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| Theresa |
I am curious... is it healthy for a couple NOT to argue or fight?
Is it normal for two people to never yell at each other, to never get really angry?
They can still have disagreements, but they talk them out and it's usually let go pretty much immediately, but there is never someone yelling, never an angry outburst...
Is that a good thing? |
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| nchs09 |
| quote: | Originally posted by Theresa
I am curious... is it healthy for a couple NOT to argue or fight?
Is it normal for two people to never yell at each other, to never get really angry?
They can still have disagreements, but they talk them out and it's usually let go pretty much immediately, but there is never someone yelling, never an angry outburst...
Is that a good thing? |
i dont see anything wrong as long as the problems are being worked out.; |
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| Zoso |
| STFU and make me a turkey pot pie! |
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| stace |
Me and G don't argue properly.
Basically I get in a strop and he puts up with me. |
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| lücid |
that's kind of a silly question. what's healthy for one relationship might not be so healthy for the next. it all depends on the way you and your partner communicate.
some couples are really good at fighting (not to say that's a bad thing - i think it's healthy to have a good argument every once in a while as long as you're not crossing lines or being an utter douche). other couples are really good at solving their problems/issues in a laid-back and mature manner.
as long as you feel your relationship is "healthy" then i don't think it really matters. |
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| idoru |
| quote: | Originally posted by lücid
as long as you feel your relationship is "healthy" then i don't think it really matters. |
Bingo. My parents have never fought and they couldn't be happier. On the other hand, my grandparents from both sides of my family argue often and they've been together for 40-50 years. |
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| Frenchie |
Oh lord another thread.:rolleyes:
You're almost as bad as EFeKz:p
Exactly what Myra said was what I thought when I was reading the title.
For a lot of couple arguing is their way of learning about one another, finding out what crawls beneath your skin, what ticks you off, what pleases you ,what to and not to say. I don't think that arguing is immature at all, it's a way of dealing. For the couples that don't argue at all ( which I find nearly impossible ) kudos to them. It takes a lot not to argue and if they can do that, cool. I so, however, think more things are solved verbally rather than not. Arguing doesn't necessarily mean hurtful nasty things are said, there are different levels that arguing can take place. |
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| mezzir |
meh
my gf tells me that we're in a fight (lamest thing ever btw, and yes i know you're reading this liz) every couple days, but i mean who the hell cares? never over anything big, and never anything we couldn't work out very easily
arguments aren't always a bad thing
i live with my sister, and honestly we've never been in a fight, let alone a heated argument besides over music taste and such :p.
however, my best friend and i get into arguments every 10 minutes, and ones where it ends by him yelling at me at the top of his lungs and me sitting there laughing at him, and then 2 minutes later neither of us care
both situations work fine in the long run. so yeah, what lucid says. as long as you're both fine with the way you deal with differences of opinions, s'all cool |
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| Theresa |
| quote: | Originally posted by stren
dump him theresa |
LOL!!
I  you Bart. |
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| Moral Hazard |
| Mrs. Hazard and I have been together nearly 6 years now, no fights. No real arguments either. In our case we're just very good at finding compromise and finding it quickly. In cases were no compromise can be reached we're usually very good at recognizing that the issue at hand will mean more to one of us then the other and we will defer to which ever of us it means more to. We've never really found an issue to lock horns over... either we agree, find middle ground or one of us really just doesn't care enough to dig in our heels. |
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| Vlad |
| Personally, I dont think its a big deal... eventually youll find stuff to bitch about, I think it totally depends on the people... confrontational people are more likely to fight and argue, obviously the opposite for the latter. |
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