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Relation with your parents (pg. 5)
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| pinkz |
My parents think that I'm a wonderful Virgin girl, who goes to school and comes straight home.
They think they know me but they have nooooo idea, lol.
I love them a lot! I did have a huge problem with my parents around a year ago but we sat down and talked about it and things have been better ever since :) *simply put* |
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| Omega_M |
| quote: | Originally posted by Spike
not if you knew my father, otherwise id agree with you |
Wishing someone death is disgusting, especially for the person who is the very reason for your existence. |
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| Frenchie |
| You don't know what his father has done to his family so you're in no position to say that. I understand him fully as I semi wish the same towards mine. |
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| Omega_M |
| There's no reason to wish death to anyone, unless they intend to kill you. |
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| Mr.Mystery |
My parents are fantastic. In fact, ever since I "grew up" and moved out they've been more like friends than parents. I can even go drinking with them every now and then.
Even as a teen I never had any problems with them - sure, we had the occasional fight and whatnot but that's what every teen goes through... |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
| quote: | Originally posted by Sushipunk
Interesting observation. So, do I come across as "an insane, spiritual hippy type"?
I never really thought about it from the opposite angle. |
Yeah, I just wanted to see who would deny it.
| quote: | Originally posted by Zharen
I find your statement to be a little too presumptuous. You can't just lump us all in that conclusion based on one's internet personality. |
Sure I can! Gosh, you are just like your mother.
| quote: | Originally posted by Sushipunk
Guilt is bull, and I don't buy into it. Not with family. |
That's exactly how I feel. Nobody should feel incriminated due to the actions of others. People who 'stick by their family no matter what' are idiots as far as I am concerned. Not because there isn't strength in the family unit, but because things such as love and respect should be earned, not given merely out of circumstance.
With that said, I love both of my parents - they have been divorced since I was 2, had several ty marriages ever since and put me through a lot of bull they didn't really want to, but they have also done a lot for me and I feel no shame in admitting that I possess many traits from both of them, even though I am in many ways a very different person than either. They have shown me a reason to respect them, and that is why I do.
Do I feel like I could tell them anything though? And not be judged? Not at all. My mom is a government spook and my dad is some sort of born-again er. :stongue: I barely talk to my mom and I hardly tell my dad anything of substance - is it because there is something wrong? Not at all. It's just the way my relationship with them is. |
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| Spike |
| quote: | Originally posted by Omega_M
Wishing someone death is disgusting, especially for the person who is the very reason for your existence. |
ha i dont think you would say that if your father was hitler. obviously my father is nothitler but i hope you see the analogy i am making |
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| Halcyon+On+On |
| This thread has Freud on the edge of his seat. |
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| I<3acid |
| quote: | Originally posted by Frenchie
You don't know what his father has done to his family so you're in no position to say that. I understand him fully as I semi wish the same towards mine. |
what happened with you? my father tried to kill me and my mother. I don't wish death on him, just leave home and change your last name, and take other precautions. |
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| Frenchie |
| quote: | Originally posted by I<3acid
what happened with you? my father tried to kill me and my mother. I don't wish death on him, just leave home and change your last name, and take other precautions. |
O_o?
I have my mothers last name, I don't live with my dad and wtf? Unlike others I don't give out info like that. |
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| LoveHate |
| quote: | Originally posted by pinkz
My parents think that I'm a wonderful Virgin girl, who goes to school and comes straight home.
They think they know me but they have nooooo idea, lol.
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someone should tell emm you post on ta! |
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| Frenchie |
| quote: | Originally posted by pinkz
My parents think that I'm a wonderful Virgin girl, who goes to school and comes straight home.
They think they know me but they have nooooo idea, lol.
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Well aren't you just the poster girl for MTV diaries. |
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