Originally posted by Allied Nations
Oh and not living in a city... for me it's either in a city or completely isolated in mts, etc. no inbetween suburbia bs |
haha im kinda the same but i say the mountains. i love going there here and there as a getaway but i love being either suburb or in the city. preferably in the city. :) |
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| lücid |
| i cannot wait to move back into the city. suburbs can suck my ass. |
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| Allied Nations |
| quote: | Originally posted by gehzumteufel
haha im kinda the same but i say the mountains. i love going there here and there as a getaway but i love being either suburb or in the city. preferably in the city. :) |
well mountain, lake, etc, i just mean a more natural, more isolate place.
all or nothing for me |
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| Sunsnail |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
i cannot wait to move back into the city. suburbs can suck my ass. |
I can't stand suburbs. urban or rural for me. |
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| gehzumteufel |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
i cannot wait to move back into the city. suburbs can suck my ass. |
lol well i dont like the total suburb. i like that just on the fringe of the big city but i have wanted to live in a city high rise for a while now. |
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| Project-K |
| quote: | Originally posted by Allied Nations
How can you say that and live in Laval! That's light years away from montreal! :p |
I know, and I hate it. :/
There's so little to do here it's not even funny. I can't move out right now because I simply can't afford it. The rents downtown are just crazy. I barely go out because with the ty transport services we have, I have to leave downtown by 11 (as in, when all the fun stuff starts) if I want to get home before 2am, or at all. A couple of times I've pulled all-nighters, but only when I didn't have work or school the next day. If I'm lucky I can catch a train (real train, not crappy metro!) and get home in just a little over an hour, which is nice. The most I'm doing these days is going to a poker tournament twice a week (mclean's on mondays ;) ) and even then, sometimes I make final table and I have to give up all my chips and go home because the last train of the night is about to leave. Believe me I can't wait to move away from here. |
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| gehzumteufel |
| quote: | Originally posted by Project-K
I know, and I hate it. :/
There's so little to do here it's not even funny. I can't move out right now because I simply can't afford it. The rents downtown are just crazy. I barely go out because with the ty transport services we have, I have to leave downtown by 11 (as in, when all the fun stuff starts) if I want to get home before 2am, or at all. A couple of times I've pulled all-nighters, but only when I didn't have work or school the next day. If I'm lucky I can catch a train (real train, not crappy metro!) and get home in just a little over an hour, which is nice. The most I'm doing these days is going to a poker tournament twice a week (mclean's on mondays ;) ) and even then, sometimes I make final table and I have to give up all my chips and go home because the last train of the night is about to leave. Believe me I can't wait to move away from here. |
dude that SUCKS! i used to live in a small town and ing hated it there. none of the pub transit came there and had to drive EVERYWHERE. the pub transit sucked for the city area too since it wasnt a large metro area. it was just a small city with 1mil people. so i feel your pain. thank god i wasnt 21+ then either though. |
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| Omega_M |
| quote: | Originally posted by emc^2
21 - 28 is not A BIG age difference. I had a 5 year age difference with my x-gf and we broke up for exactly the same reasons - I was established, had a profession, some sort of outlook and she was in college, just starting out. So, it definitely took a toll on us. She spent most of her time studying, I felt neglected... so we broke it off. in retrospect, I regretted the decission for a long time but in the end it worked out for both.... Ironically, she's with an older guy (10 years older than she is) and I am.... with her brother's best friend's sister.
I think I got a better part of the bargain... :clown:
that's my mantra and I'm sticking to it! So what that she has a Ph.D. in Business from ivy league school and has a 6 figure income, and more mature, and more responsible, and... a squirter with bi tendencies!!! Who cares about all that!!! Right?
Ah, who am I kidding?!  |
Good deal !!
loser
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| UWM |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
i cannot wait to move back into the city. suburbs can suck my ass. |
QFT. Less than two months for me. FTW! |
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