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| drivingforce |
| Ok well my girlfriend of 2 and half years finally has agreed to doing a threesome with antoher girl. Now this completely blind sided me cause I never expected her to agree to it in a million years. Now that she wants to do it....the thing I need help with is where and how should I look. Should I go for a stranger or one of her friends or my friends? If with stranger should I go at it alone to pick the girl up then bring her back or should both me and my gf be at bar or club to pick girl up? Im just trying to figure out the way to conduct the next step. Any ideas or personal experience would be greatly appreciated. |
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| EXTREMUM |
Keep it within the group, meaning someone you two are mutual friends with. From experience, you won't regret it. Don't ever bring a stranger into the mix - it s up everything.
Good luck! |
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| lücid |
| make your girlfriend do the work. it's less sketchy than you going out and picking up a new girl, and will make your girlfriend less jealous/posessive when all is said and done. |
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| Frenchie |
| Like Lucid said, let her get the other woman. After all she's the one who agreed to this little plan so she's going to want pick someone she feels she'll be comfortable and confident with. |
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| DigitalPhoenix |
Ususally it's easier if the girl is someone you know, but wont pose a "threat" to your relationship.
A stranger may be hot to you but when the nitty gritty goes down,
she may fell nervous and back out...unless she's drunk..LOL! |
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| EXTREMUM |
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
Like Lucid said, let her get the other woman. After all she's the one who agreed to this little plan so she's going to want pick someone she feels she'll be comfortable and confident with. |
I slightly disagree. I believe if it's going to be a 'group thing', then make the choosing a 'group effort', to where both parties are comfortable with the third individual, not just the woman. |
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| SuspicionVandit |
| quote: | Originally posted by DigitalPhoenix
pose a "threat" to your relationship. |
Dr. Drew says your relationship is going to fall apart |
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| Frenchie |
Pffft, the guy doesn't care. As long as he has another hot in his bed he's set. :p
EDIT: And besides, it's not like she's going to get a girl that is going to look like she got run over by a truck or seems like she won't do it, her boyfriend wants this obvious very much so she's going to get someone (good), and she doesn't want to do a 3some with some butter face either. |
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| EXTREMUM |
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
Pffft, the guy doesn't care. As long as he has another hot in his bed he's set. :p |
And, if it's not a hot , then he'd withdraw. Us men are not as simple, as you think we are. :rolleyes: |
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| drivingforce |
| cool thanks so far guys...i figured it would of been better to keep it in the group but a friend of mine said that might make things weird or awkard. Also the other thing is setting, should like we all go bar hoping get little drunk to lossen things up...or just give them both rophie collada's lol. |
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| lücid |
| quote: | Originally posted by EXTREMUM
It slightly disagree. I believe if it's going to be a 'group thing', then make the choosing a group effort, to where both parties are comfortable with the third individual. |
it can still be a group thing. i just think it's more fair for the chick to do the choosing/flirting/etc... i mean the guy is already winning either way, he gets to hook up with his gf and another chick at the same time. at least let the girl have her fun and make it seem like it's all for her... that way she won't get jealous or paranoid about her man with another chick. |
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